How often BJ's with swallow?

litdude

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Haven't seen a thread on the first few pages on BJ's....

So how often do you get (or give) bj's to completion?

Anybody getting/giving them everyday?

Is anybody in an almost "all oral" mode? I know my wife and I have oral on almost every occasion. Whether we finish that way or a fk varies. Kinda curious if some people have bj's say 6 days a week and then a fk one day a week.

For the gals, do you find swallowing a chore (slightly difficult) or something exciting?
 
I love giving bj's the first thing I do when we have sex and do give them till he cums. Then after we will have some good hard fucking. :D
 
I want to join the chorus of women saying they love to give head. I'm not really getting regular sex right now, but I always incorporate at least a little sucking into my fucking. I do swallow, I was raised right. The last guy I had sex with on a regular basis didn't want me to swallow, though. After he told me, I was fine with it, but I was initially surprised. I thought all guys wanted all women to swallow all the time. It's so good to learn new stuff!
 
funny, i'm a guy, but i find the whole swallowing thing to be vastly overrated. sure, i have no problem with it, but too many guys seem to act like if she didn't swallow, it didn't count.

i've had girls swallow and that's great. but my woman now doesNOT swallow and i'm totally cool with it. cuz she LOVES to be cum ON. tits, ass, back..... or shooting right on to her pussy, which is very hot and juicy. btw, she also loves loves LOVES to give head, so that's a bonus.

so, i think NOT-swallowing is quite underrated!
 
my gf gives me all the head I can handle, and swallows if I want her to...she loves the taste of cum. She asks me to cum in her mouth, that is hot. But I don't feel that if she doesn't swallow it doesn't count. I do feel that a woman that swallows becomes closer to the guy she is with tho, sort of like giving all of one's self to another. Just my opinion, doesn't mean much :)
 
Great topic to bad I cant contribute much. I have never had my cum swallowed in fact I cant count on my two hands how many times I have even gotten to cum in my wifes mouth. She gives great head but I hardly ever get to finish in her mouth. I cant imagine what I would do if she would swallow one of my loads I would probably cum again. As far as I am concerned any oral is great oral but for the women their is nothing better than having your woman complete the process in her mouth. I could careless if she spits or not. Heck my wife spitting one time was the fuinniest sexual episode in eather of our lives.
 
I swallow because...

it's just simply less messy.
As for number of BJs per week, I have a husband and a lover to keep happy. So you can put me down to about 3 per week. More if I get roses! :rose:

Jenny
 
I prefer getting head to giving head, but I still love to do it for my guy. I've actually used many of the techniques mentioned on other boards here to make it a better experience for him, though it's still a rare occasion when he comes by my efforts alone. As much as he loves getting head, he can't often climax by it alone. Has any one else encountered this issue?
Well, back to the main question. Yes, I swallow every time. I don't particularly enjoy the taste, it's just something I like to do. I feel the job is more complete then. Of course, I do love him to squirt on me too so we alternate, but head usually ends with swallowing.
I guess I agree with the person above who said it makes one feel more connected.
 
Not a favor

The women I have known who swallowed all did it because it was important to them. Swallowing because you think you are supposed to or as a favor to the man doesn't really work and I would rather not get a "favor." For some women, bless their hearts, sucking and swallowing is an important way in which they express their sexuality. For one woman I dated, it was integral to how she viewed herself. She liked seeing herself as a little cum slut and it turned her on tremendously.

If the woman loves it, it's wonderful, otherwise, not wanting to swallow is not a problem in any way whatsoever.

Steve
 
I swallow every time, it just feels like the right way to complete it. And he always kisses me after :heart:
 
I find it that when girl swallows it's alot bigger of a turn on than anything else i dont know why or anything it just does :)
 
:p love to swallow

24/7 if he'd let me. he's going through a stage right now. It's been awhile since I tasted him. :(

enjoy the day
S

:rose:
 
I give him head almost everytime we have sex. Its foreplay for us. If its just a bj I swallow if that is what he wants or let him cum where he wants to. Its all good to me. :p
 
Well there's seems to be a range of experiences and attitudes. An important aspect is the gal's expression of her sexuality or her feelings for the guy. I think that's why it can be so neat to get this treatment.

My wife will swallow about 1/3 to a half of the time. Since what I really value (both becuase it feels so good and because of how accepting it is) is coming in her mouth, things are coming along pretty well. But I can say that I've got an extra burst of closeness when she swallows, and the "high" can last on into the next day.

To me, I'd think that reaction would be something she'd want to foster, but then...I also have to allow her to free reign on the matter. I am happy for her giving attitude for sure.
 
We would usually incorporate oral sex into most of our sex sessions..... unless its a quickie... then its just straight to the point!!! :devil:

I like to give him a bj but finish him off inside me...... but when I do give him a bj and he comes that way, I swallow.
 
BJs

Well, when is often enough?

Seriously, I am so very, very lucky to me seeing a married girl who just loves giving head. We have to sneak around, and i am ashamed at times because I know it's well wrong, but who could resist head at will? On average it's three times a week, and she does indeed swallow.
 
I get head about 5 times a week.. sometimes more, sometimes less. She always swallows. I usually go down on her also. We both enjoy giving and recieving so much.
 
I only get my gf's to swallow if it's... like... love or something... that means I've only made ONE girl swallow my load.

It's just all about being fully accepted and loved and shit... it's hard to explain. Sorry.
 
litdude said:
5 times a week? I wonder if you have much fking going on?

I do actually.. I'm fortuate to be married to a very frisky woman.
 
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