How many ladies have experienced
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AutumnMiyuki
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And it's always mismatched. Ha ha.
Sheana_V
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More often then I'd like...
If I want you to stay, I'll invite you; but please don't leave until I've gotten mine.
fishyfingers
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The Panda (eats, shoots and leaves)... Definitely experienced that one.
AutumnMiyuki
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More often then I'd like...
If I want you to stay, I'll invite you; but please don't leave until I've gotten mine.
Amen!
hatlover123
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MILFSauce
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If you're sexually experienced at all, you're going to encounter this sooner or later.
That too. It's not always easy telling a man he needs to go home now, especially if you really do like him and the sex is good. But I'm just not one to want men to stay the night in my bed, unless it's getting damn serious.
Que
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How 'bout an NSA post-coital cuddle in your bed and a recuperative nap on your couch before I quietly let myself out?
Asian_Flower
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I think all of us at some point!!
burn_it
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The Panda (eats, shoots and leaves)... Definitely experienced that one.
I giggled.
I've done the "i cum and then get sleepy" for sure.
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Whichever way round it is, just getting up and leaving immediately afterwards - unless it's agreed beforehand that it's to be that way - can be pretty insulting, depending on the people involved.
At best it says that you're just using the other person, which might be ok if the other person is also just using you, but that's something that should be understood beforehand.
At worst it suggests that the experience was so fucking awful that waking up to see their head on the other pillow is the last thing you could bear.
Similarly, if you're someone who prefers to lock their front door at night with visitors on the outside, make that clear beforehand: 'You're welcome to come to my place and fuck me, but you don't stay the night, no matter how good you are. Ok?'
A friend of mine set out a good set of rules for a man going to a woman's place.
You never leave a woman immediately afterwards unless it's been agreed otherwise beforehand - and you never, ever sneak out during the night while she's asleep. If the experience was bad, you wake her gently at an early hour, tell her you have to be going, but suggest another fuck before you do. Then you get out. She feels good because you wanted to fuck her again, even if the first time was a disaster - and she can always find some reason to decline if she wants to. You are spared the embarrassment of facing someone over the breakfast table who you'd prefer not to see again.
At best it says that you're just using the other person, which might be ok if the other person is also just using you, but that's something that should be understood beforehand.
At worst it suggests that the experience was so fucking awful that waking up to see their head on the other pillow is the last thing you could bear.
Similarly, if you're someone who prefers to lock their front door at night with visitors on the outside, make that clear beforehand: 'You're welcome to come to my place and fuck me, but you don't stay the night, no matter how good you are. Ok?'
A friend of mine set out a good set of rules for a man going to a woman's place.
You never leave a woman immediately afterwards unless it's been agreed otherwise beforehand - and you never, ever sneak out during the night while she's asleep. If the experience was bad, you wake her gently at an early hour, tell her you have to be going, but suggest another fuck before you do. Then you get out. She feels good because you wanted to fuck her again, even if the first time was a disaster - and she can always find some reason to decline if she wants to. You are spared the embarrassment of facing someone over the breakfast table who you'd prefer not to see again.
