How much does size matter?

[CBHunter]

For the ladies: Depending on what study you read, the average erect penis is about 5.6 inches long and about 4.8 inches around (about 1.5 inches in diameter). What size penis do you prefer to have in you? Average, longer and fatter than average, shorter length and average thickness, or some other combination of the two? What do you like about a particular combination of size attributes? What's the largest and/or smallest you had?

On a side note, do you prefer straight or curved? If curved, which direction and how much?

 

[Erochic]

For the ladies: Depending on what study you read, the average erect penis is about 5.6 inches long and about 4.8 inches around (about 1.5 inches in diameter). What size penis do you prefer to have in you? Average, longer and fatter than average, shorter length and average thickness, or some other combination of the two? What do you like about a particular combination of size attributes? What's the largest and/or smallest you had?

On a side note, do you prefer straight or curved? If curved, which direction and how much?

Who the fuck cares.
I like the dick that's on the guy I like.
Anything else is just details.

Why the hell do guys care so much? Just get really good at oral and work on your charm, use your imagination and be passionate ... and no one will give a damn what's between your legs.

 

[CBHunter]

Who the fuck cares.
I like the dick that's on the guy I like.
Anything else is just details.

Why the hell do guys care so much? Just get really good at oral and work on your charm, use your imagination and be passionate ... and no one will give a damn what's between your legs.

I guess that's one opinion.

 

[mterrence]

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[Tressa_the_wife]

Size doesn't much matter to me. As long as the guy can use it and explode then it is all good.

 

[Erochic]

I guess that's one opinion.

True.... But if you ask around the forum, woman will usually say I like ...... size dick, just like my husband/bf/FWB/lover/dom/sex slave etc etc has.

I said "I like the dick that's on the guy I like"
And if I'm really into him and the sex is really good, then that dick becomes the perfect size/shape dick in my eyes.

 

[CBHunter]

I think it's definitely on account of insecurity. Since there's basically nothing a man can do to change this, I think there's a lot of fear going around that one might not measure up. The reassureance might help, I guess. Especially considering the constant barrage of barely-veiled penis size jokes that the media seems to bombard us with.

Given the vast diversity of opinions I've seen on the subject, it seems pretty clear that different women have different preferences. Which, honestly, shouldn't come as a surprise.

It could just be curiosity about how many women feel - but won't say - the same as the ones who post the "I won't take anything less than 8 inches" ads, or how many women out there prefer - but may be timid to admit - small penises. Don't overthink and assume so much.

 

[CBHunter]

True.... But if you ask around the forum, woman will usually say I like ...... size dick, just like my husband/bf/FWB/lover/dom/sex slave etc etc has.

I said "I like the dick that's on the guy I like"
And if I'm really into him and the sex is really good, then that dick becomes the perfect size/shape dick in my eyes.

Good point, but does liking the guy lead to liking the size of his cock or does liking the size of his cock contribute to liking him? That's kind of where the original question comes in.

 

[CBHunter]

Size doesn't much matter to me. As long as the guy can use it and explode then it is all good.

I'm sure a lot of guys would be more than happy to explode in you.

 

[mterrence]

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[Erochic]

Good point, but does liking the guy lead to liking the size of his cock or does liking the size of his cock contribute to liking him? That's kind of where the original question comes in.

Chicken and the egg... Or the cock and the orgasm.

Well I'm in a position where the guy with the perfect size cock who I was madly I love with had to leave... Taking his perfect size cock to the other side of the world.

I have met two nice guys who I've been playing with.
One is bigger than my perfect cocked guy... And while I've enjoyed it, he has on occasion gone too deep and "ouch" .... But he still gets me off really nicely, and when he takes care and goes slowly and deeply it feels amazing.
The other guy is not as big as perfect cocked guy - but he has some nice thickness and he can go balls deep and go hard without any ouch moments which I really like... And it gets me off very nicely indeed.

And I can't tell you how big they are, because even though I have experienced a fair few men Surprisingly I don't carry a tape measure with me.

 

[CharlieGG]

Based on conversations I've had with women it's like anything else sexually... just like there are some guys who love big tits or tight asses... there are some women who like big, thick cocks. I've talked to some women who insist there's a size limit for them, i.e. if it's TOO big they're not interested...

 

[CBHunter]

Chicken and the egg... Or the cock and the orgasm.

Well I'm in a position where the guy with the perfect size cock who I was madly I love with had to leave... Taking his perfect size cock to the other side of the world.

I have met two nice guys who I've been playing with.
One is bigger than my perfect cocked guy... And while I've enjoyed it, he has on occasion gone too deep and "ouch" .... But he still gets me off really nicely, and when he takes care and goes slowly and deeply it feels amazing.
The other guy is not as big as perfect cocked guy - but he has some nice thickness and he can go balls deep and go hard without any ouch moments which I really like... And it gets me off very nicely indeed.

