How to cope with small cock

[martin_lara9]

Sometimes I noticed that my wife is faking orgasm. When I asked her she told me that she wants that my should cock go deeper in her. I have average 6 inch.

Now we live in India. Wife swapping is out of question. Now what should we do. Please advise

 

[Guest]

for starters, try using different toys, variety is great

to me it's not the length but the width and what men do with it

concentrate on he clitoris too

 

[Ladybird]

Firstly, locate her g-spot. Memorise just where it is so that you can find it without any difficulty.

The try different positions until you find the one that stimulates the g-spot most.

Once you know what to stimulate, it's just a matter of finding how.. and that can be heaps of fun!

 

[huskie]

or try one of these ....... hope this works????

http://ww3.sextoysex.com/sex/start/view.html?a=huskie&pnum=TO0832-7

 

[curvacious]

Try different positions---if you like to be on top, lift her legs onto your shoulders.

Orgasms don't just happen from thrusting the penis in the vagina. Use toys, hands, touch her all over (the whole body is sexual).

 

[becca80]

Firstly, 6 inches isn't small.. it's average I think.

Some positions allow deeper penetration than just normal missionary position so do some experimenting.
i.e. Man on top with woman's legs on man's shoulders

Hope that helps

 

[Shaq]

Also make sure she is in a high state of arousal...use your other assests like your hands and mouth before sex....the greater her state of arousal the more sensitive she will be to orgasm.....

 

[dreamer]

You guys need to talk.

It seems weird that her lack of orgasm is about depth of penetration. In my experience, and in everything I have spoken with others about that isn't really the means to orgasm. Work with different positions and see what works better for her...spend time using your hands and mouth or toys even.

Take time to explore her body and find out what 'works' for her. Take care of her needs once, twice, or more before resorting to intercourse.

Good luck, but my gut responce is that there are more things going unsaid than it needs to be deeper...

 

[SXCRgirl]

In my opinion and this is just that... an opinion. You should communicate with your wife as to what she needs from you. Perhaps she needs to feel emotionally connected to you in order to enjoy your sexual relationship. Wife swapping? I don't think that's really an option, now is it?

Everyone has needs and we all need to talk about it with our partners. Otherwise, it will go unresolved and fester and end up with two very unhappy people.

Just my 0.02

 

[Gutterslut]

well before i realized i was lesbian, i never could get off...i always faked orgasms. But the times that a man did get me off, he grinded more.. for each woman is different, just ask her what she wants to do, and let her do it.. pay attention to what does get her off. and be creative with it.

~Luck to you~

 

[huskie]

I did read on this board, before, a girl say "It's not the cock BUT the man that the cock is attached to that turn me on". Theres a lot to be learned from that statement.

 

[Pdxmwm]

Two to try

There has been a lot of very good advice here; toys, your fingers, or even your hand can bring her to orgasm. My GF also likes to feel “full”; it takes some time, but I’ll put my entire hand inside her, and then twist it so each knuckle rubs against her G spot. Passion causes her to contract around my hand and this in turn triggers a whole chain of orgasms. It’s a wonderful experience for both of us.

That said, there are some positions that will allow you to be deeper within her then others. For us, one of the best positions begins with me behind her, spoon style, then I rotate till we are laying about 90 degrees to each other; our legs entwined like two pairs of scissors. This might make it a bit clearer; hold your hands face down, pointing towards each other, then spread the index and second finger of each hand. Now twist one hand 90 degrees, and slide them together, so the web between the index and second finger of one hand is touching the web between the index and second finger of the other. This is the position you’re trying to achieve with your legs; it puts your genitals and hers in direct contact, and allows for very deep penetration.

Other positions will allow approximately the same level of contact. If she’s quite limber, try this variation on the “missionary position”. As you kneel between her legs, try placing one of her legs on your shoulder while you straddle the other. I don’t find it as comfortable as the first position I described, but then, neither my friend nor I are as limber as we used to be.

 

[Gutterslut]

Re: Two to try

There has been a lot of very good advice here; toys, your fingers, or even your hand can bring her to orgasm. My GF also likes to feel “full”; it takes some time, but I’ll put my entire hand inside her, and then twist it so each knuckle rubs against her G spot. Passion causes her to contract around my hand and this in turn triggers a whole chain of orgasms. It’s a wonderful experience for both of us.

That said, there are some positions that will allow you to be deeper within her then others. For us, one of the best positions begins with me behind her, spoon style, then I rotate till we are laying about 90 degrees to each other; our legs entwined like two pairs of scissors. This might make it a bit clearer; hold your hands face down, pointing towards each other, then spread the index and second finger of each hand. Now twist one hand 90 degrees, and slide them together, so the web between the index and second finger of one hand is touching the web between the index and second finger of the other. This is the position you’re trying to achieve with your legs; it puts your genitals and hers in direct contact, and allows for very deep penetration.

Other positions will allow approximately the same level of contact. If she’s quite limber, try this variation on the “missionary position”. As you kneel between her legs, try placing one of her legs on your shoulder while you straddle the other. I don’t find it as comfortable as the first position I described, but then, neither my friend nor I are as limber as we used to be.

wow...see., i wish my ex would've tried something like that...

 

[LadyBlueMoon]

Ah, but not all of us can handle "fisting" nor care to try. In addition, you would need to make sure your hand is very clean. Remember, a lot can accumulate under the fingernails, which I hope to the goddess have been trimmed very short and smooth before you try such a thing!
For me, oral stimulation works wonders. A man who knows how to use his tongue and lips is the best lover, no matter the size of his genitals!

