How gay am I?

[johnnysdirtysecret]

I'm a fairly typical straight married man, but thanks to the internet, I've been finding more and more sights of people willing to dress in sexy revealing skirts and lingerie. And those people were born male. Shemales, trannies, femboys, crossdressers, sissies, any guy that acts, dresses or becomes like a girl are my total fantasy fetish. Does this make me gay? Can you be gay if you're so into femininity? Can you be gay if you don't want to suck or be fucked by cock?

Looking at these two pictures, one is born a guy, one a girl. It's the first one that turns me on, this femboy has that hot femininity, the second, the real girl, just looks like a guy to me and therefore I'm not bothered.

 

[amigayorbi]

i totally agree with you!

the first one is way too much more appealing to me....hot!!!!

 

[Jenna2641]

I find them both sexy as all get out. But the second only because I know she is a genetic girl dressing as a man. Had she grown body hair, I wouldn't find it appealing. A fake mustache, okay.

But I can certainly understand the appeal of the feminine crossdresser or transgendered man draws the straight man. They embrace the feminine ideal more completely. Perhaps it is a wrong stereo type to foster, but the feminine just seems so much more sexy.

 

[daddyslittlebitch]

I'm a fairly typical straight married man, but thanks to the internet, I've been finding more and more sights of people willing to dress in sexy revealing skirts and lingerie. And those people were born male. Shemales, trannies, femboys, crossdressers, sissies, any guy that acts, dresses or becomes like a girl are my total fantasy fetish. Does this make me gay? Can you be gay if you're so into femininity? Can you be gay if you don't want to suck or be fucked by cock?

Looking at these two pictures, one is born a guy, one a girl. It's the first one that turns me on, this femboy has that hot femininity, the second, the real girl, just looks like a guy to me and therefore I'm not bothered.

I'd say that you're at least a little bit gay, Johnny, but there's no shame in that. And, for the record, definitely get off on the first pic more.

 

[Safe_Bet]

But I can certainly understand the appeal of the feminine crossdresser or transgendered man draws the straight man. They embrace the feminine ideal more completely. Perhaps it is a wrong stereo type to foster, but the feminine just seems so much more sexy. ]

Ummmm, no!


Oh, and... HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

 

[SecretSong]

I think it's not so much about gender, but what is considered masculinity and femininity. I am not attracted to masculinity in the least, physically, mentally, or sexually.

However, a man dressed feminine is extremely attractive to me. However, not all men dressed as women are attractive. There has to be a STRONG element of femininity for this to work for me. If you're going to look girly, act girly, at least.

The same is true when the coin is flipped. There are some butch ass women out there. Not all of them are masculine looking, or totally masculine acting. They are still feminine and I still find an element of attractiveness. No beards of mustaches though... I don't mind a hairy woman, just keep it off the face.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

In a sense, I'd feel less of a straight man if I didn't find pictures like these 'guys' attractive.

 

[Etoile]

In a sense, I'd feel less of a straight man if I didn't find pictures like these 'guys' attractive.

You'd feel less straight if you didn't find them attractive? I'm confused.

 

[janeyruth]

I'm a fairly typical straight married man...

I don't think you are.

 

[none2_none2]

I don't think you are.

You are SO correct. A real straight man simply isn't attracted to males. Now that doesn't mean these guys must be gay either. Sexuality is usually a gray scale -- not absolutes.

Everybody is entitled to think of themselves how they wish. However, the worst thing someone can do is to deceive one's self. If one cannot be honest with one's self, then with whom?

As for the 5 or so pics that someone posted. Those pic didn't seem so much "feminine" as underage: no pubic hair, budding breast (if any), very small and thin -- like young boys gone wild. One should not confuse underage with feminine. They might be jail bate.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

You'd feel less straight if you didn't find them attractive? I'm confused.

Because they look like hot girls, if I'm a straight guy I'd want something that looked like a hot girl in lingerie.

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

You are SO correct. A real straight man simply isn't attracted to males. Now that doesn't mean these guys must be gay either. Sexuality is usually a gray scale -- not absolutes.

Everybody is entitled to think of themselves how they wish. However, the worst thing someone can do is to deceive one's self. If one cannot be honest with one's self, then with whom?

As for the 5 or so pics that someone posted. Those pic didn't seem so much "feminine" as underage: no pubic hair, budding breast (if any), very small and thin -- like young boys gone wild. One should not confuse underage with feminine. They might be jail bate.

