How Long do you Go Down?

[Flea]

anywhere from 10 min on up ... depends on how she tastes and how she enjoys it ..

 

[Gilly Bean]

This is a take on another thread on the board right now, but I felt it deserved it's own thread.

How long do you usually go down on your S/O. For my girl it is in the 30 to 45 minute range but has been shorter and has been longer.

If it's been a while and your S/O hasn't gotten off yet....do you quit? that just seems like a horrible thing to do to someone. I don't quit unless I'm told to.

What are your thoughts?

My hubby will stay down on me as long as it takes, but mostly, the longest is about 15 minutes, on the very long end. There are times, though, when it takes 2 or 3 minutes is all.

There are also times when I just know it won't work, so I stop him before it gets to the point where we are both trying to force it to happen.

The longest we've clocked was about 45 minutes, when I was taking Zoloft (re: anti-orgasm drug).

 

[sedona]

as long as it's fun for both

I don't want someone going down on me doggedly trying to get me to cum despite the cramping in his jaw. If he's not having fun too, I'm not going to cum. It feels good to have a guy eat me out. I have no expectations for how long he should stay there. He should have fun with it and if he gets tired of it then switch to something else. I have no issues with using my own fingers if I need to cum really bad.

I used to HATE giving head because it felt like a chore and guys would take so long to cum. Then I met the guy who is now my husband. He told me he never cums from a BJ and I should just have fun and be playful and not worry about making him cum. Now I LOVE giving blow jobs and can hardly get enough.

The other thing is....ASK! Ask if what you're doing feels good. Ask if there's something else she'd like you to do. Ask how she likes to be eaten. Women are SOOOOOOO vastly different from each other and you will never know if you are turning one on unless you talk and communicate.

Sorry if I've reapeated what others have said...I jumped into responding before reading all the other posts!

sedona

 

[CuteJenn]

'bout a solid 15 or 20 minutes for my boyfriend to finish when I go down on him, less if we've been apart for a while.