How many guys here are 100% gay?

[Raimondin]

I'm new to these forums, and hope I'm not giving offense. It is all very interesting to hear about all this bi-curiousity. But I've known I was gay since I was five years old. Are there others that feel this way?

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[Queersetti]

I'm new to these forums, and hope I'm not giving offense. It is all very interesting to hear about all this bi-curiousity. But I've known I was gay since I was five years old. Are there others that feel this way?

Yes, but not many. Gays seem to far outnumber bis at Lit, for whatever reason. But, of course, all are welcome!

 

[Raimondin]

Re: Re: How many guys here are 100% gay?

I'm a bisexual guy. I've known since the age of five that I was very interested in naked women and was attracted to girls *and* that I found it extremely exciting to play 'doctor' with boys. By the time I was thirteen I had stripped naked with boys my age, we had fondled each other, I had masturbated to orgasm while they watched, and I had a deep crush on two blond boys I knew. So it's clear to me anyway that kids have a sexual orientation when they are very young, and it's just a matter of expressing it (or not) later on.

Yeah, my first attraction at age five or six was the mailman with his thick furry arms. Right off, there was no doubt what I was attracted to because there I was waiting for him to arrive every afternoon! Then a few years later it was the hunky paperboy, followed by my best friends Dad(neighbor) who was a concrete layer. I know these guys almost sound cliche, but by the third grade I had my first crush, with the school custodian, and not the teacher, Mrs. what-ever-her-name was!...And lo & behold by 13 I was blowing & getting plowed by the 15 year old paperboy in our outside laundryroom. Just about every afternoon for the next 3 months! til he quit...But true, kids already have a sexual orientation very early on...But kids can also become "sexualized" regardless of what their attraction is...

 

[Raimondin]

Re: Re: How many guys here are 100% gay?

Yes, but not many. Gays seem to far outnumber bis at Lit, for whatever reason. But, of course, all are welcome!

Hmm... Isn't it the other way around? Bis outnumber gays? Is that what you meant?

 

[CJontherocks]

Is there a true bi-sexuality? I do like being with women... a lot. But I like men as well. Until recently, I was never really "attracted" to men. If that's a result of breaking down the barrier between acceptance of my sexuality, does it follow that the more barriers I break down, the more I will progress to being 100% gay? 'Cause I'll be honest, I don't think I can give up women. Damn, just when I was getting comfortable being bi...

 

[Queersetti]

Re: Re: Re: How many guys here are 100% gay?

Hmm... Isn't it the other way around? Bis outnumber gays? Is that what you meant?

Yes, you are correct. I "misspoke". There are many posters at Lit who identify as bi, only a few lesbians, and even fewer gay men.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[bi_asian_guy]

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[Raimondin]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How many guys here are 100% gay?

Boy, do I ever wish I'd had the guts to push things a little farther like you did (ah, er, no pun intended) with my two blond boy crushes. I would have been liberated to explore my sexuality even further and I would not have had to worry so much about being outed. If only I hadn't been surrounded by such vehement homophobes...

True. Maybe it was the 'rebel' in me already at such an early age that almost seemed to scream 'Gay Rights Here!'. I figured if I was ever caught, it would be no more worse than say, breaking your neighbor's window or whatever. During most of my teen years I think I became somewhat of a 'heterophobe'! As far as the 'vehement homophobes' you mentioned, ha! well most (not all) of the ones I've come across ended up spreading their legs and unzipping for me! That's when I realized there was a 'bi' world out there...

 

[Raimondin]

Is there a true bi-sexuality? I do like being with women... a lot. But I like men as well. Until recently, I was never really "attracted" to men. If that's a result of breaking down the barrier between acceptance of my sexuality, does it follow that the more barriers I break down, the more I will progress to being 100% gay? 'Cause I'll be honest, I don't think I can give up women. Damn, just when I was getting comfortable being bi...

Keep breaking down those barriers! I think worse is keeping them...I've never been attracted to women, keeping me wondering what it's like being bi. In the past I had always felt pressured by the rest of the world constantly telling me I was 'missing out' *Not* being bi! I had to break down 'that' barrier! "I" wasn't about to give up men or being 100% gay...Meantime, why give up anything, right? And Yes, I 'do' believe there is a true bi-sexuality...it's all the rest of the whole wide world out there that isn't 100% gay...Get comfortable!

