how many of you have problems with your FATHERS?!

paganangel

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all my life my dad has told my i'm argumentative. but he strarts it just so he can accuse me of being the instigator. wn i freak he then gets all calm so i look nuts. the best part...he saves himself in the end by saying, "hey, that's just my opinion."
 
Ever since I can remember, 1 of my nicknames was "Little Dick." So, that's mostly way I have a self-image problem with my lilin'
 
All I can say is that I do but that's about all I'm going to say on the subject.
 
Mine died 31years and 3 days ago. Sometimes it's a problem.

May I suggest you respond with a "Dad I've always appreciated &admired you for your ( courage/selflessness/sense of humor/ ethical code/ sense of duty/ will/persistance /memory/wit) you're an example and an inspiration. But that's just my opinion.;) "
 
patient1 said:
Mine died 31years and 3 days ago. Sometimes it's a problem.

May I suggest you respond with a "Dad I've always appreciated &admired you for your ( courage/selflessness/sense of humor/ ethical code/ sense of duty/ will/persistance /memory/wit) you're an example and an inspiration. But that's just my opinion.;) "
i love my dad. doesn't me he can't drive me nuts. i mean c'mon. we are talking about a man who told me the other day that the american revolution didn't happen.
 
Well jinkies, Patient1. After your post I don't feel like whining about my dad anymore.

Although, I could tell y'all about the time he was sleep-walking and peed on my closet door thinking he was in the bathroom...
 
paganangel said:
hey, c'mon...that can happen to anyone.

And did I mention him eating the whole bag of Tim Tams a friend sent to me from New Zealand? In one sitting...*sigh*

I love my dad. He's the best man on earth. He just has some habits that don't mesh with mine and cause a bit of friction.
 
You guys whine all you want. We all need to bitch about family sometimes, I know.

I was only suggesting that if you give somebody a reputation to live up to , they'll try not to dissapoint you. Or maybe it wouldn't hurt you to count your blessings. My blessing is that I missed that crap.
 
Sometimes i have problems with my dad. NOTHING like i do with my mom.
We fight but me and my dad are alot alike(DAMN thats scary lol).
We mostly fight now about my son. He doesnt care what time of day it is, if its a hour before supper and we are there he will try to get my son to eat ANYTHING thats out in front of him.
My son is starting to get a belly on him and with my family having a history of weight problems im trying to watch what he eats.
My dad doesnt like it when i get onto my son.
When my son was 4 yrs old we was at my parents visiting. He has toys there to play with, when we was getting ready to leave i told my son to pick his toys up because we was going home. My son threw a fit because 1. he wasnt ready to go home, 2. he didnt want to pick the toys up. I got onto him and told him he got them out he can put them back. My dad jumps my ass tellimg me he is to little to pick his toys up. WTF?!?!? I told my dad to back off, he needs to learn to somethings for himself. My dad doesnt think so.

But i do love my dad, he does get on my nerves, but at least when we argue, after its over with, we can move on and talk like nothing has ever happened.

My mom says my dad is just being a grandparent when it comes to my son. I say he is just spoiling the shit out of him and doesnt care what i think.

But i do love him. Even if he does bug the crap out of me at times.......LOL
 
major problems with my dad. thank goodness I have had and still do have others in my life that I can count on.
 
My father is one of the very very few people out there who has my respect.
 
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