They're not underage because they have no breasts, they have no breasts because they're guys in girly clothes.

I do wonder if other guys in straight relationships have thoughts like this, that's why I ask the question. I think I'm fairly typical but this is my fantasy. My normal sex life is straight, this stuff is just porno fetish fantasy stuff.

 

[Etoile]

Don't sweat it. Very few people are 100% straight or 100% gay.

 

[Chrissi]

I'm a fairly typical straight married man, but thanks to the internet, I've been finding more and more sights of people willing to dress in sexy revealing skirts and lingerie. And those people were born male. Shemales, trannies, femboys, crossdressers, sissies, any guy that acts, dresses or becomes like a girl are my total fantasy fetish. Does this make me gay? Can you be gay if you're so into femininity? Can you be gay if you don't want to suck or be fucked by cock?

Looking at these two pictures, one is born a guy, one a girl. It's the first one that turns me on, this femboy has that hot femininity, the second, the real girl, just looks like a guy to me and therefore I'm not bothered.

Well first of all I don't think you are a fairly typical straight married man, at least based on what you have posted.
Secondly: How gay are you? Maybe have the sparks of curiosity, but otherwise not very...Speaking as a gay man, I didn't find any of your posted pictures to be alluring at all. Men in drag...yes that it fun, but they are obviously men. Twinky or androgynous bois? Sure, they also can be very cute sometimes, but definitely all male...Even somewhat feminine guys can be cute and fun, but it's more in how they carry themselves: They are still guys.

I, myself, and I don't know any of my gay acquaintances who find males who want to become women (and convincingly dress and act like women) attractive. It's just not what we are looking and lusting for. After all it's the first impression that starts most human interaction, and most gay men don't give females a second look. ;-)

 

[CandiCame]

I think it's not so much about gender, but what is considered masculinity and femininity. I am not attracted to masculinity in the least, physically, mentally, or sexually.

However, a man dressed feminine is extremely attractive to me. However, not all men dressed as women are attractive. There has to be a STRONG element of femininity for this to work for me. If you're going to look girly, act girly, at least.

The same is true when the coin is flipped. There are some butch ass women out there. Not all of them are masculine looking, or totally masculine acting. They are still feminine and I still find an element of attractiveness. No beards of mustaches though... I don't mind a hairy woman, just keep it off the face.

I'm gonna second that- certain clothes only look good on certain people. There are guys who just plain do not look good in drag. I think that feminine energy men and women looks best in more feminine clothes and masculine energy people men & women, look better in more masculine clothes. I actually wear a combination- I like my clothes on the tighter side, so women's clothes usually work better for me- but hell, I'll kinda "babydoll" my guys shirts to, cut them thinner from the sleeves to the hem and take them in to show off the curves I wished I had.

 

[janeyruth]

You are SO correct. A real straight man simply isn't attracted to males. Now that doesn't mean these guys must be gay either. Sexuality is usually a gray scale -- not absolutes.

Everybody is entitled to think of themselves how they wish. However, the worst thing someone can do is to deceive one's self. If one cannot be honest with one's self, then with whom?

Relax, petunia. I was attacking his point about being "fairly typical," so don't get all in a tizzy and drop your tampon. He's not typical. He's fucking weird.

And as for your point about "the worst thing" being self-deception, well, I hate to burst your bubble, but honesty is overrated...

 

[johnnysdirtysecret]

Well first of all I don't think you are a fairly typical straight married man, at least based on what you have posted.
Secondly: How gay are you? Maybe have the sparks of curiosity, but otherwise not very...Speaking as a gay man, I didn't find any of your posted pictures to be alluring at all. Men in drag...yes that it fun, but they are obviously men. Twinky or androgynous bois? Sure, they also can be very cute sometimes, but definitely all male...Even somewhat feminine guys can be cute and fun, but it's more in how they carry themselves: They are still guys.

I, myself, and I don't know any of my gay acquaintances who find males who want to become women (and convincingly dress and act like women) attractive. It's just not what we are looking and lusting for. After all it's the first impression that starts most human interaction, and most gay men don't give females a second look. ;-)

This is kind of what I thought. Real, truly gay guys like you mustn't really be attracted to guys that look and act like girls, they (you) want guys.

