We've been married a long time and transitioned into a formal FLR at least 5 years ago.
It's been great, and I don't detect any problems. But I understand over time woman often slowly lose respect for the man as things "settle in". I imagine this would be an even greater issue with a FLR. My wife isn't interested in a "feminine" guy, she wants a man. A man that is "doting" is the word she used. Sex is good. We fuck eachother (includes pegging), and all of that. But she does peg me, I do kiss her ass (literally. She loves it), and defer to her in general, often in public, too. My concern is with all of this she may lose some respect for me as a man, because she wants a masculine man, that is deferential, yet doesn't want a complete door mat.
The short version is, she wants a man she can respect (I think), but enjoys fucking my ass (and she knows I like it) and me kissing her ass, (either for 10 or at least just quick smooches daily) yet many will say, "She won't respect you if you kiss her ass or spread your butt cheeks for her".
We don't fight, or name call or any of that stuff. Everything seems fine. I just don't want to be hit with any surprises. "I'm bored with ya", "tired of being a leader", or something like that.
So, how does a woman still respect her submissive, masculine man? What can the man do to keep things good?
It's been great, and I don't detect any problems. But I understand over time woman often slowly lose respect for the man as things "settle in". I imagine this would be an even greater issue with a FLR. My wife isn't interested in a "feminine" guy, she wants a man. A man that is "doting" is the word she used. Sex is good. We fuck eachother (includes pegging), and all of that. But she does peg me, I do kiss her ass (literally. She loves it), and defer to her in general, often in public, too. My concern is with all of this she may lose some respect for me as a man, because she wants a masculine man, that is deferential, yet doesn't want a complete door mat.
The short version is, she wants a man she can respect (I think), but enjoys fucking my ass (and she knows I like it) and me kissing her ass, (either for 10 or at least just quick smooches daily) yet many will say, "She won't respect you if you kiss her ass or spread your butt cheeks for her".
We don't fight, or name call or any of that stuff. Everything seems fine. I just don't want to be hit with any surprises. "I'm bored with ya", "tired of being a leader", or something like that.
So, how does a woman still respect her submissive, masculine man? What can the man do to keep things good?