How many Doms/Dommes?

[SubKekiLee]

I would like to post this to the board and ask how many doms/dommes do you know that can make thier pet/Pyl/pyl orgasm without touching them or allowing the pyl/sub/slave/pet to touch themselves.. Im just curious..

 

[DrkSword]

It takes a powerful connection and trust to make this happen without touching. The sub must be in the proper mindset for it to occur and be willing to let it happen.

I have been able to make my pet cum without any physical contact on her kitty. She didn't even know she could do it until it happened. I do remember hearing "Oh my Gawd" "Sir... I'm cumming!!"

It was a great night for us both and she went to places she'd never thought possible. Can't wait to take her to more....

DS

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

My master can make me cum without touching me and when i am not allowed to touch myself either yes. I never thought i could do this untill it happened. Honestly i still don't get it cuz i really find it hard to orgasm with men, but with my master i can cum like this many times and quite easily.

 

[Millificent]

Mine can It is one of two ways that I am able to so without asking express permission first. The other is a touch to the base of my neck.

 

[SubKekiLee]

The reason I am asking this is I wondered if you can cum on command with no touch of anything erotic. I had heard of cumming on command.. but didnt know it really happend... so I thought id ask..

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

The reason I am asking this is I wondered if you can cum on command with no touch of anything erotic. I had heard of cumming on command.. but didnt know it really happend... so I thought id ask..

I am easy with cumming on commad from my sir, but i am tough to cum with man irl...

 

[catalina_francisco]

I actually don't agree it always requires a lot of trust and deep connection to be able to cum without any physical touch. I guess it depends on the person and the situation, but I would suggest a high libido can result in orgasmic delight without any input, not even a command.

Catalina

 

[FungiUg]

I can do this with my last two submissives: make them cum with words basically.

More interesting is that I can effectively torture them with words too, and make them feel like they are being used or fucked. Watching a woman helplessly squirming when all I have been doing is talking to her is extremely erotic.

It's something I try not to focus too much on, because it can lead to difficulties. And I don't believe that it would be possible to do with every women, as different women respond in different ways. It's a fun toy/trick in my collection though.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Disclaimer: I really don't mean to offend anyone here but...

Am I the only one here who's quite skeptical about this whole cumming on command witout any physical stimulation thing?

 

[EmpressFi]

There's only been one time I've orgasmed without touch and that's while listening to the song #1 Crush by Garbage.. otherwise.. while I can hold it in until Master says I can, I dont come on command..

 

[LittleJade]

I've known a Dom or two that can make me cum without touch.

I've made one submissive cum without any touch whatsoever.

 

[the captians wench]

I believe I've told this many times here before, but I am quite capible of doing this, with any man. But it's due to some special programing my ex hubby decided to do in my head.

I have a trigger word, and when that word is spoken, I will cum. I need no physical stimulation, or even verbal stimulation, how ever if given either, and the trigger is used in a certain tone, the results are un real!

I have had many people tell me that there is no way this is possible, that there is no way some one can orgasm from a word, and I have to be faking it. Until they see it.

It has become so powerful in my mind, that when I want to cum on my own, I hear my trigger word being spoken by one of my keepers.

It really is quite fasinating to me how this simple thing my ex was playing around with in my sleep has progressed. And I must say, those I play with are usually quite amused by it....fucking sadists....gotta love em.

 

[FungiUg]

I am the only one here who's quite skeptical about this whole cumming on command witout any physical stimulation thing?

I assume you are asking "am I" rather than stating "I am".

Trust me, I was a sceptic as well. There's a discussion on Lit where the idea and the technique behind it was introduced which must be four or five years back now. And while I was fascinated by the topic, I very much doubted it would work.

More fool me.

Again, I do have my doubts it would work with everyone. Having said that, part of the training regime I like putting a submissive through is to heighten her sexual arousal into a semi-permanent state, and to increase the amount of orgasms she experiences. Then I start adding the association between my voice and her cumming.

It seems to work, and I've seen the physical symptoms to match (if someone can fake a cunt squirting, then I am incredibly impressed!)

 

[His_pita]

My Daddy has made me come without touching me on rare occasions and it is incredible.

 

[FungiUg]

I have a trigger word, and when that word is spoken, I will cum.

Okay folks, the competition is on! Who can find wenchie's trigger word first? How quickly can we work through the dictionary?

 

[DeservingBitch]

The somewhat irreverent words of Mistress Matisse on the question (from her column in the Stranger http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/Content?oid=20707 ):

What techniques do you use for teaching a woman to come on command?

Oh, this is a hot-button issue, if you'll pardon the expression, and I just know I'm going to get a lot of hate mail about my response here. You see, some dominants in the kink community--always men, never women, I notice--say that they have trained their female submissive partner to have an orgasm at the snap of their fingers. They generally attribute this ability to a mixture of amateur hypnosis, some vague kind of Pavlovian conditioning, and of course, his über-domliness and her true-submissive nature. I've seen people do "demonstrations" of this, where the guy kneels his submissive down, points his finger at her, and says, "Come, slave!" And she obediently starts moaning and writhing and gives this big convulsive gasp and goes limp. That's it--no stimulation, no gradual build-up. Just an instantaneous orgasm on command.

Uh, right. Color me highly, but highly, skeptical about this--particularly since, although I no longer practice, I am a trained hypnotherapist. So while I've seen some pretty little performances, it's nothing Meg Ryan didn't do with Billy Crystal. There are distinct stages of sexual arousal that lead to orgasm, and although I'm not a doctor, I don't think it's physiologically possible to skip them.

