How to approach....

[eyeholes]

My boyfriend and I are both interested in trying group sex with another couple, with whom we are good friends with. My boyfriend and I are both bi, and so is the male in the other couple. I am not sure if the woman is, but she has had some experience with other women, me being one of them and I think she might be "up for it".

My question is, how would we go about approaching them with the proposal... or should we forget about it?

Thankyou

 

[BlueSugar]

Have a casual get together, a drink or two and a suggestive conversation and see how it goes.

OR... one of you could talk about (in a joking tone) how cool it would be to do something like that... see what their reaction is.

Also, you could do something suggestive and elude to what you're doing without coming right out and say it. Hot tubbing, watching a movie with swinging, anything like that which sets up a "vibe" without anyone having to come right out and lay their cards on the table. It easier that way to drop hints/jokes etc which can build up to a climax


Take it from there.

... though, there is always the direct approach, go out for lunch/dinner/movie -whatever- with them and just ask - no hard feelings, its a compliment to trust yourselves enough to have any addition in the bedroom- and you are saying you trust and like them enough to experiment.