How many suffer from LBD?

[brownhairedboy2]

Gosh, don't you know that anything that happens to straight people is "just life" and everyone is used to it?

It's only "abnormal" behavior that get named. *tougue in cheek*

Seriously, I was at a health and food conference and the speaker was pointing out that raw foods have 10,000 petra-vitimins, but the only ones that have names are the ones that cause disease. Fortified foods are fortified to help prevent deficies in common diet and thus against those diseases that result from them.

Like: Iodine in salt against goiter. Vit. A against blindness. Folic acid against birth defects.

If you apply this to the conversation at hand then.............

Huh?
Are you trying to say Lesbian relationships are fortified with vitimens and minerals?

 

[MzChrista]

I got to admit it does seem like there are a lot of lesbians who are kind of prudes about sex.

 

[Never]

MzChrista,
Being a lesbian who is a prude, I'd have to agree.

 

[MzChrista]

MzChrista,
Being a lesbian who is a prude, I'd have to agree.

I think PS had a good point. If you were a straight woman and you said you are a prude, everybody would just think "OK" but because you are a lesbian prude, lots of people will think its a big issue.

 

[Never]

I think it has a lot to do with our society's expectations of women and women's sexuality. Society tends to think of men as being overly sexed (hence the popularity of the promiscuous gay man stereotype) and women as being, generally, uninterested in sex or sexually passive. It would make sense to many people that if two women got together that they would quickly lose interest in sex and just prefer to just snuggle or something.

I find, however, that many of society's stereotypes are self-fulfilling, so I'm not surprised if that actually does happen in lesbian relationships.

It's nice to speak with you again, by the way.

 

[MzChrista]

I think it has a lot to do with our society's expectations of women and women's sexuality. Society tends to think of men as being overly sexed (hence the popularity of the promiscuous gay man stereotype) and women as being, generally, uninterested in sex or sexually passive. It would make sense to many people that if two women got together that they would quickly lose interest in sex and just prefer to just snuggle or something.

I find, however, that many of society's stereotypes are self-fulfilling, so I'm not surprised if that actually does happen in lesbian relationships.

It's nice to speak with you again, by the way.

Thanks. I always like seeing what you have to say because you are one person I know always is straight up about what you think.

I agree with what you said. It is a self fulfilling prophecy. And I think that sometimes women who know they dont like sex with men come around to think they are lesbians when they really dont have any sexual interest at all.
Some people I think are just asexual and thats something that doesnt get recognized.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

I think PS had a good point. If you were a straight woman and you said you are a prude, everybody would just think "OK" but because you are a lesbian prude, lots of people will think its a big issue.

Oh I don't know about that, straight women like that usually get labeled as prudes or "Ice Princesses". Now already there are equivalents to viagra coming onto the market to kick-start the female sex drive. I've already seen the commercials for one of them and more are bound to follow. Let's face it, anything that makes women hornier is a a good thing for men and lesbians.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

lol
Well I suppose that a women (or guy) could give a gal a orgasm so intense that it could cause an anerism from the pleasure overload and kill her. After all, some lovers in France are so skilled that they have a word which in translation means "The Little Death." The "little death" comes about when a woman cums so hard that she blacks out!

I am experiancing a lot of "The Little Death" lately, and only LBD with the first lady I was with.

 

[Never]

It's possible for a capillary in the brain to burst during sex but that's as likely to happen before an orgasm as after. I'd be more worried about rollercoasters, those things will kill you.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Shit I thought I killed Pollyjean last night. There was screaming and moaning, then complete silence. Almost checked her pulse, but something else had a pulse. She said she blacked out. WOW she is so amazing

 

[Etoile]

To answer the initial question - yes, my relationship has at times suffered from Lesbian Bed Death. As a horny girl in my late teens/early twenties (I'm 22, we've been together 5 years) I can assure you it sucked royally.

The April 2002 issue of Curve had a cover article called "Sex Ed: The Truth About Lesbian Bed Death" but it's not on their website. It's the best article I've read about the phenomenon. Supposedly LesbiaNation.com has an article about it too, but I can't find it on their site.

