GonzoTheGreat65
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Sep 6, 2004
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- 141
Let me help some of you out in a crash course in being cool. Cool is an attitude, an aura. If you want to be cool be mysterious and unwanting. Look at surfers, do you see them greedily buying and lusting after possessions. No. Be independent literally and emotionally. Do not give a care about the outcome. If you win, great if you lose, great. In all you have won experience even if you didn't get what you want. Throw people off with random tasks and odd routines. Do not get in a set motion of being predictable. If you are Bipolar this will be easy for you. Offer help but do not let that make you think you deserve anything in return. Be passionate about something but do not obsess. Do not emotionally drain others with approval seeking. Be curious. Look the other way. If everybody likes it something must be wrong. Be indifferent and do not invest emotional comfort in others. Help, have fun, but do not rob others' energy. Be nice one day and and disconnected the next. Know how to walk out of somewhere in addition to walking in. Expect you will most likely get something before you do. This positive attitude is absorbed by others and will favor you. Do not lean on someone.