 

[LanaBehave]

In nature, sexual mimicry occurs fairly commonly. In aquatic and marine settings, and among some reptiles, for example. Smaller, less robust males take on appearance and behavior of the female, for the advantage of proximity, and thus may get opportunities with females the stronger male misses. Transvestites, crossdressers, and sissies, taking on feminine looks and gestures, would naturally, I think, attract the eye of a straight man... and perhaps from there, well, humans have imaginations, too. You may not be 'gay' at all, but are still susceptible to the 'pretty' boy.

 

[2wayroad]

I’d say not gay. Sexuality is more like a spectrum, or sliding scale. For some reason, there are those who believe that one must be in this box, or that box. And once so labeled and placed in said box can never leave. There are a lot of very unhappy people who have done that to themselves.

The best thing to do is to explore your desires. Then you will truly know what you do and do not like. You will come to a better understanding of yourself. And crossing a line doesn’t mean you can never come back.

Looking at TS porn, or even having sex with another man out of curiosity doesn’t make you gay. Even if you like it and do it again. Wanting to be in a loving relationship with a man, that’s the tipping point. Even then, there are those who go back and forth between men and women.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I started out as straight in life and only attracted to woman. I looked at and was exposed to a lot of porn. Over time i came across a lot of taboo porn showcasing more and more tranny, shemale and sissy, crossdressing. I cant help it but it excited me and I masturbated to all of this. One day it just occurred to me im attracted and aroused by cock, especially big hard ones. Then i experimented with crossdressing and found it to be very arousing! I finally satisfied my curiosity and sucked a cock whilst getting sucked in a 69 with another guy. It felt so right and I really got off on the experience. I sucked a lot of cocks and had great mutual male/male experiences. I got real comfortable getting naked with other men. When my FWB introduced me to kissing and topping, I was taken aback kissing another man but couldnt help that I enjoyed it. I never fantasized fucking a man but he persuaded me to try it. I was very surprised at just how satisfying it was and it felt incredible penetrating him deep in his ass. It was like my cock slipped into a velvet glove and i had never experienced an orgasm that intense, even in my wifes pussy.
I also found myself dressing in lingerie and meeting men who were very turned on by it. Even meeting other crossdressers was very enjoyable. The more experiences I had, the more comfortable I became being intimate with other men. I enjoyed feeling another naked mans body against mine. When I was with other men,I felt more fem, submissive and was comfortable being the object of desire. Nothing pleased me more then gratifying their sexual needs. I wish i was more comfortable with being a bottom but am always concerned about cleanliness and health risks. My encounters are mostly sensual stroking, touch and oral. Many times I fantasize about those same men fucking me and making love to me after the encounters. A majority of my fantasies always involve men and I masturbate remembering and reliving those experiences. I think over time im becoming much more Gay. Now if given an opportunity of getting a bj or being with a woman, im not going to pass up the opportunity.

 

[2wayroad]

There are still experiences I would like to have. I’d like to have sex with a butch lesbian or with an FTM. And I would like to play fluffer/clean up with an MW couple. Other than that, I’ve done it all. My preference is to be a sub bottom to alpha men.

An interesting twist I would also like is for a lesbian dom to subject me to non consensual play with an “straight” man.

 

[vizio]

I'd say you're as gay as you want to be. I'm a cross dresser and really like that men are attracted to my feminine appearance. It arouses me to arouse men especially the ones that are " straight " but are "curious" and keep coming back for more. I also love married men whose wives won't do for them what I will ... let them cum in my mouth. I have one friend I suck and up until recently I was always dressed when I sucked him off. Then on our last meeting he told me he wanted me as a man. I obliged and it turned out that guy on guy sex for me is fucking totally hot. I was so turned on I finally let him fuck me. Now he only wants me male.

 

[Tg3362]

There are still experiences I would like to have. I’d like to have sex with a butch lesbian or with an FTM. And I would like to play fluffer/clean up with an MW couple. Other than that, I’ve done it all. My preference is to be a sub bottom to alpha men.

An interesting twist I would also like is for a lesbian dom to subject me to non consensual play with an “straight” man.

Ever thought about being a cuckold?

 

[Escierto]

Then on our last meeting he told me he wanted me as a man. I obliged and it turned out that guy on guy sex for me is fucking totally hot. I was so turned on I finally let him fuck me. Now he only wants me male.

Although my girlfriend is totally feminine, I do notice on occasions a little tell tale sign like some facial hair or a musky aroma from between her legs. It kind of turns me on actually to see a touch of the masculine sneaking out.

 

[2wayroad]

Ever thought about being a cuckold?

The idea is enticing.