How many hard-ons?

[jasmine8316]

I guess I just had no idea. Interesting. I don't know how you guys walk around with those things. Maybe I just don't look down enough. I never really notice men randomly hard walking around. Of course you can be discreet, but if you have that many...you would think women would happen across partial erections quite often.

Oh, and Subwannabe: I wasn't referring to a specific time. It was just a passing thought.

 

[tanyachrs]

I remember a guy I was dating who had a cold saying that he hadn't had an erection in two days. "It's ridiculous!" He was very concerned something was broken but we made it work OK.

 

[FuckinRedneck]

I guess I just had no idea. Interesting. I don't know how you guys walk around with those things.

Sometimes it's not easy. Sometimes it's painful. Oh and by the way I have an errection right now jasmine wondering what you look like!

 

[KINDGIRL]

This is a good topic, Jasmine.
I never noticed any erections either, but then it is not always a convienient place to look. I do think that if I knew I was responsible for one then I would be flattered and perhaps a bit turned on as well - you know, depending on the person it was attached to!
I am surprised at how often men get them during the day. I can't say I find myself wet that often - nope, not at all... but then I guess it takes us women a bit longer.

 

[surfandsand]

Hey... maybe if you gals started eyeing crotches like us guys eye boobs you'd notice... LOL

Just kidding... no hate mail please

 

[cele2flowers]

This is an interesting question. I've wondered about some of this too. I've never really noticed a guy with an erection unless he's sitting down with loose clothing on. The jeans are always so restricting that you reeeaaalllyy gotta look to see on a lot. Yeah, I'll admit it, I'm very guilty at looking at crotches.

 

[surfandsand]

I always knew there were a few ladies out there sneaking a peek.

 

[sirensiren]

ooh I'm an experienced crotch peeker, sometimes you get caught sometimes not...

 

[cele2flowers]

ooh I'm an experienced crotch peeker, sometimes you get caught sometimes not...

I don't think I've gotten caught. If I ever do, no one ever says/does anything to let me know!!

 

[OrganAnarchy]

hello, new here. and want to put alittle input on this topc.

hopefully all the guys here will agree with one thing that most of us do get semi to full erections in the morning thus the term "morning wood." i dont kno if its the full bladder thing that causes it but its always there everymorning. and it doesnt take much to set off an erection. i think a full blown erection happens when either we are extremely aroused and/or we linger on something that gives off sexual suggestion. not to mention us men get turned on by different aspects of a women(smell, breasts, legs, etc.)

 

[BigM]

Most healthy, sexually active men get several full erections in a normal 24-hour period. According to one study by the Brady Urological Institute (Johnny Hopkinson University) these are average full erection rates by age per day:

18-25: 42
25-39: 38
40-59: 21
60-80: 12

These are averages and can vary tremendously by individual, of course.

You gotta be kiddin' me. I must be missing out on something.

I've never had a problem getting a hard-on when duty calls -- but regardless of my age, I've never had 10, much less 40, boners in a day! What are you guys eating?

I can spend hours checking out online porn and get aroused, but that's not the same thing as popping a chubby. Funny thing is, my wife can give me a look, or flash me a nipple, and in two seconds I get a hard-on like that. Clearly I've been conditioned, like Pavlov's dogs.

What's the difference between being aroused and getting an erection? It's hard to explain. But I assume women can feel sexually excited without getting wet... no?

 

[PowerLifter84]

You get quite a few hard-ons while sleeping too. The 40 was calculated into the equation, I do believe.

 

[pace_purr]

Surprised

For myself I have had erections at all times of day and night and to be honest I have been surprised as to what has caused them. in my early teens just looking at a photo of a naked woman would give me an erection n seconds

 

[craupadine_girl]

Wow, this explains a lot. So if an 18-25yo can get 42 erections a day, or let's say 30 while awake, how long do they last? I'm assuming not very long otherwise I'm sure I would have noticed.

 

[troutmann1]

Almost Always

It seems like I alwasy have an erection. Some days when I fall asleeo at night my cock is sore from being hard all day. Sex doesn't always make it go away. Glad to share my experiences any time.

 

[alain88]

For myself I have had erections at all times of day and night and to be honest I have been surprised as to what has caused them. in my early teens just looking at a photo of a naked woman would give me an erection n seconds

Photos of naked women still give me an erection in seconds and I'm over 50. In fact, they don't even have to be naked. Hell, a photo of a girl in tight jeans or shirt makes my dick hard instantly. I real life it is worse. When I see a girl with big tits in a tight shirt my cock gets so hard it just aches. Erections with no release are not exactly pleasurable.

