How much do you enjoy giving and receiving?

[sunset_dreaming]

Thoughts?

A masterclass. Perhaps a masterpiece, no less.

*adjusts glasses*
Notes have been taken. Thank you kindly

 

[Dreamer110]

I'm curious as to #2 when you say if she knows what she's doing. Give us women some tips...and shafts, lol!

So here's what I like to try (if I can): licking the tip and taking just the glans in the mouth. I love the hole and just working the very tip of my tongue in it as if I'm trying to get inside. Licking along the shaft, especially the underside and sometimes there are particular spots there that need extra attention from the pointed hard tip of the tongue. Cupping, massaging the balls, maybe sucking on them. Licking the lips to make them nice and wet so they glide easily down the shaft hopefully all the way to the base so the head of the cock hits the back of the throat and stops your breath for a little while you gently move your head side to side slightly in a "no" head shake. Backing off. Teasing a bit in, back off, a bit more, back off, a bit more, and so on down to the base and repeating. After this process, taking the mouth all the way off leaving a trail of spittle and getting a deep breath. Massaging and gripping the thighs or the ass cheeks depending on positioning. Also, moving the tongue side to side while taking the cock inside your mouth. Sometimes with enough spit on the shaft you can cover your teeth with your lips and lightly apply more pressure than usual this way by using your jaw instead of just the lip muscles to squeeze while gliding along the shaft. This makes you look like you are a toothless weirdo, lol, but who cares. Sometimes sticking the tongue out over the bottom teeth and tongue while your mouth is down pretty far on the cock. This lets the tip of the tongue brush where the ballsack meets the base of the cock. It really helps to practice brushing the back of your tongue to lessen the gag reflex to be able to do this better.

Thoughts?

Fuck that elicited a reaction.

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out.

G = 10, especially if I can include a vibrator up her ass.​

2. Blowjob.

G/R = 10, though much depends on your partner and hers/his enthusiasm.​

3. Handjob.

G/R = 10, though once again, much depends on who you're with.​

4. Fingering.

G = 10. Memories of when I first got my driver's license.​

5. Penetrative: penis in vagina.

G = 10. It's so primal.​

6. Rimming.

G = 10, but it's gotta be clean.​

R = N/A. I've always wanted to be rimmed, but I've never been so lucky.​

7. Penetrative: penis in ass.

G with a woman = 10. She can be so tight.​

G with a man = 1. An ass is just an ass, I know. But fucking another man's ass doesn't work for me.​

R = N/A. I really want it, but I guess I'm a bit of a coward.​

8. Fisting.

G/R = N/A. I imagine I would do it on request with a pussy, but anally scares me.​

9. Mouth/tongue on nipples.

G with a woman = 10. I love to chew.​

G with a man = 0, though I'm sure I could be persuaded otherwise.​

R = 0. It just doesn't work for me.​

So much of sex does absolutely depend on the partner: their enthusiasm, level of attention, and just the connection between you can brighten the whole experience or make you want to give up and go play by yourself honestly. On rimming I am with you entirely that you've got to be clean. I really hope you get the chance to be rimmed soon! A tongue is just such a warm, wet, wonderful thing! On number 7, do you know if you want to get pegged or have a man enter you? I'm so turned on by pegging recently as I've discovered how fantastic a dildo feels in my ass and the idea that any man can experience that kind of pleasure excites me. I'd certainly want it to be something my partner wanted but I would be so very happy to give it and I hope I get a chance some day

 

[DarkestParts]

I love both, it's sexy on porn movies but in reality the excitement of her mouth on my cock means I can't twirl her clit in the earnest she deserves.
And vice versa as I intensify my tongue on her clit and folds she can't concentrate on my cock.
However, she cums over and over, so I get to enjoy her pussy and juices then she can suck me to completion

One at a time is good for truly focusing but I wonder if for some partners they're unable to fully receive pleasure without getting too in their heads about being the center of attention? I also wonder if for some their partner receiving pleasure and getting revved up might be the main thing that makes them excited so that their enthusiasm wanes if they're the only one receiving oral. I have theories but no conclusions yet, lol. Mmmmm....pussy juices....

