how to get my husband to try something new

[Guest]

MY husband loses his stamina once he gets inside. But he really turns me on with his fingers. He only uses up to 3 fingers and I would really like to to try being fisted but don't know how to get him to so this. He just thinks everything is great, but he loses it in the end and I'm left hanging

 

[Skibum]

Try asking him. Most guys respond to any request for sex (I know I do).

It is a rare man who is not flattered and excited when their woman wants more sex.

 

[Whispersecret]

Daffy, I had the same problem. Look in my thread from a couple of weeks ago called "How can I get him to last longer?" (HOW TO section) There is some great advice there that worked for me! Two sessions ago he lasted longer than I did and I finally had to ask him to stop because I was numb and getting very sore!

Also, as far as trying something new, I found this EXCELLENT book called, "Nice Couples Do" by Joan Elizabeth Lloyd. It's about getting your partner to explore sexuality in a non-embarassing way. I HIGHLY recommend it if either of you is shy about talking about sex and what you want or wish for. Through this book I found out my husband is really turned on by anal stuff. He would NEVER have said that to me if we hadn't taken the advice of this book.

Good luck!