How many dates until you fucked?

I have friends that fucked before they even knew the guys name lol I was told at least 3 dates before you fuck. What about you?
It's all about the feelings and what the date is for. Some dates are for connecting with someone and enjoying each other's company. Some dates are a matter of formality before taking each others clothes off. Some other dates are because you can be hungry following great sex.
 
I always wanted a masquerade fuck party but a dim lit bar works as well. how did it go for you?
Oh, I have a long list of guys I never knew their names.. Especially if I only gave him a bj.
A couple women with unknown names also..LoL..
Mostly on the first "date", (if you wanna call them that) did I fuck them.

I was drunk 99% of those times too. 😜
 
It seems there should be some distinction between random hookup, versus actual dating. I've had sex at a swing party after talking a few minutes. But that doesnt really count, IMHO. For actual dating, typical for me might be third date, a couple times happened on second date.
 
I have friends that fucked before they even knew the guys name lol I was told at least 3 dates before you fuck. What about you?
I've fucked without even a date at all.

I've fucked on the first date.

I've fucked after a handful of dates.

I've gone on dates because we already fucked first.

Every situation is different, there is no "standard." Anyone who says there is is a control freak and probably also a hypocrite.
 
In the case of my wife -- first date and it was a blind date. Went to restaurant, back to her place and fucked on her sofa
 
My first lover and I didn’t fuck until we’d been together for two years, but that was because she wanted to wait. My first wife it was probably after five or six dates. Oral before that, from the second date. I was 40 when we divorced and there were a number of women in the year after that, all but one on the first date. The last was my wife, and we were at it within minutes of meeting
 
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It's all about the feelings and what the date is for. Some dates are for connecting with someone and enjoying each other's company. Some dates are a matter of formality before taking each others clothes off. Some other dates are because you can be hungry following great sex.
I think you need to connect first, but that doesn't mean there have to be too many dates before sex.
 
It's all strange and random I guess. I'm my life I've only had two girl friends that I've gone on a date at all with before sex, and only actually had sex with one of them. The other confessed she missed her opportunity with me and regretted it the day she was moving away for work. Anyways...All others were we kinda knew each other but sex then date. Only had one one night stand, but we knew each other before and stayed good friends afterwards...well that and I started banging her roommate. Which was an awesome experience. (Right in front of the first girl too, a few times. They were and remain best of friends.) Anyways, another interesting fact...I never made the first move. Its like i didnt have to. They always came to me. Literally had 6 women, that all either knew each other or kinda knew each other, over a long period of time all came to me eventually. Literally knocking on my door or stopping me in public to self invite...for sex. When I was young, it spoiled me to literally have women fall into my arms. Went to a welcome home party once, met a bunch of people who were friends of the host, but had heard of me, made friends. Wake up to two of the women arguing over who was gonna throw themselves at me and a third undoing my pants to suck me. Before that two beautiful women, one wanted to meet me so she put her friend up to play match maker, then she confessed she wanted me to herself, then they argued who was gonna go upstairs with me. Those were the days. Geeesh. Now, after settling down, and 20 years of marriage, it is all part of the ironic punishment department of Hell. So. Only one date was the max before sex, ever in my life.
 
Because between girls there is less drama. You feel attracted to each other and have sex. A girl wouldn't message all her friends afterwards on how good she fucked you. Or brand you a slut because you like to just fuck.
I respect that girl-on-girl loving is unique and specially tender.
But all guys don't brag and don't put women down in a judgemental way.
Loving should always be mutual, consensual and respectful.
 
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