How to compliment

Why are women so sensitive when it comes to their breasts or ass? I tell my girlfriend "your boobs look great in that sweater" and she doesn't take it as a compliment. If I compliment her hair she loves it. As I said before if a woman commented on my ass I would love it.
 
Why are women so sensitive when it comes to their breasts or ass? I tell my girlfriend "your boobs look great in that sweater" and she doesn't take it as a compliment. If I compliment her hair she loves it. As I said before if a woman commented on my ass I would love it.

If your GIRLFRIEND doesn't take a comment from you about her breasts as a compliment, why do you think this other woman would? Dude, let it go.
 
Why are women so sensitive when it comes to their breasts or ass? I tell my girlfriend "your boobs look great in that sweater" and she doesn't take it as a compliment. If I compliment her hair she loves it. As I said before if a woman commented on my ass I would love it.

i think a more important question you should be asking is why are you so insensitive? Once you answer that one, I think you may find the answer to your questions. It doesn't matter why...it simply is.
 
I met her through work, but we do not work together. I've gotten to know her quite well. She is married so I'm not trying to make a pass. She has great boobs and I though it might be alright to tell her how much I admire them. Kind of like saying what a nice smile someone has. I realize with the sexual aspect it is a little more difficult to say something without coming off like a creep. If some woman said I had a nice ass or something I certainly wouldn't be offended, but guys are wired different I know.

She knows she has great boobs and doesn't need you to tell her. All you can do by telling her is cause yourself a lot of grief if she doesn't welcome your comment.
 
Why are women so sensitive when it comes to their breasts or ass? I tell my girlfriend "your boobs look great in that sweater" and she doesn't take it as a compliment. If I compliment her hair she loves it. As I said before if a woman commented on my ass I would love it.

Maybe she's tired of being complimented on her features that are more sex-oriented? We always wants what we can't have (or don't get much of).

I'm sure Bill Gates might appreciate a compliment about his body more so than his brains, money, or philanthropy. Ok, so it's not the best example, but I'm sure you got my point.
 
Why are women so sensitive when it comes to their breasts or ass? I tell my girlfriend "your boobs look great in that sweater" and she doesn't take it as a compliment. If I compliment her hair she loves it. As I said before if a woman commented on my ass I would love it.

One word: delivery.

Just sayin'.
 
Why are women so sensitive when it comes to their breasts or ass? I tell my girlfriend "your boobs look great in that sweater" and she doesn't take it as a compliment. If I compliment her hair she loves it. As I said before if a woman commented on my ass I would love it.

My question to you would be why can't you just tell her she looks nice in the sweater? Why is it just her boobs look good in the sweater? I agree with Kaycee, maybe she is tired of just being complimented on her "sexual" aspects. Include the whole gal and that might get you the desired response.
 
i think a more important question you should be asking is why are you so insensitive? Once you answer that one, I think you may find the answer to your questions. It doesn't matter why...it simply is.

BINGO!

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My question to you would be why can't you just tell her she looks nice in the sweater? Why is it just her boobs look good in the sweater?

That there would be the way to do it! You know you're referring to her boobs, she hears the compliment on her attire. :cool: When you know a person well enough, you can have more direct comments, gestures, and innuendo without it being harassment. Until that time, keep comments none personal in nature, you'll both be happier for it.


BINGO!

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No, NOW /end thread. ;):D:rose:
 
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