How to give a hickie (that lasts)?

biggieds

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Kissing and foreplay are awesome. For those who give hickies, do you have any advice on how to give ones that last for like a day or 2, instead of 1 min?


Thanks,
Dave
 
Instuctions

First sterlize a pair of vise grips by running alcohol over them or heating then in a flame. Then reach carefully into the wound....Sorry, that's about removing bullets from a fleshy area.....My mistake.....
 
NOT a good idea...

Yes, kissing and foreplay are indeed awesome, biggie... but what you want to do is almost inflicting an injury!

That's really all a hickey is, you know... a type of bruise (the colour comes from burst blood vessels). I can't really see the point of them, myself...
 
...Was always notorious for hickies, still am somewhat. Altho I have to be more careful now. Never started out that way, was always fascinated by a nice,sexy,chewable neck.
...Seems as things heated up, i became more agressive to my lover. Chewin', biting, lickin', and this all around the neck/ear /shoulder region. Would never really know, and most women don't complain ;) , until its over, and ya look at their neck, and its like, My gawd, you've been eat up.


Legs,tits,ass man...A nice sexy neck, hair pulled up, clipped and maybe the end hangin' down always did as much for me as anything...


...Ride safe, and always take the long way home....
 
My huby briuses like a peach, so any amount of sucking will end up with a bruise that lasts for a day or two*L* he never complains though!

I love having my neck kissed and sucked, it makes my knees go weak! though now i am a mother i try and make hubby NOT leave hickies,especially if i am going to church/mums/parent in laws any time soon!
 
Maiden-hunter said:
where did you get the smile in your sig from ??
I love it lol

Tis a secret :devil:

I can show you another :D

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Hickies? Ugh.

I hate looking as if my neck has been mauled by a bear - now that I'm 26. When I was a stupid young college thing - sometimes, I didn't mind so much. I was once told, "You wear them like a necklace - they way they ring your neck like that... it's kind of disturbing."

I do enjoy a few briuises from less than gentle bites - as long as they are somewhere no one else will be seeing them but me.

Not the neck, uh-uh, no way. It's too revealing of my personal life.
 
how...

hmm well I gave bf a little hickie LOL
I was kissing and sucking his shoulder and next thing I know a red spot is there lol
before he left he gave me a ncie one on my neck saying by the time its healing..
he will be back home and online talking to me.
tis how he did it.. he kissed my neck and then sank his teeth in it and sucked hard.
was there for 3-4 days.
 
i get really irriatted by hickies, love bites, whatevers. urgh. most annoying. esp when in the heat of the moment on a friday night, when somewhat blotto from a good night out with your partner he accidentally marks you, you figure, s'ok coz of course there is the whole weekend for it to disappear before you go to work... ur not this time :rolleyes: typical!

Hx
 
Makes me want to go out & start wearing turtlenecks again... but seeing as how spring & summer is just around the corner, it's gonna look ridiculous!:rolleyes:
 
woah a bruise huh, I never thought of it that way, I always thought of it as a sign or sex or eroticism
 
I just never knew it was a badge of honor to have a hickey! I always thought it was one of those "accidental" kinds of things that happen because in our youth we didn't know better.

But to each their own.:rolleyes:
 
I'm not that big on being marked LOL I prefer no marks in play
but I was a little proud when I left a cute one on bf MINEEE hehe

Lust Engine said:
I just never knew it was a badge of honor to have a hickey! I always thought it was one of those "accidental" kinds of things that happen because in our youth we didn't know better.

But to each their own.:rolleyes:
 
some people give hickies as a sign of ownership... it's like they've marked their partner, letting the world know they can admire, but not touch. The sub in me finds that extremely erotic, and I've always LOVED having hickies.

I have become a pro at sucking and biting without leaving marks (a learned thing, I tell you, it wasn't the way it always was)... but I am still adept at marking if need be...

just begin by kissing and licking the area... I find things easier to suck on if they're wet. Gently, begin to suck, while running your tongue over the area... as you suck harder, the gentle movement of your tongue will cushion the pain. Then begin to nibble... begin softly, and then bite harder, still swirling your tongue in between nibbles, easing the pain, etc. About ten minutes of this (while the sucking and biting gets a little harder each time) will leave a hickey for a week.

And yes, a hickie is a bruise.. but then, people who like to be spanked often receive bruises as well, from a far more obvious source: hitting/spanking... sucking on someone's neck is far less often seen as a form of 'abuse' than spanking is. (Not that I think spanking between consenting adults is abuse, I'm just making a point here)
 
thank you vix!!!! I SOO AGREE!

vixenshe said:
some people give hickies as a sign of ownership... it's like they've marked their partner, letting the world know they can admire, but not touch. The sub in me finds that extremely erotic, and I've always LOVED having hickies.

...

I have mmm worn these marks of ownership for the last couple months~~ EXTREMELY EROTIC to me... I do not flaunt them and truly do do my best to keep my hair down & shield them from obvious view but when they are seen, and when He tells me of the conversations He's had regarding them, ohhhhhh~~~ such sweet ecstasy

..the slightest touch over them, the tenderness of the skin is a beautiful, sensual reminder of His pride in me~

only He has made me feel this way, never before have I ever thought of hickies as anything other than juvenile and GROSS.
so I understand the comments here...
 
I'm amused by hickey's. Me and my boyfriend don't give them to each other except when i'm in a devilish mood or i want him to stop doing something. He'll stop almost everything to keep me form giving him one and i can do it in near seconds. i'm not bad about it though... I won't do it where it's highly visible. but if he's tickling me his tummy is fair game for a hickey.
 
As in real estate...

...the key is LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION!! If you're going to give them, please keep them to locations easily covered by a T-shirt and shorts.

I personally greatly enjoy simple hickeys. For me, it's an indicator that I was so good, she lost control. :devil: :D

SexyGiggles is VERY good at giving hickeys; hopefully she'll post here. Hickeys I give her tend to last a day or two. The ones she gives me have been know to last nearly TWO WEEKS!! (Granted, they've faded to a barely noticable yellow by then...) As long as they're below the collar line, I don't object at all. They are also a nice reminder of how much fun we had!

As to biting, that can be different. Hickeys (from sucking) don't always hurt; in fact, sometimes I can't feel them at all. Bite marks on the other hand, are pretty much always tender. If you're going to bite, and don't want to leave serious spots, vary your location! A bite on the shoulder in the heat of the moment can be very erotic, but repeated biting or chewing just gets painful! Not that I have any current experience with such results... :rolleyes:
 
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