How Many Still Have Sex ?

[AsylumSeeker]

There have been recent articles in the news about a partner accusing the other of "not delivering".

I wish I would... I wish I could...

Just waiting to die.

 

[_Lynn_]

There have been recent articles in the news about a partner accusing the other of "not delivering".

I wish I would... I wish I could...

Just waiting to die.

That would require the partners on the same continent, right?

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Being VERY Honest...

That would require the partners on the same continent, right?

I have an inablity to get hard. Tried pills, just have no sex drive.

The wife (we're both older, used to fuck like rabbits) is okay with this.

I guess if all is happy, all is good.

Seeing a trend where sex (especially with those beyond child-bearing years) DON'TMUCH CARE

Hmm, glad she's sleeping. But this is our fact of life.

Okay, so now I'm a "softie".

 

[_Lynn_]

I have an inablity to get hard. Tried pills, just have no sex drive.

The wife (we're both older, used to fuck like rabbits) is okay with this.

I guess if all is happy, all is good.

Seeing a trend where sex (especially with those beyond child-bearing years) DON'TMUCH CARE

Hmm, glad she's sleeping. But this is our fact of life.

Okay, so now I'm a "softie".

What a couple does is their business. I have no problem with whatever that is. Whatever works, or doesn't work, for them, is their choice. To me the key is communication between them. When they are both happy, awesome. It's when only one is satisfied with the arrangements that problems arise.

Life doesn't always let our body do what our mind wants it to.

((That sounded like I don't care. Not my intention at all to come off that way.))

 

[AsylumSeeker]

You're So Right

The wife and I share stories about work and all, she's okay with the no sex thing, maybe not so many wouldn't. She says sex is more of a GUY thing.

 

[_Lynn_]

The wife and I share stories about work and all, she's okay with the no sex thing, maybe not so many wouldn't. She says sex is more of a GUY thing.

Yeah, she isn't alone there. I know plenty like that, too.

 

[wildehafer]

Sex is all in the mind isn't it?

Despite that, I still like a jolly good shag!

 

[Guest]

AS, your honesty requires me to share as well.

My wife and I are mid-50's; sex has been pretty much off the table for at least four years. Lots of things play into that: menopause, stress, the girlchild still at home at age 22, others.

We've talked about the situation, would like to change it, but aren't sure how. My libido is at its lowest level ever, even though the testosterone level is normal, and desire is a rare and fleeting thing.

I feel your pain, believe me.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

AS, your honesty requires me to share as well.

My wife and I are mid-50's; sex has been pretty much off the table for at least four years. Lots of things play into that: menopause, stress, the girlchild still at home at age 22, others.

We've talked about the situation, would like to change it, but aren't sure how. My libido is at its lowest level ever, even though the testosterone level is normal, and desire is a rare and fleeting thing.

I feel your pain, believe me.

Thanks for chiming in. I used to think our friends (my age) were "active" if you will, but wives talk and such is not the case.

The pills don't always work, so we just enjoy the moments we have.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

And The Truth...

Have gotten many more feedbacks than anything else. Yes, I am honest, especially when I am a victim of things outside my control. In my stimation there is a low percentage of men "actually" getting it, a huge percentage of men who "think" they are getting it, and then the rest of us.

Luckily for the readers, I'm still writing about it.

What the fuck, it's more of a mental thing anyway.

Happy dreams ya'll!

 

[_Lynn_]

Have gotten many more feedbacks than anything else. Yes, I am honest, especially when I am a victim of things outside my control. In my stimation there is a low percentage of men "actually" getting it, a huge percentage of men who "think" they are getting it, and then the rest of us.

Luckily for the readers, I'm still writing about it.

What the fuck, it's more of a mental thing anyway.

Happy dreams ya'll!

Or a good imagination ...

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Or a good imagination ...

The mind is the biggest sex organ. And when they say "biggest" I 'm assuming that's with the noodles strung out.

 

[_Lynn_]

The mind is the biggest sex organ. And when they say "biggest" I 'm assuming that's with the noodles strung out.

