How Many of you are willing..

[TN_Vixen]

to admit to the exact number of sexual partners you've had... sexual meaning not necessarily intercourse in your life to a potential lover, wife, even close friend?

 

[Thumper]

Nuttin to hide...

My wife knows of my sexual meanderings...which is interesting because they all happened post nuptial...

OK I am a bad boy...been good lately though...

Needless to say it has been an interesting relationship...and will continue to be...

 

[GuyJD]

LET'S SEE......CARRY THE 2, ROUND OFF TO THE NEAREST HUNDRED!!!

Good thought, Vixen. But I sort of lost counts after the 80's. Hell, I can remember about 15 in the last decade alone.
The soon to be ex knows of only a few of my past lovers. Why is that? I'm not one to kiss & tell.

[Edited by GuyJD on 10-08-2000 at 12:48 AM]

 

[Silverlily]

Hubby dear knows. He doesn't always like it, but he knows.

As for post nuptials, of course he knows about those! He was there.

 

[Thumper]

Oh Ms Kitten...clarification please..

Are you saying...your exploits after being duly wed were only with the lucky guy or that he was with you and....ahem ...er...uh..you know?

BTW if this too personal a question, who cares I'm nosy! LOL

*whispering*

Nice ASS!

 

[Silverlily]

My god, man! How easy do you think I am? (don't answer that)

Let's just say he was always present.

whispering back, thanks! Nice laces!

 

[Guest]

Well, hell... I've had sex with somewhere between 25-35 men (and around 12-20 women). Lord knows how many more I've only "fooled" around with!

~Tiggs~
http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net4/thefinger.gif

 

[Ezzie]

What can I say... I'm a slut

With my sexual history of 4 male partners and zero female partners (Except that one time me and Tiggie... well, nevermind), I've decided that it's time to go to a "Sex Addicts Anonymous" meeting. But hell, I married 1 and a half of the 4. LOL

 

[Cheyenne]

I think the question was not how many your actual number is (there have been other threads for that question) but would you be willing to tell your potential lover, husband/wife or best friend what that number is. I'd say the answer is "no."

I think for most people, you're better off being more general saying something like "a few", "not too many", "enough that I learned a couple neat tricks like this...", "well, I was a teen during the 70's, don't forget", or "oh, quite a few but none as great as you, dear." I especially like "not too many" since it covers any number from zero to infinity- it all depends on your personal definition of "too many"!!!

 

[R Nitelight]

I've honestly lost count. I was drinking a lot in those days, and it was a big herd.....

 

[Guest]

I honestly can't count them all, and I have no qualms to say that. My last bf reported the same to me, but had a problem with mine. Too bad for him, he's now my ex.....

- Moon

 

[Guest]

Ummm....

Dearest Cheyenne,

If you READ Ms. Vixen's post, it starts with "How many of you are willing..." then she goes on to add "TO ADMIT THE EXACT NUMBER OF SEXUAL PARTNERS YOU'VE HAD?" Then she mentions it does not have to be intercourse only.

~Tiggs~

 

[Ezzie]

I'll admit to anyone that I've had 4 partners. I wouldn't worry about what they think of me, well, except that maybe they'd think I have no life and they'd be somewhat right. LOL

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Ummm....

If you READ Ms. Vixen's post, it starts with "How many of you are willing..." then she goes on to add "TO ADMIT THE EXACT NUMBER OF SEXUAL PARTNERS YOU'VE HAD?" ~Tiggs~

Tiggs, dear, bless your heart.
Did you close your eyes and not read the rest of the sentence? Not to be picky, but the exact quote would be "...to admit the exact number of sexual partners you've had ...to a potential lover, wife, even close friend?
Of course, if you consider everyone at Lit to be a potential lover, wife, or a close friend, then indirectly it could be a request for an exact number. But I read it to be those groups of people in RL, not on the board, otherwise Vixen would have just out and out asked for the exact number without defining who you would be talking to.

 

[Guest]

Well, I would consider SOME people here at Lit to be friends, and a few of them CLOSE friends. And hell, I'm a very open person sexually... So, I guess if I were WILLING to tell Lit about the # of people I've been with, why would I NOT be willing to tell a potential lover/husband?