 

[sirensiren]

But if this is true( about getting erections so often and easy) how come not more women notice this?? Are you masters at hiding your erections?

 

[M's girl]

Photos of naked women still give me an erection in seconds and I'm over 50. In fact, they don't even have to be naked. Hell, a photo of a girl in tight jeans or shirt makes my dick hard instantly. I real life it is worse. When I see a girl with big tits in a tight shirt my cock gets so hard it just aches. Erections with no release are not exactly pleasurable.

I'm not saying I doubt you, but how can you function 'normal' during all this?

 

[M's girl]

But if this is true( about getting erections so often and easy) how come not more women notice this?? Are you masters at hiding your erections?

Do you always 'scan' a guy to see if you can identify an erection? I know that for instance with M I can't always see 'them'... It depends on the trousers he's wearing. So it's not like eretions always stand out like a big neon sign, plus you, as a women, need to be looking for it first too. Most of the time I forget to look. Unless I'm interested myself to know, I'm not assuming men have erections all the time (around me).

 

[cele2flowers]

Do you always 'scan' a guy to see if you can identify an erection? I know that for instance with M I can't always see 'them'... It depends on the trousers he's wearing. So it's not like eretions always stand out like a big neon sign, plus you, as a women, need to be looking for it first too. Most of the time I forget to look. Unless I'm interested myself to know, I'm not assuming men have erections all the time (around me).

I generally don't walk around constantly looking at men's crotches for erections. I have to be at a party or a bar where people are standing or sitting, though I've caught myself "scanning" the room at work too. Jeans make it really difficult to tell. They're very restrictive (and usually tight) to begin with. It's the looser clothes, like twill, cotton, wool, etc. that is usually loose and lays better. It's kinda hard to miss an erection then, sitting or standing!! Usually, if they're sitting and wearing jeans, the most I can see/figure out is where it is and how the guy positions himself.

 

[M's girl]

.... It's the looser clothes, like twill, cotton, wool, etc. that is usually loose and lays better. It's kinda hard to miss an erection then, sitting or standing!!

True, but if they then put their hands in their pockets they can camouflage it that way, or they can let their jacket of the suit hide it somewhat I guess. And hands in pockets or a jacket are no guarantee

But I must say: most of the time I'm not even interested to know. Only about M. But hey, I can just ask him or feel for myself if I want to know

 

[jasmine8316]

What's the difference between being aroused and getting an erection? It's hard to explain. But I assume women can feel sexually excited without getting wet... no?

Well, a lot of women aren't like our stories. When we do get wet, it doesn't necessarily leave a wet patch per say. We may be more wet inside, but you can't really tell unless you actually check. We don't "drip with anticipation everytime we are aroused. I can't feel anything being secreted. It's more like the cool air hitting the wet skin that you feel....so unless you are really revved, you might not know. Besides, depending on the time of the month you can be quite aroused but still be dry. And opposite. If it's your fertile time of the month, you are pretty wet all day.

I have to actually be fairly relaxed to get physically aroused. I may see a hot guy and be totally into him...but the actual sexual response to him usually doesn't happen unless I'm sitting near him having a private conversation. It's not like I see a guy and I feel my clit begging. You kind of go into overdrive of, "how can I attract this guy." Then when he slides up to you and starts looking at you and talking...well then the actual physical arousal happens.

 

[BigM]

But I must say: most of the time I'm not even interested to know.

I've heard other women say basically the same thing (sadly). During casual guy-watching, they'll check out a guy's butt, his eyes, his smile, his shoulders, whatever. But his crotch? Few women do -- at least, such were the findings of a survey of drunken women at a party one time. (Not exactly scientific, but telling nonetheless.)

 

[tanyachrs]

It seems like I alwasy have an erection. Some days when I fall asleeo at night my cock is sore from being hard all day.

I love that.

 

[alain88]

It is very difficult to walk around with an erection, but thankfully most are short-lived. As I said in a previous post if I see a nice ass in tight pants I will get an instant hard on. As soon as I quit looking or the girl is out of sight it goes away. Where I have the biggest problem, (no pun intended), is standing in line. Like at the grocery store. If a girl in front of me has big tits or a nice ass my dick will get so hard I can hardly stand it. It will stay until she leaves, so if anyone happened to look at my crotch at that time I'm sure it would be noticable....makes me kind of self-conscious.