 

[Gutterslut]

Ah, but not all of us can handle "fisting" nor care to try. In addition, you would need to make sure your hand is very clean. Remember, a lot can accumulate under the fingernails, which I hope to the goddess have been trimmed very short and smooth before you try such a thing!
For me, oral stimulation works wonders. A man who knows how to use his tongue and lips is the best lover, no matter the size of his genitals!

yess, oral is nice, FIsting to me, tho isnt very much a turn on.. im not sure why, i think it because im so tight, id be afraid to try something like that,

 

[dreamer]

Re: Two to try

Other positions will allow approximately the same level of contact. If she’s quite limber, try this variation on the “missionary position”. As you kneel between her legs, try placing one of her legs on your shoulder while you straddle the other. I don’t find it as comfortable as the first position I described, but then, neither my friend nor I are as limber as we used to be.

One of my favourites...especially if you kinda turn her on her side as well...makes for a sideways entry that is a totally different feeling.

 

[Gutterslut]

Re: Re: Two to try

One of my favourites...especially if you kinda turn her on her side as well...makes for a sideways entry that is a totally different feeling.

oooh that sounds niice right about now.

 

[LadyBlueMoon]

yess, oral is nice, FIsting to me, tho isnt very much a turn on.. im not sure why, i think it because im so tight, id be afraid to try something like that,

Even at my age I remain tight. Large cocks can be uncomfortable, so fisting was never attractive to me.... ah, but oral, both giving and receiving....Mmmmmmm

 

[Gutterslut]

Even at my age I remain tight. Large cocks can be uncomfortable, so fisting was never attractive to me.... ah, but oral, both giving and receiving....Mmmmmmm

I like stuff that hurts, but im not sure fisting applys to that. Oral is great.. esp when their mouth is really cold.. like ice cold

 

[LadyBlueMoon]

I like stuff that hurts, but im not sure fisting applys to that. Oral is great.. esp when their mouth is really cold.. like ice cold

A little pain can be a very nice contrst to the intense pleasure, I agree, but I don't think I'm ready for S/M on a major scale...

 

[Gutterslut]

A little pain can be a very nice contrst to the intense pleasure, I agree, but I don't think I'm ready for S/M on a major scale...

well I find S/M to be very interesting.. have you ever tried it? It might sound bad, but its soo not..

 

[LadyBlueMoon]

well I find S/M to be very interesting.. have you ever tried it? It might sound bad, but its soo not..

Sweetie, when you reach my age you have tried just about everything once (if you are daring enough, that is!)... maybe I just wasn't with the right person... i find I prefer dominance to submission, and pleasure to pain... but that's me... we are each different and unique!

 

[alphacat]

What about sadism? I'm not much for pain myself (except for spanking, which absolutely drives me wild), but hurting someone else... mmmm....

 

[LadyBlueMoon]

What about sadism? I'm not much for pain myself (except for spanking, which absolutely drives me wild), but hurting someone else... mmmm....

I've not much experience with pain, but I have enjoyed dominance. I had a lover once who loved to be humiliated, ordered around, that sort of thing. That was a big turn on for me.

 

[Pdxmwm]

Fisting

Ah, but not all of us can handle "fisting" nor care to try. In addition, you would need to make sure your hand is very clean. Remember, a lot can accumulate under the fingernails, which I hope to the goddess have been trimmed very short and smooth before you try such a thing!
For me, oral stimulation works wonders. A man who knows how to use his tongue and lips is the best lover, no matter the size of his genitals!

I don’t care for the term “fisting”; it seems to imply forcible entry, and that’s definitely not my bag. There is an excellent book entitled “A Hand in the Bush”, and a couple of reviews on it at the Barns and Noble site. It’s well worth reading, even if you don’t think you’d like to try the activity.

An earlier poster commented on the importance of cleanliness and trimmed finger nails; both are very important, so is patience and sensitivity. A woman must have utter trust in her partner in order for her to be able to relax enough for a hand to enter her. Most couples aren’t successful on their first try, and an impatient and painful attempt will almost assuredly preclude any further activity of this type.

Another reason I don’t like the term “fisting”, is because a fist isn’t formed until the hand is fully inserted, and sometimes not even then. During insertion, the thumb is in the center of the hand, resting between the middle two fingers. As my hand enters just beyond my knuckles, I’ll start to curl my fingers toward the palm of my hand, and let my thumb rest on the top of my curled index finger.

Like many other sexual activities, it takes an open mind to be willing to try, and enough trust in your partner to know he or she will stop if you say stop. I can’t overemphasize the need to be patient and gentle. It may take an hour or more, and multiple climaxes till you are fully inside. It will also take MUCH more lube then you ever thought necessary. I often go through a full bottle (large) of Astroglide in the process.

This certainly isn’t a replacement for other types of sexual activity, but it’s one of the most intimate and stimulating you’ll ever experience. It also requires one person to be totally focused on his (her) partner’s gratification, and to derive pleasure from bringing pleasure to another.

I’ve never experienced a woman have a more intense orgasm then when my hand was fully inside her. Twice I’ve had a partner break into tears, sobbing almost uncontrollably afterwards (NOT from pain). It can be a very emotional experience when you are overcome by this lever of sexual reaction, and totally loose self control. It seems to be especially true of women who feel they’ve already experienced all that sex has to offer.