How long should you wait?

[Latina]

Hmm, Jeff says "I want to give all I have to the one I do marry," but his profile says his interest is "women, women, and more women." So which is it, Jeff, commitment to one woman or messing with a lot of women?

Not trying to stir up trouble, just confused and curious.

-- Latina

 

[Expertise]

Jeff ya big virgin!

I am not sure I have ever been described as flamboyant. To be quite honest I am not real F-ing comfortable with it.

*images of Rip Torn and Ru Paul*LOL

I think you people are confusing sex and making love. They are two equaly wonderful but distinctly different things.

 

[Jeff726]

Hmm, Jeff says "I want to give all I have to the one I do marry," but his profile says his interest is "women, women, and more women." So which is it, Jeff, commitment to one woman or messing with a lot of women?

Not trying to stir up trouble, just confused and curious.

-- Latina

Haha i remember putting that in back in May when I registered.

But seriously I believe in commitment to one woman someday, but that don't mean I can't have fun now. I don't neccesarily mean having sex, but dating women sounds like alot of fun to me. I am just like anybody else, but I do want to settle down one day. Hope that explains it Latina. If not feel free to talk to me privately.



Jeff

 

[Jeff726]

Jeff ya big virgin!

I am not sure I have ever been described as flamboyant. To be quite honest I am not real F-ing comfortable with it.

*images of Rip Torn and Ru Paul*LOL

I think you people are confusing sex and making love. They are two equaly wonderful but distinctly different things.

I couldn't think of another word so I cast lots and that was what I came up with, lol.

I agree with you that sex and love are often confused with eachother. Some people think a simple plain fuck is making love. I don't. I think making love involves alot more, from the first kisses to the cuddling afterwards. Making love is for people who are in love with eachother. Myself I think I could just be physical if I had the ability to set aside my desire for love. And who knows I may be able to, I just have yet to see. But what I do know is that I want one day to have only one woman to come home to at night, only one woman to hold and be intimate with. One day I want to MAKE LOVE. Right now I don't know if I could do that.

Latina sure made me think when she said what my profile showed. Maybe being 20 right now, I should just have some fun and if some of it is sex then great. If not, no big loss. One day I plan to be committed. This day and age I don't know if I could honestly. Ahh well I am doing good now so it won't matter much to me.



Jeff