So I'd assume it would be more like spaghetti than macaroni ... since it's 'big', right?

 

[DeeZire]

They say those who aren't getting any are the ones who think about it the most. (You want what you can't have, I suppose.) I can say from personal experience that 'they' are right. It is kind of sad to finally amass enough knowledge to be good in bed, but then only have occasion to put that knowledge to good use on paper.

That being said, I prefer to write about less-than-ideal sex. It just seems more real to me.

 

[_Lynn_]

They say those who aren't getting any are the ones who think about it the most. (You want what you can't have, I suppose.) I can say from personal experience that 'they' are right. It is kind of sad to finally amass enough knowledge to be good in bed, but then only have occasion to put that knowledge to good use on paper.

That being said, I prefer to write about less-than-ideal sex. It just seems more real to me.

I do better with the romance than sex stories for whatever reason. Flirting I can do, a double entendre yes, innuendoes sure ... but when I transpose it to paper it lacks a great deal. So I think about it since I'm not getting any right now, and that's where it stays, I guess.

 

[AsylumSeeker]

I do better with the romance than sex stories for whatever reason. Flirting I can do, a double entendre yes, innuendoes sure ... but when I transpose it to paper it lacks a great deal. So I think about it since I'm not getting any right now, and that's where it stays, I guess.

The romance aspect is important. The real failing of many stories here is giving a believable "reason" for the sex to happen. Life happens, sex doesn't... always at any rate. So I strive for a little bit of believability, or realism. And the sex is an expression, not just shared bodily fluids.

At the physiological level it's just sperm and an egg, but how un-romantic is that?

 

[JhMcKn]

Ageless

My wife is nearly 80 and I am nearly 73. She still likes it if I give her lots of foreplay and go easy with her. I don't have the stamina I used to have but we make love a few times a month. I can get her to orgasm several times before I shoot the semen and sperm in her cunt. Her cunt gets nice and wet if she pees before we fuck and leaves it wet.

 

[CWatson]

They say those who aren't getting any are the ones who think about it the most.

That explains why my virginity seems eternal. >_<

 

[curl4ever]

Have gotten many more feedbacks than anything else. Yes, I am honest, especially when I am a victim of things outside my control. In my estimation there is a low percentage of men "actually" getting it, a huge percentage of men who "think" they are getting it, and then the rest of us.

Luckily for the readers, I'm still writing about it.

What the fuck, it's more of a mental thing anyway.

Happy dreams ya'll!

Dear AS,

I thought I should post the public version of my story: There are many kinds of difficulties beyond one's control. My wife and I have had intercourse only about fifteen times in the past twenty or so years.

Under the certain assumption that you have done better than that, I hereby present you with an official "compared to me" lifetime achievement award.

- curl

 

[AsylumSeeker]

Dear AS,

I thought I should post the public version of my story: There are many kinds of difficulties beyond one's control. My wife and I have had intercourse only about fifteen times in the past twenty or so years.

Under the certain assumption that you have done better than that, I hereby present you with an official "compared to me" lifetime achievement award.

- curl

Okay, so I may have the "edge". Not sure if that's to be celebrated, delved into, or dismissed. But I do miss the "delving", truth be known.

 

[The_Big_O]

Edit: sorry, found out my post went to personal.. mods, please delete this.

 

[O2]

Still doing it

I'll be 54 in Jan.....the wife is 53. I still crave her after 27+ years. She's never been imaginative, spontaneous, adventerous we still do it at least once a month....

If she's actually in the mood it makes it so much better rather than her just doing it to make me happy. I can tell when she's just going through the motions....and we talk about that.

 

[Coptional]

I'm 51, she's 45, and gives the most incredible blowjobs. She sucks me until I'm almost ready to cum, then on my signal, tucks her little silver bullet vibe between her legs, and usually orgasms within a couple of minutes. When she starts to cum, she clamps her mouth down on me tight. Her orgasm never fails to set mine off, and she winds up with a mouthful of cum as she's cumming.

She never wanted me to cum in her mouth before this little ritual developed...now she says her orgasm isn't complete if she doesn't taste my cum.