How often do you get laid?

[Alina]

Was just wondering if my hubby and I are too active....hehe
So i thought I would see what the majority of you all are doing.

 

[plasticman33]

If I'm real lucky?

Once a month!

 

[Sweetlola]

You mean by someone else?

It's been at least 2 months... but then again, I'm not married. I don't think I count.

 

[cymbidia]

By "get laid" do youmean actual penile insertion or are you a little looser in your interpretation? Like, for instance, is outcourse (and that would include titty fucking, i believe) part of what you mean by "get laid", too?

What about phone sex when it's really really hot?
How about phone sex when you fake it but you *know* he's not faking at all?
Part of the pantheon of "get laid" gods or not?

What about sexual activities that aren't actually considered an actual example of mainstream "get laid" stuff but are very very sexual to those participating, like nipple piercings for, well, me and/or mutual masturbation (no, i'm not talking not phone sex again) and/or a good hot round of ass fucking?

Could you specify, please, what you mean by "get laid"?
I'm a little confused.

 

[stargazer76]

Couple times a week, give or take. Depends on how much work the hubby has to bring home with him and how much laundry/household crap I have going on.

 

[plasticman33]

By "get laid" do youmean actual penile insertion or are you a little looser in your interpretation? Like, for instance, is outcourse (and that would include titty fucking, i believe) part of what you mean by "get laid",

What about sexual activities that aren't actually considered an actual example of mainstream "get laid" stuff but are very very sexual to those participating, like nipple piercings for, well, me and/or mutual masturbation (no, i'm not talking not phone sex again) and/or a good hot round of ass fucking?

Could you specify, please, what you mean by "get laid"?
I'm a little confused.

Damn, I'd go for all of the above! Well.... maybe not the nipple piercing.

 

[DarkAngel]

Does dreaming count???

 

[Starfish]

I have sexual relations with my husband about 4 times a week lately, but sometimes more, sometimes less.
We are so busy, but we flirt, touch, tease and harass each other every chance we get.

Our relationship is changing and becoming what it should be though, so that is all I care about.
Sex is only secondary to our relationships stability. If we are having a good time, we fuck like rabbits, if not....nill.

Like last week, the thought of sex made me feel sick.
It wasn't untill Saturday night that he finally got me to relax enough to get excited, but I couldn't do it for too long, because I just kept getting distracted with the whole 9/11 incident in my mind.
Sunday night, I finally could do it and not get upset in the middle of it.

 

[Alina]

Ok lets revise it to sexual contact with another person in the same room.

 

[cymbidia]

Well, if it's "sexual contact with someone in the same room", i don't get laid enough, that's for sure.

You need to broaden your horizons a little, Alina, maybe go for a little phone sex kink or some gasping fantasies sent via email throughout the day, back and forth like a crazy wet touch that gets hotter and hotter every time you open another email. Sex starts in the brain, you know.

 

[Dillinger]

People get laid around here?

 

[miles]

A few times a year whether I need it or not.

 

[Alina]

too much?

Is once a day too much? two or three times a day if he isnt at work.....

 

[cymbidia]

Honey, honestly, you're too new to be bragging like this. It's not reflecting well on you.

A little advice? Find another topic, one in which you don't appear to be saying that you're simply wonderful compared to, well, us. Better yet, post on threads we've already got going until we know you better.

 

[SadnonMage]

How much is too much?

I don't think that it's too much if you can still breathe, move, if your muscles don't ache...............

Then again, the kind of sex that makes your muscles ache and you lose your breath from is the BEST kind, with a little pleasurable pain tossed in for good measure.......mmmmmmm

SM

 

[Alina]

Whatever....

Cym, If you dont like my "bragging" which its not i was asking a legit question and was curious, then dont read my thread...

 

[Angel]

Edited as to not portray the very tone I was bitching about.

 

[DriveSouth]

Re: too much?

I gotta agree here with Alina - DAily is my normal sexual diet, sometimes we don't do it cause of fatigue or somesuch trivial thing -

But all is ok with doing it daily, even more than once daily -

As for bragging, more power to you girl!

Is once a day too much? two or three times a day if he isnt at work.....

 

[SoftPeaches]

Before we got married, it was almost every day. After about 2 years, twice a month (I keep track).

 

[Gilly Bean]

Before we got married, it was almost every day. After about 2 years, twice a month (I keep track).

Before we got married, it was alot, often, all the time. Right before we got married, I got pregnant with baby #2, and while I was pregnant, my sex drive plumeted. Afterwards, it was briefly rekindled, then I started depo-provera, and it went down the tubes again. My hubby is very eager to point out that for the two years from start of pregnancy to end of Depo, he got to have sex like MAYBE once a month.

After that...? I am insatiable. Have been since I stopped Depo, and luckily, with this pregnancy, my sex drive not only remained, it went into hyper drive.

Unfortunatly, my belly is getting so big that most (if not all) positions are just plain old uncomfortable for me.

 

[crystalhunting]

Honey, honestly, you're too new to be bragging like this. It's not reflecting well on you.

A little advice? Find another topic, one in which you don't appear to be saying that you're simply wonderful compared to, well, us. Better yet, post on threads we've already got going until we know you better.

The whispering womans wisdom should be considered.......



CH

 

[TN_Vixen]

WHY?

why should the "whispering woman" be listened to? Alina has every right to post anything she wants. Jeeze.

Alina, don't apologize for voicing your opinions. Everyone has a right to post whatever they want here.

 

[willywanker]

2-3 times a week usually, more lately,

Couple times a week, give or take. Depends on how much work the hubby has to bring home with him and how much laundry/household crap I have going on.

I included Star's comments because it reminded me of a joke.

A couple with small children at home decided to use "doing the laundry" as code for having sex so they could talk in front of the kids.

One day, the husband suggest to the wife that he would like to do a load of laundry tonight. She winks and agrees. But as happens sometimes with small children in the house, everything went wrong that night. Between baths, homework, soccer practise and the like it was at breakfast the next morning that the wife remembered "the laundry".

"Honey," said the wife, "I'm sorry we didn't get a chance to do that laundry last night." "Don't worry about it hun," Replies the husband. "It was a small load so I did it by hand."

 

[ShyGuy68]

Honey, honestly, you're too new to be bragging like this. It's not reflecting well on you.

A little advice? Find another topic, one in which you don't appear to be saying that you're simply wonderful compared to, well, us. Better yet, post on threads we've already got going until we know you better.[/COLOR]

cymbidia honestly what happened with you? I for one didn't think she were bragging at all about this.

And who are you to say what kind of threads she should start or not? It's a free board, and people can do whatever they want here.

It's not that I don't like you Cymbidia, but honestly from time to time I think you should take a long breath and count to 100 before you write a reply like this.

That's just my 2 ¢ worth


Oh and Alina, to answer your question. I've been with 2 women within the last 1½ year, so it's not often enough that I get laid! Damn it!!

 

[TN_Vixen]

cymbidia honestly what happened with you? I for one didn't think she were bragging at all about this.

And who are you to say what kind of threads she should start or not? It's a free board, and people can do whatever they want here.

It's not that I don't like you Cymbidia, but honestly from time to time I think you should take a long breath and count to 100 before you write a reply like this.

That's just my 2 ¢ worth

hehe
validation.