More articles:
Appropriate Lesbian Bed Death: "If You Want the Hot Lesbian Fantasy, You've Got to Take the Messy Reality"
The Big Lie: Lesbian Bed Death
The Truth about Lesbian Bed Death
Womyn Aware Essay: Lesbian Bed Death
The Laverne and Shirley Syndrome

 

[ExistentialLuv]

The April 2002 issue of Curve had a cover article called "Sex Ed: The Truth About Lesbian Bed Death" but it's not on their website. It's the best article I've read about the phenomenon. Supposedly LesbiaNation.com has an article about it too, but I can't find it on their site.


Thanx for the links Etoile, very interesting. I had misinterpeted the meaning of LBD and guess I have never experianced it like I thought I had. On the other hand, I did experiance Sex Death. I have been abstinent for 5 years untill I meet Pollyjean. Just lost all interest in it with someone else (in 5 years though learned how to definatly please my own needs), till I meet Pollyjean. Now I can not get enough.

 

[destinie21]

Hmm I think I've been experiencing symptoms of LBD

in the following thread I explain My girlfriend has talked me to tears

We rarely have sex but we talk endlessly as if talk has somehow replaced sex. Or emotional intamacy has replaced phsyical contact

 

[brownhairedboy2]

Hmm I think I've been experiencing symptoms of LBD

in the following thread I explain My girlfriend has talked me to tears

We rarely have sex but we talk endlessly as if talk has somehow replaced sex. Or emotional intamacy has replaced phsyical contact

Sorry to hear that, that sucks.
btw-the link didn't work for me...

 

[brownhairedboy2]

Shit I thought I killed Pollyjean last night. There was screaming and moaning, then complete silence. Almost checked her pulse, but something else had a pulse. She said she blacked out. WOW she is so amazing

It sound slike you are the one who is amazign to have done that to her!

 

[brownhairedboy2]

Thanks for taking the time to find and post those links Etoile.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

It sound slike you are the one who is amazign to have done that to her!

Well she causes me "The Little Death" too, so it is mutaul between us. Very lucky to have found one another.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

Well she causes me "The Little Death" too, so it is mutaul between us. Very lucky to have found one another.

I'm glad I'm not your next door neighbor, God knows how they get thier sleep! You two must sound like two alley-cats in heat when you go at it!

 

[ExistentialLuv]

I'm glad I'm not your next door neighbor, God knows how they get thier sleep! You two must sound like two alley-cats in heat when you go at it!

That is so fucking funny. The neighbor can not even look Pollyjean straight in the face anymore. Polly says she has a gag and a whip on order though. Actually we are more like tigers instead of ally-cats. My tounge moves a lot faster than that little frogs does.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

That is so fucking funny. The neighbor can not even look Pollyjean straight in the face anymore. Polly says she has a gag and a whip on order though. Actually we are more like tigers instead of ally-cats. My tounge moves a lot faster than that little frogs does.

Well when she hears the apartment a rockin' she should a come a knockin.....to ask if she can join in on the fun with you two. lol

Your tongue moves fater then frogger over there->
*mentally picturing you two while remembering how my pet cat Garfield lapped up milk*
Now your just teasing me!

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Well when she hears the apartment a rockin' she should a come a knockin.....to ask if she can join in on the fun with you two. lol

Your tongue moves fater then frogger over there->
*mentally picturing you two while remembering how my pet cat Garfield lapped up milk*
Now your just teasing me!

Thank goodness it's a trailer and not an apartment. If we were in an apartment I probably would have to muffle myself with the pillow again . I am a good girl, I don't tease. MEOWww

 

[brownhairedboy2]

Thank goodness it's a trailer and not an apartment. If we were in an apartment I probably would have to muffle myself with the pillow again . I am a good girl, I don't tease. MEOWww

Oh, a pillow-biter, eh?
You sure don't sound like a good girl to me, in fact, you sound like a very naughty girl indeed!

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Spankings

Oh, a pillow-biter, eh?
You sure don't sound like a good girl to me, in fact, you sound like a very naughty girl indeed!

Your right I am naughty. If I am real naughty she spanks me , I sure do get spanked a lot . If I was to bite her as hard as I do the pillow I would for sure draw blood, plus I get lock jaw for a couple of mins. , so she would be in real trouble.