How has your kink/fetish evolved?

[oneguy4fun]

I'm curious as to how things have changed since you first starting getting involved in BDSM or some type of kink/fetish? Are you satisfied with the same type of stuff or have you moved on to other things, doing the same thing but more intense, etc. Are there things you're doing now that 5 or 10 years ago you would have never thought about or imagined yourself doing?

 

[twysted73]

That's just it tho

It's about learning your limits and then pushing them to new heights. So unless you're dead, you'll always be evolving and improving your kink, your experience, your appetites.

Here's an example. 10 years ago, if you had told me that in 10 years from then I'd be in a bedroom with a woman forcing my increasingly rigid and swollen member down her throat...who had placed towels beneath her with the intent of pushing her limits until she threw up....and that I'd be enjoying it to the point of orgasm..I'd have walked away from you and asked you not to talk to me. (Disclaimer: a safe signal had been established previously)
You never know what will catch your attention until you try it.
It was months ago, but we still talk and she refers to it lovingly. God that's hot.
My apologies to the light stomachs out there.

(now that i read back over it I'm suprised i shared that here in forum)

 

[Evil_Geoff]

*chuckles*

Rainbow play is not for the squeamish.

And is on my list of things I haven't tried yet, but they aren't HARD limits.

Bloodplay used to be a hard limit. Now I teach people how to do needle play. And when I feel my skill level is up to it, I'll probably start teaching cutting too.

I find my limits grow and expand as my partners trust in me grows, and as my trust in my own skills and control grows. My hard limits are very few, now-a-days. I rarely say "NEVER".

 

[myinnerslut]

my kink has evolved and progressed significantly since we began. some of the things we do now would almost seem luaghable two years ago.

 

[amadaun]

Well... I just hooked up with only my second really kinky partner ever, and some of the stuff he had talked about - face-slapping, spitting on me, face-fucking me until I vomit - I was pretty damn sure I wouldn't like.

Whoops. I liked it. And it was way easier to take than I thought it would be. Starting to wonder how real the limits I've imagined for myself are...

 

[Soumis]

Have to agree with a lot of folks in that I've pushed and plowed through limits I never expected to touch. Fire and knives were two things I had a crazy irrational fear of that I now have a crazy irrational fondness for.

As my kink boundaries have been pushed back my personal ones have been pulled in. I'm not so quick to volunteer for a scene or to put on the cuffs for one night of play. There were/are times when the sub drop hits too hard to not have someone to talk to or cuddle. I try to be responsible enough not to put myself in that situation when I'm feeling particularly vulnerable. :/

note: I must be tired, there were a zillion or so spelling/grammar errors, and I'm sure I missed a few.

 

[Bill3250]

In the begining, I was just out of the air force and though I believed I was worldly, I was naive when I met Lady Isabelle. The first time, sex with her was quite conventional, but she soon took control, and within a week, I had become her property. I was bound for sex. I was kept naked most of the time. I was rarely allowed more than one orgasm a day. And I felt the sting of Lady Isabelle's riding crop nightly, receiving at least six marks each time; therefore, I did not evolve into being submissive, it was thrust upon me and greedily accepted it.

 

[oneguy4fun]

Here's an example. 10 years ago, if you had told me that in 10 years from then I'd be in a bedroom with a woman forcing my increasingly rigid and swollen member down her throat...who had placed towels beneath her with the intent of pushing her limits until she threw up....and that I'd be enjoying it to the point of orgasm..I'd have walked away from you and asked you not to talk to me. (Disclaimer: a safe signal had been established previously)
You never know what will catch your attention until you try it.
It was months ago, but we still talk and she refers to it lovingly. God that's hot.

Great example. I've always been in to being dominated and I've found the more I experiment with it the more I become addicted to it. It's not just wanting it more and more. I find that I want to try new kinkier things. It's like the kinkier it is the more I like it. Alos when I'm aroused for a prolonged period of time, I want to try kinky things and I am easily persuaded to do stuff I would ordinary not do.

 

[Trinique_Fire]

It's a new thought in my head, and a terrifying one at that, but the sort of terrified feeling I get when I'm in the middle of a megalophobic anxiety attack: it literally turns me on and gives me a weird adrenaline rush.

That being said, I sort of want to evolve my new stomach rolling obsession with flechettes.