How to .. ask her to shave

[ProzacElf]

hmm

My girlfriend is of a mostly chinese heritage, so there isn't much to worry about in this dept. But I think I will take some of the suggestions here to heart....at least about trimming.

Thanks =)

 

[londonaberdeen]

Success

Well I managed to bring the subject up.

You know as we were fondling each other after sex, she turns to me and says tell me a story.

I told her about the time I came home from work to find her naked on our bed face down. I told her how I decided to tie her up and fuck her!

She said is there anything else you want to do to me?
DOOR OPEN!

Well now that you mention it, I've always wanted to shave your pussy. I realise it's intimate and potentially risky but the intimacy is incredible and I want to taste you without the hair in my mouth.

"Would it be okay if I do it, then surprise you one day?" was the reply.

So thanks to all for suggestions. And from me. I guess the lesson is pick your moment, be polite and you may get what you want.

 

[Angusthe bull]

Hi Steve,

I am maybe a bit closer than some on this board being down the road from the Silver City in Stoney. Which fact of course don't validate my words much!

I love shaven puss and have shaved many. The reaction has always been positive and they have loved the way I do it.

Trim the hair away first as close as you can, either clipers or scissors. Then use a hot wash cloth laid on the area to soften the hair. Make it as hot as she can stand initially and when you replace it make it hotter if you can as she will be able to handle that extra warmth. Mind and not burn of course eh....

Then use shaving oil. King of Shaves is good eh? Use a brand new razor of course and have a new one to hand. Mind that her hairs do NOT grow in ragular lines but lie back and fore especially at the peak of her labia just above the clit. Making a clean shave is not so easy so take it very slow and make it as loving a time as you can.

Compliment her. Use the shave as a time to tell her how lovely she is there, so many girls are so convinced their genitals are so ugly. Which is totally untrue.

They may exist but I have never seen an ugly pussy. Never.

I wish you well Steve and your lass is lucky.

 

[londonaberdeen]

Cheers

Thanks Gus, I'll bear that in mind when I get the chance!

 

[SweetErika]

Congrats, Steve! It sounds like you said just the right things. Angus gave great advice...make sure you both read up on shaving before she goes for it...little things like soaking in a warm tub, using a triple or quadruple blade razor, and aftercare make or break the experience.

 

[londonaberdeen]

Update

Well she has surprised me.

The other night I got the cards out for a game of strip poker, she goes away to get ready. AGES!!! Damn near 30 mins later she appears back. In jeans and sweater. A disguise I learn later.

As she loses games it becomes obvious she is out to tease and has dressed in a little Maids outfit she knows I like, stay ups and thong all under her unglam oufit.

Then came the great surprise. Still wearing maids outfit. I was expecting this off next when she stood up, walked right up to me and pulled down her thong. There she was, shaved, soft, fresh and ready for me.

We'll maybe finish the game another time!

We both shaved me later that night too.

 

[TeasedWhispers]

Just communicate with her...or shave her, that can't be erotic

 

[Honeysucklevine]

When you are both in a playful mood.....PUT HER FACE IN YOUR HAIRY ARMPIT. ........


ASK HER IF SHE LIKES IT........


WHEN SHE SAYS "NO" OR "NOT REALLY"......


YOU SAY, "DITTO". THEN GIVE HER A BIG KISS.

 

[yodaboy]

This worked for me and it was practically unintentional:

In the after glow of your favorite activity when you are cuddling together just play with her public hair. Then change the playing to chopping actions with your fingers and simply asked "have you ever thought about it?"

My girl surprised me and said she was shaved for an operation once and she thought it was cool but never did it again her self. I asked her if she would do it for me and she said she would surprise me one day.

Too bad she had to go overseas about a week after that…. I’m kind of expecting her to come back to me nice and smooth.

 

[Quoll]

Re: Update

Well she has surprised me.

The other night I got the cards out for a game of strip poker, she goes away to get ready. AGES!!! Damn near 30 mins later she appears back. In jeans and sweater. A disguise I learn later.

As she loses games it becomes obvious she is out to tease and has dressed in a little Maids outfit she knows I like, stay ups and thong all under her unglam oufit.

Then came the great surprise. Still wearing maids outfit. I was expecting this off next when she stood up, walked right up to me and pulled down her thong. There she was, shaved, soft, fresh and ready for me.

We'll maybe finish the game another time!

We both shaved me later that night too.

Congrats london, it`s one of lifes little pleasures isn`t it. Thanks for the update.

 

[Bridget69]

I'm glad everything could be agreed upon so willingly.

 

[nycphoto]

Put on a porn movie where the ladies are shaved to break the ice or simply relate to her how much more sexy she would look like if she were shaved.

 

[Mermaid]

That's great, London!

I like the open and honest approach myself. And in a relationship where voicing of your desires is welcome, sky's the limit!

 

[Travelintheways]

I don't know about anyone else, but I would much prefer the direct approach or even better, the compliment-laden approach to my guy sticking my face in his armpit or any of the other 'funny' ones (applicable for a potential 'my girl', too). I know that I am very sensitive about my appearance 'down there', and those approaches wouldn't make me want to open up and discuss that part of me. Usually I'm pretty open to humor, but I would freeze up completely--write it off to society or my own isssues.

 

[Honeysucklevine]

I agree that the "face in the armpit is harsh". My boyfriend told me about how he had said this to some woman in a nightclub once. I found it quite harsh but I do not know in what context it was used. The woman may have been a little rough around the edges too.

Nobody would need to be so crass with me because I, like you, can take those subtle little hints. I would prefer something like, "mmm, I love your #$% %^&%% and I think it would be so hot if we both shaved ourselves. This way, we can feel our skin rubbing together more! I've heard it feels good.". or something to that nature.