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How did you meet her? That might determine how you comment.
I met her through work, but we do not work together. I've gotten to know her quite well. She is married so I'm not trying to make a pass. She has great boobs and I though it might be alright to tell her how much I admire them. Kind of like saying what a nice smile someone has. I realize with the sexual aspect it is a little more difficult to say something without coming off like a creep. If some woman said I had a nice ass or something I certainly wouldn't be offended, but guys are wired different I know.
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Ginger41 said it very well, honesty is the best policy. 
Ginger41 said it very well, honesty is the best policy.
I don't know about that, given how the OP met the lady he (assume the OP is a he) wants to compliment and how she is married.
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what j said (most recently).
ayrton, i don't know what kind of job you do or how old you are, but as someone who's been an office drone his entire career, any kind of comment on a colleague's breasts--irrespective of intention--is a very bad idea. j covered your colleague's reaction. but in any office in the US, if a third party is offended by your comment, that too can lead to a very unpleasant conversation with HR.
and if they're truly as spectacular as you say and you spend a meaningful amount of time talking with her, the odds are pretty good she's already noticed you noticing. you might wanna make sure where your eyes are focused when talking with her.
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ayrton, i don't know what kind of job you do or how old you are, but as someone who's been an office drone his entire career, any kind of comment on a colleague's breasts--irrespective of intention--is a very bad idea. j covered your colleague's reaction. but in any office in the US, if a third party is offended by your comment, that too can lead to a very unpleasant conversation with HR.
and if they're truly as spectacular as you say and you spend a meaningful amount of time talking with her, the odds are pretty good she's already noticed you noticing. you might wanna make sure where your eyes are focused when talking with her.
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You could maybe get away with something like, "I know you're married, and I'm not trying to make a pass at you, but I just wanted to compliment you on your lovely figure," and leave it at that.
IMO, that's a compliment that most women would appreciate without finding creepy or offensive.
IMO, that's a compliment that most women would appreciate without finding creepy or offensive.
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Complimenting a married coworkers breasts is not a good idea. You know this. It probably would make her uncomfortable, which is far from your intention. It could lead to a complaint to HR. Admire them from afar.
yep...if you ever want a chance to see them, this is the right approach. Women are alot more observant than you know...she notices those quick looks you take. If you blush when you think you have been caught sneaking a peak, that would be a better compliment than saying "nice tits" any day.
If you read my post I say I do not work with her. We just met through my work. I like the idea of complimenting her figure. That's what I was looking for. As mentioned, I don't want to come out and say "Wow, nice tits". Would saying "you have such a beautiful body" be bad?
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Timing is everything.
Wait untill she is straddling you while topless. Then tell her. Otherwise, don't.
Wait untill she is straddling you while topless. Then tell her. Otherwise, don't.
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Yeah I was writing my thoughts when he posted that and I agree with Kaycee217 now, I wouldn't do it at all.
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Personally, if she's married... then those are someone elses breasts to compliment...
Just gaze silently..
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That's a possibility.
If I had to suggest anything, I would suggest making the compliment based off something she said or did. For example, the only time I ever told a woman (to her face) that she had nice breasts was on a bus before we were going to a party. She was adjusting her bust so she could show more cleavage. She then looked at her friend and asked her what the friend thought. I ended up interrupting them and telling the woman, "they look good, trust me" then I smiled. She laughed and seemed to appreciate the comment despite the fact that she barely knew me. I've observed that compliments made "in context" and not out of the blue seemed to be taken well.
Just a suggestion.
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I suggest paying close attention to Lord John Marbury for both spirit and language.
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The interesting thing to think about here is why say anything? I mean for me, even if I have no intention with the person (like hitting on them, or going further), I sometimes want to make the compliment so that *I* can get a little "hit" of good feeling of response from the person. I'm wanting something. Maybe you are only wanting to give without getting anything for yourself. But think about this carefully your real motives for saying anything. And then do what you think is right.
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Women who have magnificent breasts get complemented on them all the time. She has probably been getting comments, wise cracks, sexually explicit remarks, complements, and expressions of appreciation by men about her breasts since she was a teenager.
Women built like she is get very tired of men letting them know how magnificent, beautiful, gorgeous, lovely and remarkable they think her breasts are. After years of that kind of thing, it tends to get old.
Trust me, this woman already knows she has magnificent breasts. She already has noticed you admiring them. She already knows what you think about them and how much you admire them. No need to say it to her.
Women built like she is get very tired of men letting them know how magnificent, beautiful, gorgeous, lovely and remarkable they think her breasts are. After years of that kind of thing, it tends to get old.
Trust me, this woman already knows she has magnificent breasts. She already has noticed you admiring them. She already knows what you think about them and how much you admire them. No need to say it to her.
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Well, I certainly don't see my wife's breasts as my property! I'd certainly not have a problem if anyone else complimented them either, she'd no doubt tell me and we'd have a good laugh about it.
I'm inclined to agree, it may make her feel good about herself to show them to their best advantage, to know that she'll attract attention. I doesn't mean that she would welcome comments at all.
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I can't really imagine a way that you could compliment this woman's breasts without it being awkward (at best, as someone else mentioned) and very likely just fucking weird. Your intention in complimenting her breasts may be pure but more likely than not, she will think it's just fucking weird. Why risk it?
Some thoughts are truly meant to stay inside our heads.
Some thoughts are truly meant to stay inside our heads.
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If you can make her laugh when you do it, you can get away with anything.
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I would say that most women don't like comments about their breasts or ass unless they are in a relationship with someone. Nice figure? Sure. But if you're not dating me, keep your opinions to yourself about my tits or my ass thanks.
