How to get in a 'straight' guys ass

[SonOfAGun]

Hi, I'm 21 bi, from Croatia. I've been trying to get some ass for quite a long time. Basically all I can get is way over 26 and I wanna have sex with someone my age. In a region of 30.000 people I can't find a single guy my age interested. I tried the internet but all I got were old perverts. Could anyone give me any tips to test the playgrounds a bit, I mean, there's no way that everyone is straight round here. I'm very goodlooking, so that shouldn't be a problem, the problem is that I want someone goodlooking as well. And they all act straight. I ask for a few tips on how to find out if they're interested, since being out round here is impossible. Help me out please! Anyone!

 

[HotXBunz]

We had a speaker come to speak to our AIDS prevention group and he said he made most of his contacts at church and at gyms. Apparently in the US there is a whole "brotherhood" of bi men who have their own language and signs that helps them make contacts. The only thing our speaker would share is that they keep it on the DL or down low. I have seen this in personals on the net. Good luck. Sorry I can't be of more help. Be safe.

Your post really hit home the reality of the gay world where you are over the hill at 27. I am so glad I am old, fat, happy, very sexually active lesbian. No offense meant, just an observation.

 

[The Gimp]

Do you have places avalible to meet other gay people like bars or clubs? While I'm no expert in picking up guys I'd have to think that there must be some attractive person out there with similar intersts to your own. As a 27 year old straight male i'm in a similar position in looking for a female about my age with similar intersts and it's not easy. My batting average is real low when it comes to approaching strangers and trying to strike up a conversation. Although it has worked for me in the past the internet is hardly a reliable tool when it comes to meeting someone. If you're not finding what you're looking for then perhaps you aren't looking in the right places.

 

[Bindii]

Dobar vecer, kako ste? Ja sam Bindii i moya muz Hrvat, ali ja Australian. Ja ucim hrvastki jezik, ja govorim (i pisati!) malo ali razumijem dosta!

I agree with Gimp, you need to get out there and meet people face to face. Try visiting some of the gay bars, I'm sure that you will meet some one there. Just don't have too high expectations for the first night, strike up a conversation with someone who catches your eye and take it from there, you may or may not get sex the first night.
Or you could try placing a personal add, but like the internet faceless contact makes it easy for people to pretend to be something that they are not...

Good luck!

 

[SonOfAGun]

Croatia, a country of 4.3 million. Only 1 gay bar in the whole country and that one is located 150 miles west from where I live, and as much as I have heard about the place it is not worth visiting.

HotXBunz hit the spot, how do I spot straightacting guys? There is nothing wrong with being 27, but all that I had been with pissed me off, acting as if they were full of experience and skill and they didn't know how to even give me a proper blow-job, and demanding everything. Thanks, but no thanks. Experience taught me to seek out someone my age and someone who thinks the way I do. The only problem is that all guys in this category are macho and straight, or at least straightacting. What I want is practical advice on how to distinguish the two.

BTW. I always have safe sex, and there is nothing anyone could say that could offend be, so don't hesitate to be blunt and tell me how you feel and what you think.

 

[The Gimp]

A country of 4.3 mil with only one gay bar? That's about the best example of an untapped business opportunity that I've heard of. My state is about the size of your country but there's a gay bar walking distance from my house. I don't know much about Croatia, are personal ads an option? That would both give you a fairly anonomous way to contact a specific group of people and you'd have the ability to filter the crowd before arragning a meeting.

 

[Bindii]

Where in Croatia do you live? I did a search on the net for 'Croatia homosexual' and came up with heaps of gay meeting places including clubs/pubs.

You can also try this Eurpoean gay mailing list, they send out info on what/where and when in Croatia.

http://home.swipnet.se/~w-66936/q-e.htm

and this site 'Croatian lesbigays on the internet'

http://home.swipnet.se/~w-66936/q-e.htm

and this site Gay Croatia

http://come.to/gay-croatia/

Croatian forum and links

http://www.decki.com/dcforum/DCForumID19/11.html

 

[glamorilla]

*Hi!*

I voted for "fuck him".