~Tiggs~

 

[Cheyenne]

So, I guess if I were WILLING to tell Lit about the # of people I've been with, why would I NOT be willing to tell a potential lover/husband?

~Tiggs~

Ah, that's an easy one. How many people have posted information at Lit in an anonymous setting but have never ever told anyone in RL the same information? I have. Well, after I posted it here, then I told someone about it in RL. But first it was posted here in a setting where I'm anonymous to all but one or two of you.

I'm not necessarily talking about number of sexual partners, although the anonymous concept applies to that question, too. Here at Lit, it can't really hurt you to advertise a number or brag about your hit total. Or even admit that your total is "0" like a few of the people have said. In real life, it can hurt you to give exact numbers. See a few of the answers above where someone is an "ex" now because they couldn't handle the knowledge of their partner's sexual past.

In general, I think most of us are willing to at least sometimes share more of our personal information here at Lit than we are in RL. Hmmmm.... sounds like a new thread to me.

Now, back to the original topic of this thread.....

 

[Guest]

Well hell, I have given lots of my real life friends links to this site. AND I am just this open with anyone (be it close friend or just some stranger) in person, offline, in the flesh. Maybe I'm more secure about my sexuality? Who knows.

~Lindsay

[Edited by Tiggs on 10-08-2000 at 07:51 AM]

 

[Guest]

P.S.
Many people who have AOL and live locally have met me in person. Anyone there could tell you I am just the same in person as I am here online. I don't hide behind anything. I don't pretend to be anything I'm not (in fact, I hate those people that think the net is an excuse to lie!). And, so you know "Tiggs" (and any other form of it now) is a nick name I got MANY years ago for being such a big Tigger fan. My name is Lindsay Frank (as many from AOL knows), I have lived in Omaha, Ne. (In the MIDwest) all of my life. I am 5' 7", have long brown hair, hazel green eyes, 38c chest, and once again a bald pussy. I have one son, now 18 mos. old. I am separated from my ex, Brad. There is a new love interest in my life who is in Illinois and I have yet to meet him. I hope to meet him before the end of this year though! So, anything more ANY of you would like to know about this anonymous Net user Tiggs?

 

[Cheyenne]

Poor Tiggs. Maybe you do need sleep? You don't seem quite yourself this morning. Go to bed, get some sleep, and when you wake up the world will be clearer and a happier place for you. I hope.

 

[Bobtoad777]

O partners not even a past girlfriend, so I think if I ever actually get to have a girlfriend or wife, I would have no problem telling her about my past, but like here she probably would believe 25 years abstinance

 

[Bliss]

to admit to the exact number of sexual partners you've had... sexual meaning not necessarily intercourse in your life to a potential lover, wife, even close friend?

My partner and I have discussed round numbers, and some lifelong girlfriends and my sisters have a fairly good idea, as they were part of my life when each "relationship", however fleeting, occured.

 

[Patryn]

Odd this topic should come up, since it just came up between my b/f and I last week sometime. It wasn't one of those "I wanna know if you're a slut/gigolo before I sleep with you" things, it was more like a test of comfort, now that I look back on the convo. I had no problem admitting it. It hasn't been that many (9), but even if it were, he's either gonna deal with it or not, and I'd just as soon have him know the truth. He was cool with telling me, too (14), so it was no big deal.

 

[ElaineWest]

Sure, if I am going to tell them something like that I trust them enough to be honest with them! What difference would it make anyway if you told them the truth or not, there is nothing you or they can do about it so fuck it (no pun intended). I just mean it the whole scheme of things what the hell does all that matter, you might as well be honest!

 

[Softly]

My husband has been told about every man, before and after I met him. The total is very high. He has an amazing retention of detail. He not only remembers each guy, but can recall how I met them, where we had sex, and my comments as to the type of person the man was, such as, "He was a salesman from Georgia, medium height, and a really nice guy. I would love to try him again when he is in town."

He shares with me his adventures. In his case, they are always a long way from home since so many people know him locally, in either of our home areas.

 

[Roll-One]

there's to many to remember, i guess.... and i would tell anyone anything, i'm a very open person