 

[DarkestParts]

I love getting pegged and I’ll even suck the strap on. Huge turn on when the woman is into it with no judgement

I don't get how there could be judgement when I know how good it feels for me to have a dildo in my ass. I absolutely want to give that pleasure if it's desired!

 

[Merryegoround]

Giving and receiving can be both demanding and rewarding, in the throes of intimate pleasure received it can be hard to concentrate on giving as much or more pleasure back don't you think?

 

[DarkestParts]

Giving and receiving can be both demanding and rewarding, in the throes of intimate pleasure received it can be hard to concentrate on giving as much or more pleasure back don't you think?

I agree. At a certain point during mutual attention giving I sometimes have to decide to either ignore my own body's building pleasure to concentrate on my partner or give up pleasuring them and let the orgasm sweep over me. Other times it's easier for me to feel good from what they're doing while still being able to do what I want to them. I think it depends on how much I need another orgasm because of the tension left in my body. I don't want to be greedy but I usually want to cum several times. I'm lucky to have a play partner who is very giving that way!

 

[Merryegoround]

I agree. At a certain point during mutual attention giving I sometimes have to decide to either ignore my own body's building pleasure to concentrate on my partner or give up pleasuring them and let the orgasm sweep over me. Other times it's easier for me to feel good from what they're doing while still being able to do what I want to them. I think it depends on how much I need another orgasm because of the tension left in my body. I don't want to be greedy but I usually want to cum several times. I'm lucky to have a play partner who is very giving that way!

As always - it's a case of sensitivity to one another in the moment isn't it?

 

[nostuff]

So much of sex does absolutely depend on the partner: their enthusiasm, level of attention, and just the connection between you can brighten the whole experience or make you want to give up and go play by yourself honestly. On rimming I am with you entirely that you've got to be clean. I really hope you get the chance to be rimmed soon! A tongue is just such a warm, wet, wonderful thing! On number 7, do you know if you want to get pegged or have a man enter you? I'm so turned on by pegging recently as I've discovered how fantastic a dildo feels in my ass and the idea that any man can experience that kind of pleasure excites me. I'd certainly want it to be something my partner wanted but I would be so very happy to give it and I hope I get a chance some day

For a very long time, I've fantasized about being pegged, and I find the image of a woman wearing a strapon incredibly hot. Given the opportunity (assuming I could overcome my concerns of physical damage), I would absolutely let her take my cherry.

Perhaps you could do it?

My only issue with pegging is that I don't understand how the woman enjoys any physical pleasure. Sure, I get the psychological appeal, but the physical part escapes me. I just want my partner to enjoy the experience as much as I

Men, of course, are a bit different. Though I still have concerns, I've wanted a man in my ass ever since I accepted my desire for cock. I love the masculinity and the thought of his strong hands grabbing me by the hips, maybe by the hair, as he takes me doggy style. I'm also intrigued by thoughts of him breeding me.

I want to be the green sweater girl: https://xhamster.com/videos/green-sweater-girl-fucks-in-hotel-room-xhOUXji

 

[DarkestParts]

For a very long time, I've fantasized about being pegged, and I find the image of a woman wearing a strapon incredibly hot. Given the opportunity (assuming I could overcome my concerns of physical damage), I would absolutely let her take my cherry.

Perhaps you could do it?

My only issue with pegging is that I don't understand how the woman enjoys any physical pleasure. Sure, I get the psychological appeal, but the physical part escapes me. I just want my partner to enjoy the experience as much as I

Men, of course, are a bit different. Though I still have concerns, I've wanted a man in my ass ever since I accepted my desire for cock. I love the masculinity and the thought of his strong hands grabbing me by the hips, maybe by the hair, as he takes me doggy style. I'm also intrigued by thoughts of him breeding me.

I want to be the green sweater girl: https://xhamster.com/videos/green-sweater-girl-fucks-in-hotel-room-xhOUXji

I don't have a real strap on yet and haven't decided which kind I want to get but I have been able to simulate one by using three pairs of panties and creating a triangle of sorts through which to place the base of one of my dildos. I layered the panties and pulled one down and the others to either side so that the dildo was relatively secure. I don't know if strap ons are similar but I was able to feel pressure on my clit from the base of the dildo with each thrust (into a pillow, lol). I think the mental aspect and the enjoyment of watching my partner experience pleasure would be the main factors that would bring me pleasure from the experience. I don't knock mental stimulation. I can get myself almost all the way there without touch from thinking enough or talking with someone enough about something sexual. I'm sure for women who enjoy pegging, they get more than enough enjoyment from it.

