how many of you actually do bdsm in real life?

[dolf]

i've done this thread before, long ago...but there's a lot of new faces here now!

always interesting to see the who are the lifers, the onliners and the dreamers.

so, tell me, what's your style now and would you want it to be any different?

wait for the poll!

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Dolf...lovely as always.

Too slow with the poll though.

I engage in BDSM every chance I get and intense is my middle name.

The only difference I would like to see in my lifetime is for BDSM to go back undreground so that the wannabes would drop out of sight.

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i've done this thread before, long ago...but there's a lot of new faces here now!

always interesting to see the who are the lifers, the onliners and the dreamers.

so, tell me, what's your style now and would you want it to be any different?

wait for the poll!

 

[Betticus]

I need a vic.... I mean.. girl first..

 

[dolf]

Dolf...lovely as always.

Too slow with the poll though.

I engage in BDSM every chance I get and intense is my middle name.

The only difference I would like to see in my lifetime is for BDSM to go back undreground so that the wannabes would drop out of sight.

d

i think every lifestyle has it's wannabes.

...and now i regret not having a "i'm a wannabe" option

 

[dolf]

I need a vic.... I mean.. girl first..

you need to hold onto them a little tighter when you catch them, Bet.

if you tied them up it'd help.

lots of rope.

or *sigh* chain...

 

[Blushing Bottom]

LOL

too true!

d

i think every lifestyle has it's wannabes.

 

[Betticus]

you need to hold onto them a little tighter when you catch them, Bet.

if you tied them up it'd help.

lots of rope.

or *sigh* chain...

I think it's this whole depression thing. I haven't even had the urge to pull a girls hair in months.

 

[dolf]

I think it's this whole depression thing. I haven't even had the urge to pull a girls hair in months.

maybe you're depressed because you've not pulled a girl's hair?

 

[Shankara20]

I have lived it in the past, and want to again - it must be part of any relationship I have.

Right now I am teaching my cats to bottom, but that is slow going....

 

[dolf]

I have lived it in the past, and want to again - it must be part of any relationship I have.

Right now I am teaching my cats to bottom, but that is slow going....

i think that's doomed to fail...they're always topping from the bottom.

 

[Shankara20]

i think that's doomed to fail...they're always topping from the bottom.

*sigh*

I fear you are correct.

 

[Chicklet]

BDSM is an essential part of my sexuality and will be a big part of my choice in future mates, but at the moment i'm painfully single and unbruised.

 

[dolf]

BDSM is an essential part of my sexuality and will be a big part of my choice in future mates, but at the moment i'm painfully single and unbruised.

i'm so unbruised *sigh*

the best thrill i've had in months was shy slave testing a strap on my hand yesterday

 

[SpectreT]

Fortunately, you can vote for more than one on the list.

Been there in the past, want to go back to it, maybe a little further (or a lot further), and much like Betticus, lacking in the partner aspect of things.

 

[Betticus]

maybe you're depressed because you've not pulled a girl's hair?

I think you are on to something there. I haven't pulled a girls hair in a long time so I'm all depressed but then the depression gets worse because I don't have a lil subbie's hair to pull.

Sadly, domming my cat only goes so far. She may be cuddling at my feet right now like a good kitty but deep in her tiny little cat heart lies the soul of a murderer that cannot be tamed. A cricket hunting machine!


Gawd I need a hobby.

 

[Sprinkles22]

I'm in an LDR that is full time, and we share RL time when we can. It's a REAL relationship ... our only distance is geographical.

 

[dolf]

I think you are on to something there. I haven't pulled a girls hair in a long time so I'm all depressed but then the depression gets worse because I don't have a lil subbie's hair to pull.

Sadly, domming my cat only goes so far. She may be cuddling at my feet right now like a good kitty but deep in her tiny little cat heart lies the soul of a murderer that cannot be tamed. A cricket hunting machine!


Gawd I need a hobby.

my cat is sitting on the back of the comp screen, watching me post, so i daren't say anything...

 

[dolf]

I'm in an LDR that is full time, and we share RL time when we can. It's a REAL relationship ... our only distance is geographical.

hard on the heart and on the pocket!

yup, i know the feeling.

 

[Chicklet]

Gawd I need a hobby.

is smoking pot a hobby? 'cause that's been my response ><

argh i'm going to stop typing before this becomes a rant about how much i need a man, and that i understand your lack of hair to pull.

 

[Sprinkles22]

hard on the heart and on the pocket!

yup, i know the feeling.

but it's worth every sacrifice

 

[CutieMouse]

It was once a part of everyday Life; it isn't at the moment; I doubt it will be again.

 

[Betticus]

my cat is sitting on the back of the comp screen, watching me post, so i daren't say anything...

Beware the pretty kittens!

 

[Cheshire D]

I'm only getting into the scene/lifestyle, myself. I've played a bit with people in the past, and I'm very very very greedy for more.

~tcd~

 

[His_pita]

Been living it real time for the past 9 months and loving it!!

 

[DomRick]

My submissive moved in last year after a R/L LDR of almost three years. Prior to that we had a R/L relationship for about a year when we lived in San Diego before I moved x-country.