How long does masturbation take you?

[pisces_girl]

For the women- how long does it take you to get yourself aroused and have an orgasm from masturbation? What works the most for you? Sometimes I feel as though it takes too long for my build up and I'm starting to think I need to try doing other things or new toys.

 

[KoPilot]

I quit cold turkey over a year ago because it just wasn't doing anything for me anymore. Took too long, hardly any payoff, got distracted too easily. Just wasn't my thing, so I stopped.

I started getting wicked sex dreams every now and then, though. Those are so much better and more rewarding lol.

 

[alice27]

I'm replying because I'm shocked you've had one one response. I have to be really focused but anywhere from 10-20 minutes. You might want to considers toys but don't get trapped with only being able to get off with one kind or one way. What turns you on? Maybe watching porn would help, women need to be mentally worked up before their bodies can easily orgasm.

 

[alice27]

I'm replying because I'm shocked you've had one one response. I have to be really focused but anywhere from 10-20 minutes. You might want to considers toys but don't get trapped with only being able to get off with one kind or one way. What turns you on? Maybe watching porn would help, women need to be mentally worked up before their bodies can easily orgasm.

Ps
The worst thing you can do is freak out its taking too long while you are trying to relax and let go. It's counter productive. Find a patient partner to devour you or just enjoy your body, who cares how long it takes.

 

[crazy4cock]

i don't think 10-20 min is abnormal women are like an iron, takes a while to heat up and a long time to cool down. If i don't cum for a couple of days it's usually a 10min thing but if its everyday i find it takes me longer, i don't know why. There is usually my "go to" fantasy that gets me off, just find yours

 

[missy2334]

I can usually do it between one commercial break.

 

[pisces_girl]

I can usually do it between one commercial break.

lucky you!

 

[sunkissedblues]

Takes me maybe 15 minutes. I use a vibe or my hands, and read some erotica or watch some soft porn. I'm pretty orgasmic once I get my mind going though so thats the big thing for me. Focus and arousal!

 

[ofLebanon]

Depends

On whether I'm doing it solo, or on cam with my lover. Solo… a few minutes, and that's if I'm trying to slow it down. I'm very multi, so with a partner I can easily go on to a dozen or so. Alone, I will do two or three if I'm very worked up.

That said… I only masturbate solo if I have to. I much, much prefer to have a partner even if he's only a voice in my ear or watching me remotely. It helps make it much more satisfying.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Depends on how long it's been for me. The longer it's been, the sooner it happens. Within a couple minutes. At most, 10 minutes.

 

[123Josh]

Totally depends each time.

 

[lauren26f]

For the women- how long does it take you to get yourself aroused and have an orgasm from masturbation? What works the most for you? Sometimes I feel as though it takes too long for my build up and I'm starting to think I need to try doing other things or new toys.

I love masturbation and do it every day since like 11 years old. Just fingers, 10-20 mins to cum. It takes nothing to get aroused. I have multiple orgasms all the time. Maybe 1-3 mins to get wet. I masturbate every morning before I get out of bed (unless someone is over) and am wet when I get up (lovers tell me I play with myself all night long). I do take my time cumming though. Once I cum once, not long to cum again. Maybe 1-3 mins. Once I cum the 2nd time, the next cums faster and faster. hehe With a vibe, a minute to get wet and less than 10 to cum, if that. The Magic Wand will get me off in less than 5 mins. By 10 mins, I've had 3-4 orgasms. I want 30-45 mins with that toy usually. I have a 25 min ride home from work and I'll play with myself the whole way home every day almost. I almost had a wreck when cumming, so I wait till I get home to cum.

 

[pretender51]

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[sunandshadow]

For me it's usually 30-45 minutes, but it's my unwinding time at the end of the day when I let my mind wander, I'm not interested in hurrying or trying to be mentally disciplined. The only thing I have trouble with is vibes that will run at full power for 45 minutes without running out of battery power or overheating.

 

[Scrubber]

For me it is pretty much what Rainshine said.

If I don't have at least an hour spare it's not worth starting. Wouldn't usually take the hour but if I'm fretting about being short of time nothing will happen.

 

[Wataru_Gin]

I love masturbation and do it every day since like 11 years old. Just fingers, 10-20 mins to cum. It takes nothing to get aroused. I have multiple orgasms all the time. Maybe 1-3 mins to get wet. I masturbate every morning before I get out of bed (unless someone is over) and am wet when I get up (lovers tell me I play with myself all night long). I do take my time cumming though. Once I cum once, not long to cum again. Maybe 1-3 mins. Once I cum the 2nd time, the next cums faster and faster. hehe With a vibe, a minute to get wet and less than 10 to cum, if that. The Magic Wand will get me off in less than 5 mins. By 10 mins, I've had 3-4 orgasms. I want 30-45 mins with that toy usually. I have a 25 min ride home from work and I'll play with myself the whole way home every day almost. I almost had a wreck when cumming, so I wait till I get home to cum.

That is friggin' awesome. Just... awesome. I hope I drive by you someday and see you working it. (Unless you're cumming at that exact moment... then maybe behind you and at a safe distance.)

 

[thesweetsweetness]

A few minutes to over an hour, depends on how much time I have. Unlike others, I can rush it if I need or want to. Always with toys though.

 

[amyforfun]

Depends on my mood. Sometimes as fast as a minute or two, sometimes I want to enjoy it and make it last.

 

[icandothis]

Depends . . . If I'm horny and using my hand/fingers it could take a minute or two.

I occasionally like to do it early in the morning before I get out of bed. I like to just lie under the nice warm covers, enjoying the still, quiet darkness in the room and take my time touching, caressing, pleasuring myself until I'm wet and swollen and can't surpress my orgasm any longer.

 

[sillygirl89]

I disagree with many of the others here. I find I'm better at getting myself in the right frame of mind if I set aside a certain block of time every day for myself. Once I'm in the right frame of mind its 10-15 mins but getting in that mindset can take forever unless I'm properly stimulated. If I don't make time I can go weeks without finding the right mood.
So to agree with someone else, make sure you do it every day!

 

[LikeableMe]

For me, it varies. Some occasions I can orgasm very quickly, others it can take over an hour. I always use fingers, but I vary the technique a little. The times it takes longer usually have the best result! ;-)

 

[MeredithEighty8]

You're all right, it varies. For me fingers give me the fastest orgasm, but if I use a pillow (you know pillow humping, pillow rubbing) it could take 10 or 15 minutes of working for it . . . but the orgasm is usually mind blowingly intense.

 

[strongdesire]

Well

Well it usually takes me about 15 to 25 minutes

 

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[Sweetdaisymae]

For me it can take anywhere from 2 mins with a high powered vibe and 2 hours if I want a slow sustained play session with lots of different toys and sensations.