 

[nostuff]

I don't have a real strap on yet and haven't decided which kind I want to get but I have been able to simulate one by using three pairs of panties and creating a triangle of sorts through which to place the base of one of my dildos. I layered the panties and pulled one down and the others to either side so that the dildo was relatively secure. I don't know if strap ons are similar but I was able to feel pressure on my clit from the base of the dildo with each thrust (into a pillow, lol). I think the mental aspect and the enjoyment of watching my partner experience pleasure would be the main factors that would bring me pleasure from the experience. I don't knock mental stimulation. I can get myself almost all the way there without touch from thinking enough or talking with someone enough about something sexual. I'm sure for women who enjoy pegging, they get more than enough enjoyment from it.

Into a pillow?

You are such a pervert, and I love it.

 

[Funsexyguy18]

I don't get how there could be judgement when I know how good it feels for me to have a dildo in my ass. I absolutely want to give that pleasure if it's desired!

I have been in the past. I felt like just because I wanted to suck the strapon they thought I was gay. Not gay, just enjoy sucking just like I love a dildo in my ass. I'd probably try with the right couple...

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out R10
2. Blowjob R10 G10. Sadly I've never received one worth a 10 yet. And given only one so far but with great response. More needed, both.
3. Handjob R10 G10. Hard to receive a good one.
4. Fingering R10 G10. Only received during foreplay but it was great.
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G10
6. Rimming R never G never, but I don't feel any interest.
7. Penetrative: penis in ass both unknown. One girlfriend wanted to try, got the head in but it was too painful for her. I want to try more. Receiving, also interested. I've tried dildos, sometimes it was great and sometimes just mehi. But I really want to try a real cock.
8. Fisting, never done, don't feel interest.
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples R7 G10. I love oral, touch things with my mouth. Receiving didn't do much but feeling tongue on my skin is very

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out R10
2. Blowjob R10 G10. Sadly I've never received one worth a 10 yet. And given only one so far but with great response. More needed, both.
3. Handjob R10 G10. Hard to receive a good one.
4. Fingering R10 G10. Only received during foreplay but it was great.
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G10
6. Rimming R never G never, but I don't feel any interest.
7. Penetrative: penis in ass both unknown. One girlfriend wanted to try, got the head in but it was too painful for her. I want to try more. Receiving, also interested. I've tried dildos, sometimes it was great and sometimes just mehi. But I really want to try a real cock.
8. Fisting, never done, don't feel interest.
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples R7 G10. I love oral, touch things with my mouth. Receiving didn't do much but feeling tongue on my skin is very

I hope you get a fantastic blowjob soon! I need more practice giving a handjob I realized. I've never given a handjob to get a partner to cum. I've always started using my mouth. I love sucking on a cock. Still, I think I need to work on my hand skills
I think anal requires going slow, lots of lube, and your partner being aroused and relaxed in order to receive you well. Mmmm...a cock in the ass...mhmm!
I also hope you get a finger in the ass again. Now are you sure about the no on rimming thing? A tongue is warm and wet and feels really great in other areas so I wonder if you might just give it a try.

 

[nostuff]

I need more practice giving a handjob I realized. I've never given a handjob to get a partner to cum. I've always started using my mouth. I love sucking on a cock. Still, I think I need to work on my hand skills

I would never discourage a partner from improving his/her handjob technique, but I'm never upset if it leads to a good blow or something more. Handjobs are perfectly fine as foreplay -- unless I happen to be alone.

 

[nostuff]

I felt like just because I wanted to suck the strapon they thought I was gay. Not gay, just enjoy sucking just like I love a dildo in my ass. I'd probably try with the right couple...

Fear of the "gay" label is tough to overcome if you're straight. But a woman using a strapon or dildo on a man doesn't count as gay. The definition kinda requires her to be a he. Unfortunate if you were judged like that.