How long in bed?

[rosco rathbone]

As a youth, I was a preemie. If I made a full minute, it was a miracle. Then I applied myself to the study of chinese methods (master mantak chia), and gained full control over my orgasm response. Now, I can last as long as I want...but oddly, I have a fondness for the teenage style, minute man sex, and often choose to pop off quite quickly. It's just a matter of choice vs necessity.

 

[Hopeorless1]

First partner I was with could go awhile. Usually about 45 minutes, and on hot days where we could take our time, 2 hours or so if we REALLY got into it.

My ex hubs was more of a shorter length kinda guy, depending on what position. Usually about 20 minutes; about 5 doggy style. xD Hence, we rarely did it doggy style. Or if I was not in the mood, doggy style would be a compromise. A kind of, fuck me, cum on my back, and then leave me alone so you dont bitch about not having sex kind of deal...

 

[icandothis]

So, for a while after we first met, when having sex, I just... wouldn't cum. She's cum multiple times, and on occasion I'd just wear out from physical exhaustion, but it was months of sex before I finally came for the first time.

Dunno what that was all about. Seem to have gotten past that since then.

Maybe it's a male thing. A former boyfriend could not cum in my mouth. He loved oral sex and I know he wanted to, but he just couldn't/wouldn't cum, we had great sex otherwise. We had been together for probably 4-5 months and one day we were just sitting on the stairs for some reason talking and I undid his pants and started blowing him just because I felt like it. This time it was different, it was as if he had decided it was ok, and that he was going to let himself go, and not worry about it. Needless to say, he came hard, long and alot, and we never had any problems after that. I don't know if he was like this with other women (I kind of think he had the same problem with them), but even after we stopped seeing each other I would still get a phone call every now and then, him asking for oral sex.

 

[sexy28stud28]

I was just curious to see where I fit in the grand scheme of things

 

[NippleMuncher]

I was just curious to see where I fit in the grand scheme of things

And that would be ... ?

 

[sexy28stud28]

Towards the bottom end. Most time less than 5 minutes unfortunately.

 

[goud21]

I usually fall in the 10-15 minute category, especially if different positions are involved. That being said, when it's been a while inbetween times with my wife (which can happen if I travel for work as I can be gone for 10 days at a time), it can be a lot quicker. I'll admit, the last time I got home from a work trip, we jumped right into it on the living room couch and I probably didn't last more than 3 minutes from when I slid in until I was pumping her full of cum. Luckily, after we took a shower together, we got into bed and I definitely made sure it lasted longer and she was taken care of the second time around.

 

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[HayleyLuvsSex]

15-20 minutes. Depends on lots of things.

 

[hillseeker]

Im all over the board from 5 minutes to 4 hours...depends on creative energy and partner!

 

[more_snow_plz]

It actually takes me longer than we'd like. She can finish quickly, I require a little more attention. 20-30 minutes....

 

[tkinsc]

It can vary. Kind of quick if I’ve been horny all day, and we’ve had a lot of foreplay. A long time if if is the second time in the day.

I would say usually I’m between 10 – 20 minutes. There have been times in the past with other lovers it has been longer, some over an hour or more. I would prefer to go longer at times, but my wife can cum quick, and after a few orgasms, she’s ready to finish.

 

[windrider1968]

The person makes the difference. Normally with the wife around an hour. During a six month separation last year with a old high school flame we routinely pushed 8-10 hours with 5-6 happy endings for this guy and around 10 or so for her. Most sexually compatible person I had ever had been with. It starts with the mind first. The body will follow.

 

[irishwoody]

I'm improving as I get older - I can now finish under 5 minutes ; Yahoo

 

[jojodancer]

time

..generally...ill try to make things last as long as i can..
ill go from dofferent angles..different s[eeds and intensity
if i really feel myself right on the edge of cumming..and my partner is close..ill try my darndest to last until her orgasm..
ive neen known to slip outr..let my cock flop on her belly like a damn fish on the beach..til i can slip back inside and last..
but..theres times when the intensity dictates the time..then its an all out race to cum quickly..and bide my time and recovery for round 2..

 

[x_Ava_x]

It usually depends on the foreplay but i've had a guy last up to an hour.

 

[Flybigirlsea]

How Long

Well...for me there are two types of sex.

Urgent sex is usually very quick...10 minutes or so and can be a little rough, can be a little public and is totally satisfying in filling that particular need at that particular time.

Passionate sex is usually 30 plus minutes and involves a lot of foreplay, kissing, touching, tenderness, sometimes multiple orgasms either by oral means or intercourse, and a feeling of being one with your lover.

 

[bigdaddytw1tch]

It really depends on what she wants. If she wants a quickie then wham bam thank you ma'am it is. If she wants a more relaxed experience we can do that too.

 

[Reba67]

There's no "other" choice. And are you talking full session or just PIV? Because I consider all of the nakedness "sex", but PIV is only a small part of our love making.

 

[jehoram]

Careful; erections that last too long can cause damage leading to impotence.

Uh-oh.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

When I was younger I could be pretty quick on the trigger, but one of the benefits of age & practice is control, so now it's just as long as I want it to last.
Practice, practice, practice, makes perfect!

 

[KarenM411]

over 2 hours?! yikes, i love sex but i wouldn't want a guy on top of me for two hours unless he had a tv attached to his head.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

over 2 hours?! yikes, i love sex but i wouldn't want a guy on top of me for two hours unless he had a tv attached to his head.

Heh, I did that once (not the TV, the long sex thing) courtesy the little blue pill. Wow, it was like I was sporting a baseball bat. Which was for for the first two hours, but after that, well, I could have clubbed baby seals with the thing....got sore, too.

 

[IsabellaKing]

I love the images that these two descriptions paint

I have a fondness for the teenage style, minute man sex, and often choose to pop off quite quickly.

I've been known to slip out...let my cock flop on her belly like a damn fish on the beach..till i can slip back inside and last.

and this one's funny, and reminds me of the time I got called out for looking over his shoulder at the TV

over 2 hours?! yikes, i love sex but i wouldn't want a guy on top of me for two hours unless he had a tv attached to his head.

 

[Sassy_Chick]

And, while I really, really enjoy PIV sex, it has never, not once, gotten me off. It feels great, but it's not the activity that will likely ever bring me to orgasm. You'll find this is not at all uncommon, so focus on getting really good at all aspects of sex and not just timing this one part.

Until this moment, I honestly thought I was the only woman who had ever had that problem. The first time I had an orgasm from just PIV sex was almost 3 years ago. Until then, it took stimulation with sex to do the trick and even then sometimes it wasn't fabulous. The first time my fiance and I ever had sex, it took him less than 5 minutes to get the job done and I thought I would never walk again my legs were so weak. We weren't even 'officially' dating yet, but I damn near proposed to him right then and there!! 3 years later, it's even more amazing because we know each other so well, both emotionally and physically. I'm glad I found someone I'm so compatible with, but I'm even more glad that I wasn't alone.

As for time, hell I don't even keep track anymore. It's all awesome.