How to get wife to aggree to 3some?

[BareBackRider]

I am very open minded about sex, where as the wife is a little hard to bring round. I was very supprised when one day in bedtime conversation she admitted to thinking about 3somes (both MMF and FFM) after an episode of Ally McB where Ally kisses Ling.
Although we talked and I took the opertunity to let her know that I has also thought along thoughs lines (Boy oh boy had I), and also confessed that if I found her with another man I would probably watch or join in, I know for a fact that this will remain fantasy.
What is the best way to bring her round. Im not into forcing!!!!!

 

[lala]

personally i think it's too much to ask her to fuck a stranger (unless she can feel anonymity is better, but normally it bothers women to not at least be fond of a partner be it one other or a third) anywho your best bet for making her MORE comfortable is finding someone you both like and getting to know them- or a friend you all arleady know, and easing into it- she said she thought about it- ask her if she was serious or just fantasizing- and most importantly keep communicating! whenever either of you is uncomfortable you need to know you can tell the other person, and find a way to expand your comfort zone good luck!

 

[goddess_euphoria]

Well, you know the most important part: don't push it! This can get extremely annoying, and in my case, made me start wondering what was wrong with me that he needed to bring another person into the relationship. The first thing I think you should do is ask her more about it, if she really wants something like that to happen, or if it was just a fantasy. Becuase people can fantasize about things without having any intention at all of actually doing them!