How the fuck!!!!

[apexpark]

how do i get over him? its killing me inside. i can feel the terrible pain in my stomach everytime i hear his name (even if its not his) or see a picture of him (even if it only slightly resembles him) or see a firebush (dont ask). I just want to move on but it hurts so much and its been about 4 months.....should i even be a little bit over him?
and i should hate him! one day it was "i met someone new and hes more 'real'" but i still love him! what the hell is that suppose to mean?
sorry had to vent....seriously what should i do?

 

[SexyChele]

If you were deeply involved with this guy, 4 months is not all that long to get over the relationship. Have you allowed yourself time? Hit the walls? Cried? Beat up the pillows? Look at his picture and let your mind wander, crying where it must and yelling when it has to?

For me, I've always found I need to do the whole "mourning" thing with relationships. Some don't. I do. It helps me. Like getting drunk and writing nasty letters that I never mail. Lets me work out all the "mad" that is inside me. And crying. Crying is such a good thing. Cleansing and an almost purging quality.

Good luck. I hope you find whatever way you need to to find peace.

 

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[apexpark]

aww thank you guys. i cried when i read this. i guess your right, 4 months isnt long at all. it just seems a lot longer without him. what really burst out my emotions was how he imed me to "check up on me". i dont need checking up on and try being man enough to at least call or stop by. i think im going to write a few angry letters and scream a bit....not too loud though or the neighbors might bother me hehe.
i love you all here!
~roy~

 

[digitalmedia]

Plueeeeze give it up, you bitchy hoe

Who the fuck would want a whiney pissass cunt like you anyways. I would sooner cut off my fucking dick, than put up with your screwed up mind games. Only a fucked up bitch like yourself would let yourself feel anything for that tired loser you fucked because you thought you were in "Love". Face it baby, you were hiding the fact that you just needed dick, and he was the first one that came through the revolving turnstyle in your bedroom.

Give it up you selfless bleeding heart cumslut!!! No one cares......bury it!!!



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[apexpark]

actually we never had sex. and we were together for a long long time, he wasnt ever a one night stand. why the fuck am i wastng my time explaing this to you? i wasnt looking to be bashed

 

[kaoskytton]

digitalmedia, meet my friend karma.

Apex, I can only give you advice, as all of us can, based on what we have experienced ourselves. When I'm in "mourning," I don't listen to love songs. I listen to girl-power songs. I don't hang out with couples. I hang out with my single girlfriends. I force myself to avoid, at all costs, any memory of him, us, or the thought of love and romance. Pelt couples with those little hard sugar hearts!

But that's just me. I suppose there are better ways to deal with it, but when the pain is so great that it consumes your whole world, well, the only way I know to fight the boogieman in the closet, that you can't see, hear, or touch, is to say, "You're not real! You don't exist!" and fling upon the doors, finding a strength you didn't know you had.