 

[CJontherocks]

Keep breaking down those barriers! I think worse is keeping them...I've never been attracted to women, keeping me wondering what it's like being bi. In the past I had always felt pressured by the rest of the world constantly telling me I was 'missing out' *Not* being bi! I had to break down 'that' barrier! "I" wasn't about to give up men or being 100% gay...Meantime, why give up anything, right? And Yes, I 'do' believe there is a true bi-sexuality...it's all the rest of the whole wide world out there that isn't 100% gay...Get comfortable!

I'm very comfortable. Now I just need to get laid.

 

[Raimondin]

I'm very comfortable. Now I just need to get laid.

Yeah, for sure! That's also what's on My No. 1 Santa's list! And start the New Year with a 'real' Bang!

 

[Man with a Plan]

Us bi/gay men need to have an AIM chat.

Such a small community, we need to keep in touch. I'd love to talk to a gay guy on AIM.

 

[CJontherocks]

Us bi/gay men need to have an AIM chat.

Such a small community, we need to keep in touch. I'd love to talk to a gay guy on AIM.

Do Yahoo instead... cj5rulz

 

[Raimondin]

Yeah, I'm new here too. I agree by what I've seen so far...This is a great forum, and again no offense to anyone, (cause I'm in here too), and we're all brothers & sisters here...But it sort of sounds like putting the "G" back in LGBT...Yes, we are a small community...I Yahoo too...

 

[FastLearner2]

Being a newbie and all I hate being typed one or the other. One day I might wake up and desperately need the touch of a woman. The next day the same thing only with another guy. I agree with another poster I enjoy having open options, that's not to say I don't understand people that are straight or gay being confused by those of us that ride the fence.

 

[Raimondin]

Being a newbie and all I hate being typed one or the other. One day I might wake up and desperately need the touch of a woman. The next day the same thing only with another guy. I agree with another poster I enjoy having open options, that's not to say I don't understand people that are straight or gay being confused by those of us that ride the fence.

Chill! That's why we're all here. And that's good you enjoy having your "open options". In the same way I enjoy having my "gayness"...That's not to say I don't understand people that are bi either...get my drift?...But whether we like it or not, we *Do* live in a "type-cast" world...But just don't mix up "confusion" with "curiousity"...

 

[FastLearner2]

I guess now I'm confused?? In your first post you said you were somehow interested about how someone was curious about bi sex. I tried but apparently failed to convey my humble opin on what being bi was all about for "me" this is only my opin. That being said I didn't mean to come off as flip about my "open options" but somehow that's the feeling I got from your post. No reason for anyone to have to chill since there was nothing said that needs that response. Either way you are right on the aspect that's what brings everyone to the room.

 

[Raimondin]

I guess now I'm confused?? In your first post you said you were somehow interested about how someone was curious about bi sex. I tried but apparently failed to convey my humble opin on what being bi was all about for "me" this is only my opin. That being said I didn't mean to come off as flip about my "open options" but somehow that's the feeling I got from your post. No reason for anyone to have to chill since there was nothing said that needs that response. Either way you are right on the aspect that's what brings everyone to the room.

Oh, no, no, no! Didn't mean to come off on the defensive! So sorry. and Thanks for clarifying. I guess it was the word 'confusion' that threw me off! Regardless I shouldn't have jumped off the cliff on that! Yes, I am very curious and interested, of course! as I am of the whole human race. And you weren't being 'flip' at all...I'm the one that was...My apologies....I'm learning too...

 

[DarkAurora]

I'm a 100% gay man. I used to wonder whether or not I was bi because I find some women VERY beautiful but I could never be with them on a sexual level. I'm strictly dick.

 

[Man with a Plan]

Do Yahoo instead... cj5rulz

Just added you

 

[CJontherocks]

Just added you

Cool.

 

[Raimondin]

I'm a 100% gay man. I used to wonder whether or not I was bi because I find some women VERY beautiful but I could never be with them on a sexual level. I'm strictly dick.

Yeah, I once toyed with the idea if I could ever be bi, even though I'm not, but for a moment there it almost felt like it would be fun. But my male magnet was just too strong and it pulled and yanked me right back. Feminine beauty just didn't translate into sex for me either. I think we all toy and play around with these things at one time or another. It is curious though......but being a 100%er myself, it's strictly Dick, Balls & Fur for me too...

 

[wvmeateater]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: How many guys here are 100% gay?

ha! well most (not all) of the ones I've come across ended up spreading their legs and unzipping for me! That's when I realized there was a 'bi' world out there...

And I know that that's the first experience of a lot of "straight"
guys who get the best blowjob of their lives, and go on to
discover the otherworldly pleasures of cocksucking.
There is absotively nothing on this planet that compares to
sucking a cock to completion and savoring a mouthfull of cum.