How many of you tell your partners

[Gord]

That you post on Lit ..................I know there are a few couples here but would YOU be happy if your nearest saw what you posted and is having the odd online flirt considered being a bit unfaithful

 

[KillerMuffin]

He reads Lit every once in a while.

 

[Guest]

My husband knows. He reads over my shoulder, at times.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

as long as I dont do anything in front of our kids (not into that anyways) or she doesnt get phone calls from any phone sex partners (happend once, GULP) she is cool with it

 

[Secret Kate]

 

[Vinny]

Kate

My kinda woman. When can wee hook up darling

 

[Wiggles]

He knows, and I think he's glad that I've found another outlet for my perviness.

I can guarantee he doesn't care about online flirting, he feels that it doesn't matter. I feel the same way. Nothing done online, apart from learning, will effect my relationship.

 

[Latinababe]

LatinaBabe


My partner reads what I write and also publish things on here so I am happy

 

[His_kitty]

I'm still alive aren't I? lol

 

[lovetoread]

Hmm well...he knows that I post here. I met him on Lit so that isnt a shock at all.

 

[sunstruck]

He knows, he's non-plused? (that's a word right?)
Sometimes if there's something exceptionally funny he'll read a bit.
He ocasionally looks over my shoulder to laugh at LTR's AV or droll over Rubyfruits.

 

[lisalove]

He knows, but he's not overly impressed. I just tell him that it's a message board for intellectuals to discuss, umm sex and other stuff. I don't chat with guys (anymore), so he really has nothing to worry about.

It's all just fun and games...till someone loses an eye.

 

[ARaynes]

My hubby knows and thinks it is great. To coin his phrase, "My wife has groupies!"

 

[Gord]

I have only just found lit and as I post mainly from the office - the other half doesnt realy know. I dont think it would be a problem as she is probably more broadminded than me anyway.... but it is nice to just have somethings just for yourself. Somethings can get so misconstrued and misinterpreted that it might be safer just to keep it for me

 

[nasty]

I have kept that secret.

 

[Calamity Jane]

My SO knows I post here, and occasionally reads over my shoulder. I have asked him not to post, because I consider this 'my' place and I don't want to have to edit what I'm thinking so that he doesn't get upset, or read into things I've posted.

I don't know if it bothers him or not. I'm not sure it would matter if it did.

 

[sabbathstorm]

My partner knows that I post here since we share this username. He doesn't post but instead prefers to read over what I've been posting to. There's no problem with me being here...he just kids me about being addicted

 

[ARaynes]

My partner knows that I post here since we share this username. He doesn't post but instead prefers to read over what I've been posting to. There's no problem with me being here...he just kids me about being addicted

I get the same thing....Can I help it if I can do 1000 post in a week??

 

[sabbathstorm]

Ah someone who understands me

 

[Skibum]

I post mainly from the office

Be careful with that, Gord. We just had one member who was fired from her job for accessing this site from work.

As for the question, I first met my SO here, and we sometimes disscuss my posts. She doesn't post much anymore, but she knows that I drop in most days. I don't flirt much anyway. I'm just not comfortable doing that while in a committed relationship.

 

[pipercatt]

Hubby introduced me to the Lit Stories...I introduced him to the Lit BB.

He doesn't post a lot, but yes, he knows I do, and doesn't care. I haven't said anything on here that he doesn't already know about anyway...

 

[tswyk]

He knows, and I think he's glad that I've found another outlet for my perviness.

I can guarantee he doesn't care about online flirting, he feels that it doesn't matter. I feel the same way. Nothing done online, apart from learning, will effect my relationship.

Pretty much DITTO for me.

Anyone that has been involved in "off the board" conversation with me knows about my situation - I'm very honest about it.

 

[DevilBoy79]

she has axcess to my account, got nothing to hide, by the way Gord love th eAV used to watch that show all the time

 

[erosman]

right there with Wiggles and tswyk...

She thinks it's great that I have such a fun playground. That way she doesn't have to bear the full brunt of my mania.

She's so relieved, that I think she's knitting everyone here mittens for Christmas

 

[Kitte]

My soon to be X hubby... knows I play here HATES it... My SO on the other hand, who I met online not at Lit... loves it. He sometimes will come read a thread if I ask him too if I think he will be interested but like PCG said, he thinks of this as My place to play.