How to get started?

[Leland1]

Ok let me explain,

Im a 26 year old married man, into chat and role play.

I want to participate in those "hobbies" with women here but dont want to sound like a tool/freak/idiot because I am a newbie.

What advice can yall give?

 

[silverwhisper]

your best bet is to start frequenting the playground, a subforum of the personals forum. there are tons of folks there who are happy to show newcomers the ropes and they're likely closer to the folks you wanna be finding.

ed

 

[fire_breeze]

And don't randomly PM women.

 

[Miles Long]

And don't randomly PM women.

Except for the ones who will answer back.

 

[fire_breeze]

Except for the ones who will answer back.

It's playing PM roulette, it is

 

[unregistered]

 

[NippleMuncher]

Ok let me explain,

Im a 26 year old married man, into chat and role play.

I want to participate in those "hobbies" with women here but dont want to sound like a tool/freak/idiot because I am a newbie.

What advice can yall give?

The best way to go about what you're seeking is to choose a few forums, join into the conversations, and start getting to know people. When people know more about you, they'll be more receptive to playing with you, both publicly and via PM.

 

[Que]

And don't randomly PM women.

pm sent!

Actually this is good advice...anyone that WILL respond to a random will be frightfully dull herself.

Think of it like fishing....

Semi-illegal fishing.

Chum the water...

Get out there and browse threads comment on EVERYTHING. Even if it just a quick, "love that!"

or me, too.

As ed suggested the playground is a lot of back and forth banter...don't waste time lurking in the "i wanna do x with the poster above me...losers hang out there all day."

Instead do what interests YOU.

Movie quotes, music, whatever...

Don't be afraid to comment in the "weird" fetishy threads IF you find it interesting...might as well put it out there in front of girls interested in the brand of kink you favor.

Be a part of the community...its a LOT easier to find a supple little lamb from INSIDE the herd than roving menacingly on the outskirts looking for the lame and the vulnerable...


mmm lamb chops...

with mint jelly.