And I can't tell you how big they are, because even though I have experienced a fair few men Surprisingly I don't carry a tape measure with me.

This is the kind of discussion I was hoping to generate with this thread. Thanks for sharing you insights, and I'm sorry to hear about you losing your perfect cock guy.

I know the answer to this will be "It depends on the woman" but I've always been curious whether women prefer length over thickness or vice versa. I guess a better way to ask that is whether length or thickness contribute more to a satisfying orgasm for women.

 

[Samisstout]

I don't have a huge dick but it's all about the positions u put women in to get deeper

 

[CBHunter]

I don't have a huge dick but it's all about the positions u put women in to get deeper

Personally, I think it's much more about the state of arousal you get them into before they even see your cock. I just started the thread because it was one of those things that wandered through my head and stopped long enough to pique my curiosity. B-)

 

[southern_gal]

My guess is that the Lit penis size thread limit has almost been reached. Pretty sure the limit is something like 34,452 size threads and if I'm correct this is the 34,451st thread on penis size soooooo we only have one left before we can no longer start a thread like this. Won't that be a shame? We will no longer be able to say for the umpteenth time that size isn't the "biggest" issue when it comes to sex. How will we be able to get our message out? Can we get congress to raise the penis size thread limit cap to maybe 40,000 threads? Would that help? Goodness whatever will we do and how will men be able to function if we cannot continue to reassure them for the zillionth time that whatever they have is enough IF it works AND they make us feel desirable and appreciated? Please take a moment and write your congressman and ask them to get the cap limit raised on this important subject so that we may continue to enjoy penis size threads for many years to cum.

 

[CBHunter]

My guess is that the Lit penis size thread limit has almost been reached. Pretty sure the limit is something like 34,452 size threads and if I'm correct this is the 34,451st thread on penis size soooooo we only have one left before we can no longer start a thread like this. Won't that be a shame? We will no longer be able to say for the umpteenth time that size isn't the "biggest" issue when it comes to sex. How will we be able to get our message out? Can we get congress to raise the penis size thread limit cap to maybe 40,000 threads? Would that help? Goodness whatever will we do and how will men be able to function if we cannot continue to reassure them for the zillionth time that whatever they have is enough IF it works AND they make us feel desirable and appreciated? Please take a moment and write your congressman and ask them to get the cap limit raised on this important subject so that we may continue to enjoy penis size threads for many years to cum.

Yeah. Too bad Lit doesn't have a decent method for searching the forums by topic. Would have saved a lot of wear and tear on your typing fingers and us from listening to your angst.

 

[Eilan]

This is the kind of discussion I was hoping to generate with this thread. Thanks for sharing you insights, and I'm sorry to hear about you losing your perfect cock guy.

I know the answer to this will be "It depends on the woman" but I've always been curious whether women prefer length over thickness or vice versa. I guess a better way to ask that is whether length or thickness contribute more to a satisfying orgasm for women.

Considering, contrary to what porn would have one believe, that the vast majority of women don't have orgasms from penetration alone, I'm gonna say neither.

 

[CBHunter]

Considering, contrary to what porn would have one believe, that the vast majority of women don't have orgasms from penetration alone, I'm gonna say neither.

Okay, then. Which feels better regardless of what it does or doesn't accomplish - length or thickness?

 

[SandraMustard]

Obvious to me

Instead of disputing or belittling every woman's honest answer, why don't you save everybody's time by telling what words you want a woman to parrot to pique your interest. Then only size queen bimbos will post here and the rest of us will carry on elsewhere with discussions about good sex.

 

[Hans101]

Guys of normal endowment who are overly concerned with their size don't have anything wrong with the equipment between their legs. They have something wrong with the equipment between their ears.

GROW UP!

 

[CBHunter]

Guys of normal endowment who are overly concerned with their size don't have anything wrong with the equipment between their legs. They have something wrong with the equipment between their ears.

GROW UP!

I have no problem at all with my size. I was hoping to have people discuss whether and how penis size effects their pleasure during sex. I guess Valentine's Day is the wrong day to ask about things like that.

 

[CBHunter]

Instead of disputing or belittling every woman's honest answer, why don't you save everybody's time by telling what words you want a woman to parrot to pique your interest. Then only size queen bimbos will post here and the rest of us will carry on elsewhere with discussions about good sex.

Not interested in size queens. I'd love to hear from women who enjoy penises of all shapes and sizes. And no on forced you to read or respond to this thread, so you've always been free to "carry on elsewhere."

 

[BareBackRider2]

Worst thread I've seen in a long time.

Not because of the op, but because of the childish and down right condescending responses.

Disappointing.

I've come to expect far more mutual respect than I'm seeing here.

He asked a simple question. Maybe Grace him with a simple response and get off the high horse.

 

[Mustang_Mama_44]

Size has never mattered to me. I am happy with average.