how to get my wife to go a little farther

70dan

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my wife and I have a great sex life and relationship. we both fantasize about threesomes both mmf and mff and both bi
she has had girl on girl(before we where married) fun before. we have been to a few strip clubs together and was a great time. how do you find a clean and Disease free person to go a step farther. i cant push the issue with her if shes not ready but if it were right there and the timing was right.... i guess we need to get out a little more at night, but how does it often happen? she doesn't want a friend that she knows just a NSA adventure. ladies please help out a dumb guy and tell me what i am missing.
we talked about another person many times but both a little scared of the fall out, sounds like most things are okay but i cannot have vaginal sex with the other women ( fine with me id be glad to save that part for my wife) if it were to happen we would have to get some rules ironed out so not to go to far and tick her off.
 
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You are lucky to have a wife that would even discuss such an undertaking...

my wife and I have a great sex life and relationship. we both fantasize about threesomes both mmf and mff and both bi
she has had girl on girl(before we where married) fun before. we have been to a few strip clubs together and was a great time. how do you find a clean and Disease free person to go a step farther. i cant push the issue with her if shes not ready but if it were right there and the timing was right.... i guess we need to get out a little more at night, but how does it often happen? she doesn't want a friend that she knows just a NSA adventure. ladies please help out a dumb guy and tell me what i am missing.
we talked about another person many times but both a little scared of the fall out, sounds like most things are okay but i cannot have vaginal sex with the other women ( fine with me id be glad to save that part for my wife) if it were to happen we would have to get some rules ironed out so not to go to far and tick her off.
 
Once we hit that stage, we started going to a local swinger's club. At first, just to watch. A couple visits in, we put on a show ourselves. Eventually we were approached by another couple and had some fun with them.
 
We were just lucky. We got re-acquainted with friends from the past that we'd lost touch with. Started spending a lot of time together and we just slowly moved toward it. I never wanted it to be arranged, just wanted it to happen and it did. Keep talking about it and enjoying that fun and hopefully it will happen. Sorry I can't be of more help.
 
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