Wewannaplay
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Wife says she wants to but thats as far as it goes. Any suggestion on how the push or help it along
How to get wife to suck another mans cock ?
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steamboat610
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Role play it, that's what we did, then ended up happening once we figured out who the best option was.
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I guess see what that fantasy scenario is in her mind. Where, what kind of guy etc. Because there's a bunch of stuff I'd be turned on by the idea of but the reality would be weirder for me than the fantasy
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Role playing it first is an excellent idea.
Try getting her to open up about where she could see something like that happening before you press her about who the guy might be. If she has trouble visualizing it, suggest somewhere you know she likes, like a favorite (or fantasy) vacation spot, try a tropical resort, or a swanky hotel bar in Paris or Italy. Then let her picture the guy.
Or try a sexy situation, like maybe she gets a flat tire and is stranded by the side of the road where there's no cell service until a handsome, rich guy in an expensive car stops to help her (or a young stud in a pickup if that's more or speed lol). Or maybe you lose her in a poker game to one of your friends who you know she likes. Or maybe your boss won't give you a promotion unless she seals the deal so to speak?
Once you let her decide on a fantasy it will be easier to go from there and make something happen for real.
Good luck!
Try getting her to open up about where she could see something like that happening before you press her about who the guy might be. If she has trouble visualizing it, suggest somewhere you know she likes, like a favorite (or fantasy) vacation spot, try a tropical resort, or a swanky hotel bar in Paris or Italy. Then let her picture the guy.
Or try a sexy situation, like maybe she gets a flat tire and is stranded by the side of the road where there's no cell service until a handsome, rich guy in an expensive car stops to help her (or a young stud in a pickup if that's more or speed lol). Or maybe you lose her in a poker game to one of your friends who you know she likes. Or maybe your boss won't give you a promotion unless she seals the deal so to speak?
Once you let her decide on a fantasy it will be easier to go from there and make something happen for real.
Good luck!
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We started with celebs before even realizing where it would head in the first place. Took 6+ months before ended up at someone close to us, and another couple months after before she ended up taking his cock in her.
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I'd love my wife to watch me suck another man's cock.
JoeBeans2751
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Another guys cock.I wish she would suck MINE!
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I used to sort of want the guys my wife fucked to know that we had an open marriage so I could easily be with some other woman at the same time (even though it was unlikely). Later I embraced the idea of them knowing she was a hot wife so at least it wasn't cheating. Now I get a thrill form them thinking that she is cheating on me. The idea of them pumping a big load into her throat and watching her swallow every drop all while thinking she is a cheating slut makes me hard.
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It can also be helpful to raise the premise that you would be perfectly ok with her sucking another guy's cock regularly and in the right context. This can be sensitive territory. She doesn't want to be pushed and she should be doing it for herself (not you). But in general discussion about sexual matters make it clear that you think the desire to be with another man is perfectly natural and we might all be better off if we just embraced that. Make reference to other men that appear to find her attractive.
No matter how much a guy says "I'd be ok with it" most women think well he says that now but he will change his tune later. So it takes time to convince her that you really are ok with it.
Meanwhile consider how you will feel if it is more than just a blow job. What if they kiss passionately? What if she likes him personally and makes a connection? What if she wants to do it again and regularly? What if she wants to fuck him? If you are asking her to open up her desires you need to be able to see all of it not just a selective vision of blow jobs.
No matter how much a guy says "I'd be ok with it" most women think well he says that now but he will change his tune later. So it takes time to convince her that you really are ok with it.
Meanwhile consider how you will feel if it is more than just a blow job. What if they kiss passionately? What if she likes him personally and makes a connection? What if she wants to do it again and regularly? What if she wants to fuck him? If you are asking her to open up her desires you need to be able to see all of it not just a selective vision of blow jobs.
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Talk about it hypothetically. Whom would it be? How would she or you imagine it going down? (No pun intended.) What are the ground rules? You could also get a dildo and have her simulate it. See how you like the visual. Not the real thing but might help. Might help her get comfortable with it too.
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Or give it as a Christmas presentAsk for it as a Christmas present
curiouschattycouple
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My wife says it's more likely she would just fuck another guy than blow him because it's less work and more enjoyable for her...
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Just get someone round, blindfold her put the cock infront of her face and tell her to open wide, she’ll soon be choking on it
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Exactly this!! ^^^^
Didn't even know she was into it until accidentally pushing her go button. Or maybe I sucked her go button. Whatever.
Didn't happen overnight but it did happen.
And this too! ^^^. How true.
You got to find a guy maybe a good friend or stranger. Make it a guy she is attracted to. Both guys have to treat her good with lots of attention. And then get your cocks in her face, if she is horny enough she will suck you both.
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