How to fix this mess

[Weird Harold]

Now about this therapy thing, I'm already financially stressed being a single mother, with no extended health care benifits to pay for this.

I can think of two places for you to go in search of therapy that won't strain your budget or insurance.

First, If you regularly attend a church, talk to your pastor or priest. If they aren't qualified as a counselor, they should know where to send you. (Many churches will help you even if you're not a regular attendee.)

Second, check with your County Health Services. Most counties in the US have low-cost or free couseling available or can direct you to an appropriate volunteer counseling service.

 

[sheath]

Suzins,

The sheer amount of "LOL" in your last post says something very, very good!

It's wonderful that you have come to that point of peace with yourself. There are few feelings that are more powerful and positive than that...which you just found out, in grand style.

My only advice? Never rush yourself. Let all that happiness, all that pleasure of someone's company, and all those joys of sex, come to YOU...and they will. A woman as happy as you is a magnet for quite a few very good men.

You are an inspiration!

S.

 

[Carnus]

Suzins I am so glad you are smiling, I had not seen your thread and this morning when I read it I couldn't stop thinking about it. I can offer you only one thing since I don't know you, but offer it willingly, my friendship. I would also offer dinner and a night of laughter, but I don't know where you are. Mainly I want to offer you someone to talk to, and smile with. I have had some parts in my life that were not too pretty and some parts that are almost a dream when I think of them. I would offer to share some of those with you and see if how I got on with things helped. I am pretty good at listening too.

With all that said, I don't know what to say to make a lot of what happened better, I really don't but I can offer a smile and a hug if it helps.

Carnus

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Suzins, My congrats to you for taking the proverbial bull by the horns and finding your peace of mind. Coming to terms with those skeletons that have been haunting you for all of these years is the first step in healing. Forgiving yourself is the greatest thing you can do to begin the journey back to happiness and it appears that you've begun that journey. One day at a time, my friend. That's all you need to think upon as you travel life's road.
Be well Suzins and most of all....... Be Happy!
God bless and keep you.


-kym- taking my own bull's horns now and again