Straight boys who experiment once or twice or enjoy getting a few discreet blobs are not gay. If they continue..tht's a diferentstory.

I have no real proof except for personal experience but straight boysare more likely to bottom out than anything else. It's just the way it is.

And it's very frustrating.




Sorry about the tpos...my computer is acting messy.

 

[DevilBoy79]

um never gonna happen here, exit only

 

[glamorilla]

Yeah..that's what they all say.

 

[SonOfAGun]

I live near Osijek, that is 150 miles east of Zagreb. I've tried the internet and ads, but I wish I hadn't because the replies I had... well jerking off proved more exciting and had more quality in it. After every encounter I was 100% straight for a month or two, the thought of doing it with a guy wouldn't even cross my mind.
So, if I'm gonna find any quality ass, I have to do it personally. Also, I only got replies from guys older than 26,27, quite a lot of 35 year-olds. I WANT SOMEONE BETWEEN 18-23! Also I am getting a feeling that there is a whole conspiracy of bi-guys around me. Now and then I spot a few strange reactions and behaviours between some of my friends and colleagues. Is it just my imagination or is it a case for Mulder and Scully?

 

[DevilBoy79]

Yeah..that's what they all say.

i say it and mean it

 

[glamorilla]

I figured you'd be back.

Sorry if you felt I was impying you specifically.

But it's true.Has a lot more to do with the stigma of anal sex making you something less of a man. even gay guys i know are ashamed to admit they enjoy it which makes for a lot of mixed signals when you're getting to know someone and they aren't upfront with you. I've dated lots of guys who try to come off as being as "straight" and as masculine as possible and the second the doors close they turn into cock starved pussy boys.

It's just the way it is,more so with straight guys who experiment.

 

[DevilBoy79]

I figured you'd be back.

Sorry if you felt I was impying you specifically.

But it's true.Has a lot more to do with the stigma of anal sex making you something less of a man. even gay guys i know are ashamed to admit they enjoy it which makes for a lot of mixed signals when you're getting to know someone and they aren't upfront with you. I've dated lots of guys who try to come off as being as "straight" and as masculine as possible and the second the doors close they turn into cock starved pussy boys.

It's just the way it is,more so with straight guys who experiment.

only here to gain posts and cant sleep, see how much you know

 

[glamorilla]

Now you're just flirting.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

Now you're just flirting.

aww i knew something was up honey? dont deny it baby, nah as far as i know he's straight,you can look, you can drool, you can stare but he is all mine. he's just so cute

 

[glamorilla]

Sweetie...next to you i ain't gotta chance...

 

[michaelmt1]

Straight/Gay

Look Im straight yet I have fantasies about sex with another guy. So you want to get in to a straight guys pants why not get him involved in a threesome its worth a shot.

No matter what people say I am firmly of the opinion that more than 50% of guys are willing to try some sort of "Gay" senario cock sucking ass fucking what ever.

Given the right circumstance I will explore any sexuality development, You cant say you dont like something you have not tried. Im not Gay !! Well have you tried a gay experiance to see if you are not.

I believe the only people who can say they are not gay are those that have tried it at least once and have decided that they dont like the experiance. As far as im concerned anyone can suck my cock male female human none human I love it.

Love Ya All

Mike

 

[InnocentAngel81]

Sweetie...next to you i ain't gotta chance...

sure you do, email me a pic

 

[SonOfAGun]

Truth be told, I haven't truly enjoyed myself in a gay experience. I was with a few guys and later wished I had stayed home and jerked off. I am only attracted to three guys on the entire planet. Two are my friends and third is a national contact sports superstar. The third I can't have, but those two... I find it hard to control myself around them.
After each of my gay experiences, the thought of doing it with a guy wouldn't cross my mind for at least 2 months.