Now, it is possible for a woman to be sexually aroused to a point where she's teetering on the edge of orgasm, and then have something that really turns her on--like someone ordering her to come--push her over the edge. It's also possible for some women to sexually stimulate themselves without seeming to, by flexing the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle, or by subtly rubbing their thighs together. So I'll grant you that those two factors could be coordinated to produce what seems like an instant, on-command orgasm.

But if you think you can take a woman who's busy washing dishes or doing her taxes and make her instantly erupt into Technicolor bliss, well--in my opinion as a woman and as a dominant, you're the one who needs a bit of sex education.

Sarcasm aside, I'm kind of with her on the physiological side of the issue. Anybody who said they experienced this care to explain to me how I (and Matisse) could be wrong?

 

[FungiUg]

Sarcasm aside, I'm kind of with her on the physiological side of the issue. Anybody who said they experienced this care to explain to me how I (and Matisse) could be wrong?

It's a gorgeous quote. "uber-domliness"

Here's the important bit for me:

But if you think you can take a woman who's busy washing dishes or doing her taxes and make her instantly erupt into Technicolor bliss, well--in my opinion as a woman and as a dominant, you're the one who needs a bit of sex education.

I'd agree with that absolutely.

The trick is that I have to work on putting the submissive into a state of heightened arousal first. Then it will work. If I don't... it falls resoundingly flat.

Okay, here's the other bit.

[...]some dominants in the kink community--always men, never women[...]

Ah. I remember some women on Lit talking about training males to do this. So not so sure this is accurate. Although I can understand the perception.

 

[LittleJade]

I never said that I wasn't turned on, when I came on command. Just that there had been no physical stimulus.

Explain to me wet dreams, and you might understand. In a dream, while your body is nearly inert, sleeping, you are not physically stimulating yourself.. but your mind is going the route of physical stimulation, while your body is not.

I have literally watched my partner have a wet dream. He lays perfectly still (except his left leg twitches), gets hard, gets harder, and then explodes, making a sticky mess... whereupon he wakes, blushes, cleans up, and goes back to sleep. It's highly amusing. And done without physical stimulation.

When I have been ordered to cum, and have done so, upon being ordered, it is because that particular person who has ordered me thus, turns me on. Some random master looking at me and snapping his fingers would end up with a sneer and the bird being promptly presented... but MY Sir, (past tense)... he could wind me up just with his voice... he could make me crave him, by talking about the most mundane things... even just hearing him say "Hello, pet", made me wet, made me crave... and by the time he'd babbled on about the mundane long enough for me to be going mad with lust, he'd say something like "alright, cum for me, my girl", and I'd be lost. No physical stimulation, but a hell of a lot of mental, and a hell of a lot of craving.



The time I made my sub do it, he was kneeling at my feet. I was talking him up.. and he got harder and harder, and begged more and more, and he leaned forward to try to lick my pussy. I said no, he backed up, and I could see his cock straining... I smiled and whispered "cum, slut", and he did. *shrug* I can't tell you how it felt for him, but I can tell you what I saw.

 

[LittleJade]

Ah. I remember some women on Lit talking about training males to do this. So not so sure this is accurate. Although I can understand the perception.

*raising my hand*

 

[FungiUg]

Explain to me wet dreams

Yes, and explain to me why I have never had a single wet dream in my entire life! grumbles off in a snit

 

[DeservingBitch]

Ah. I remember some women on Lit talking about training males to do this. So not so sure this is accurate. Although I can understand the perception.

She's talking specifically about female subs cumming on command and the male doms who get them to do that... suggesting with her usual sarcasm that interestingly enough, it is quite rare to hear the same from femdoms and their femsubs.

 

[LittleJade]

She's talking specifically about female subs cumming on command and the male doms who get them to do that... suggesting with her usual sarcasm that interestingly enough, it is quite rare to hear the same from femdoms and their femsubs.

I am female, and ocassionally a Domme, and I've made a male sub cum on command.

 

[Aeroil]

Women spontaneously orgasm all the time when they buy shoes and such.
FACT.

 

[DeservingBitch]

When I have been ordered to cum, and have done so, upon being ordered, it is because that particular person who has ordered me thus, turns me on. Some random master looking at me and snapping his fingers would end up with a sneer and the bird being promptly presented... but MY Sir, (past tense)... he could wind me up just with his voice... he could make me crave him, by talking about the most mundane things... even just hearing him say "Hello, pet", made me wet, made me crave... and by the time he'd babbled on about the mundane long enough for me to be going mad with lust, he'd say something like "alright, cum for me, my girl", and I'd be lost. No physical stimulation, but a hell of a lot of mental, and a hell of a lot of craving.

Thanks LittleJade for taking the time to entertain my skepticism.

OK, so i'm with you there with being already aroused by the person doing the 'commanding' and the power of a sexy voice and arousing words. But are you saying that this, in itself, is enough to make you cum? Like, no prior physical stimulation at all? Or no twitching of your pelvic muscles or something, like Matisse refers to in her column?

 

[LittleJade]

Thanks LittleJade for taking the time to entertain my skepticism.

OK, so i'm with you there with being already aroused by the person doing the 'commanding' and the power of a sexy voice and arousing words. But are you saying that this, in itself, is enough to make you cum? Like, no prior physical stimulation at all? Or no twitching of your pelvic muscles or something, like Matisse refers to in her column?

This is enough.

my thighs are usually spread, so there's no touch, and I'm usually laying down when I have those conversations (more for comfort than any other reason), and if my pussy twitches, that's its business, but it's not something I noticed during those conversations.

No prior physical stim, no during physical stim, just his voice, my mind, and my absolute desire to do his will.

Powerful stuff, that.