How long in bed?

[sexy28stud28]

So I'm curious: Guys, all pride aside, how long do you normally last in bed before the "big finish?" Ladies, how long does your man go. I'm referring just to intercourse, not foreplay, and just one "round".

I'm just curious to see what "normal" might be.

 

[berk1234]

It is a bit weird for my wife and I. Sex is almost always 35-40 minutes long. If we spend a lot of time on foreplay, then intercourse is shorter. If we spend less time on foreplay, then it takes a longer period of intercourse before she cums and I happily follow along with her.

 

[infinity706]

I'm not really sure. Of course, I've only had vaginal or anal sex about 10 times or so, combined. Now, the entire sexual experience often lasts between 20 minutes and an hour, depending on how much energy my partner(s) has.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Duration varies depending on arousal, interest, intoxication level, visual stimulation, physical stimulation, mental state, a few other factors, and any combination of all these things.

Heightened arousal and stimulation results in short duration. Intoxication dulls senses, increasing duration
Mental state (insert your favorite du jur) and it can take a very long time, if it ever happens.

As to actual time tables, those are things I do not have. Who the hell watches the clock when they're having sex?

 

[kromen]

I stopped looking at the clock after the first two times. I wanna say maybe ten to fifteen, when you're talking about straight penetration, but I honestly don't know.

 

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[LucyH]

Depends on the person and, like JtohisPB said, the time of day. All of those answers have applied at some point.

 

[Etaski]

Uhhhhh.... Gosh, I can think of memories with hubby that fit your criteria and also allow me to vote for the first 6 options, but after that, I'd be too sore to be interested going longer.

 

[chipcarver]

I've gone the under five and the 30 minutes before we both agreed it wasn't going to happen and stopped before she was too sore to continue the next night. Never found out why that one time lasted so long, hasn't happened since.

Most of the time it varies from too soon to not long enough!

 

[sad_angel1982]

I can last for at least 2 hours if not more.

 

[RedMonkeyButt]

It depends on the time of day and how much foreplay has gone on. Also if someone has the kid, GAME ON. Position has a lot to do with it, too. Anything "normal" and we can go until I get bored. Anything out of the "norm" for us - position, room, what have you - and it's quick but good. But usually between 5-10 minutes per round, not counting foreplay.

 

[Noor]

As a keen observer of males during sex, I have no idea how long is normal. I don't tend to time the various parts of sex. I also don't pull out my handy tape measure during sex either.

It is also not interesting to me how long a guy can last during intercourse as long as we are both happy with the results of the sex, that is that we both come and are happy about it.

Most women do not require intercourse to come, and some can't come from intercourse at all. Its too short if we are unsatisfied and too long if it hurts or gets dull. <-this does happen too often according to what I am told.

Its not the meat, its the motion, not the length of time but what you do with it.

 

[Etaski]

I can last for at least 2 hours if not more.

I've heard of that...it's called Priapism, isn't it?

Careful; erections that last too long can cause damage leading to impotence.

Never mind whether the woman is thinking, "I'm sore/bored...are you done yet?" (which, as Noor says, yes, does happen fairly often).

 

[hamnder2012]

Uhhhhh.... Gosh, I can think of memories with hubby that fit your criteria and also allow me to vote for the first 6 options, but after that, I'd be too sore to be interested going longer.

I agree too long and things start aching and hurting. Unless we count the good 20 minute full body message that starts at the beginning to fully relax my wife. Ingredients to make passionate time last long... a handy supply of bath and body works body creams.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

It is a bit weird for my wife and I. Sex is almost always 35-40 minutes long. If we spend a lot of time on foreplay, then intercourse is shorter. If we spend less time on foreplay, then it takes a longer period of intercourse before she cums and I happily follow along with her.

This could almost be my answer. The more time spent on oral, the less my wife needs for intercourse. That is, except for those rare occasions when there is only enough time for a quickie. Then, it's just 5-10 minutes of intense pounding with no foreplay whatsoever. That usually happens when we get together for a nooner.

 

[Eilan]

I can last for at least 2 hours if not more.

No wonder your wife's thinking of other people during sex.

 

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[fadetoblack2011]

Gotta love this thread haha

 

[hamnder2012]

I love, love, love when my husband initiates sex with a back rub. And, I love that him offering a back rub doesn't always lead to sex. Sometimes, it's just a massage.

Yeah sometimes there's no alternative motives. I just look for opportunities to please her sometimes it's dishes, sometimes it's massages and sometimes it's making love. But life is foreplay, and sometimes we make love after.

 

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[subwannabe]

I don't think this question is really answerable so I didn't vote. It seems like every time a person had an encounter they could vote differently. As with sex in general, I don't really believe there is such a thing as "normal".

 

[Texguy84]

So, for a while after we first met, when having sex, I just... wouldn't cum. She's cum multiple times, and on occasion I'd just wear out from physical exhaustion, but it was months of sex before I finally came for the first time.

Dunno what that was all about. Seem to have gotten past that since then.

 

[Leslie22]

Usually around 15 minutes. If we go a second time, it's a fair bit longer.

 

[Jacqui_S]

between 10 and 20 minutes is perfect for me. closer to 20 preferably.
sometimes on the odd occasion i like it to go over 20, but usually that does me.

 

[iopan420]

It varies way to much, any where from 10 min to a hour all depending on what time of day, privacy, setting, etc. Pinpointing a exact amount of time is pretty impossible.