How frequently would you want to have sex with someone, if you could?

[LMWM321]

Want?

..Well, I'd want to begin and end every day with sex if my wife wanted the same. I'm serious when I say that at nearly 60 my libido is unchanged from when I was 25.

We've been a pretty consistent 2-3 times/week for all of our 35+ years of being together. For me, it's important to know that my wife is interested in having sex rather than just doing it to please me.. So if I asked for more than 2-3 times, she might agree but it I know it would become rather perfunctory for her. These days, the understanding is this.. I tell her, "Honey, I'm ALWAYS interested in having sex with you - whether I've had a great day, a bad day, a busy day, or a quiet day. ..So you let me know when YOU are interested, 'cause I promise you I will be!"

That is usually how it goes until I get the sense that she wants to be asked, then I happily oblige

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

I need at least once a day and usually more on weekends

You've found the perfect schedule, easy to keep options open

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

2 minutes of vigorous rubbing and a spit doesn't quite cut it for sex

Give us your ideal number

 

[ShaneoD]

Depends on mood and situation…are we including teasing, playing, edging? Too hard to answer

Depending on who's doing the teasing and edging, I could be in trouble with you

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

Depending on who's doing the teasing and edging, I could be in trouble with you

Definitely everyday, how many times..................to many factors there but...mmm...more than 2

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

First thing in the morning and again midday would keep me satisfied. More often on certain days.

Know that schedule

 

[LeinadVirgo]

Once or maybe twice a week (if it's still new). Otherwise i have shit going on that needs attention.

 

[cactusjack0584]

If it was a certain someone I think we’d shoot for at least once a day, or more.

 

[Winchester3030]

I think it depends on my partner with the right someone, some kind of relief every day or every 2 days, would be awesome, doesn’t have to be intercourse every time, some days mutual masturbation, sometimes oral for each, but a communicating willing partner will work to be sure each of us would be satisfied every day

 

[fma20fma]

daily once at bed time. anal alternate nights.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Daily..at least

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

When I was young and had no real responsibilities, I think we had sex everyday or every other day.

Now that we're grown ups, I'd day it's more like 2-4 times a week. But we're both much better at satisfying each other now, so I'm pretty happy with our current arrangement. Quality over quantity.

 

[fma20fma]

daily at bed time. alternate days bareback anal.

 

[coati]

Once every weekend has worked for my partner and me for the last decade or so. We live separately during the work week, but talk on the phone every day. Then we get together on the weekends.

 

[fma20fma]

daily at bed time. alternate days bareback anal.

thanks for like.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

Me and my wife regularly enjoy each other 2-3 times a week, and some weeks up to about 5. On some occasions life gets in the way and its a 0 for that week but its not too often. I am very happy with the quality and amount of sex. So if the question is about with a specific someone, then im good with this.

Being a guy tho, i always want more....and not just more sex but more variety. I really enjoy the newness of sex with someone. I dont pursue it physically tho for various reasons but on here, meeting new people tends to curb my appetite

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

3 or 4 times a day, 7 days a week.

 

[Noor]

At least 4 times a week, and if they could every day.

 

[BVVRG]

Most days, sometimes twice a day.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Every day in some form or another

 

[Winchester3030]

If I had a willing partner every day would be incredible but 3-4 times a week would work, doesn’t have to be intercourse just some kind of release for each of us

 

[fma20fma]

once daily with condom at bed time, alternate days anal bareback.

 

[SPARTAN047]

As long as I really liked or loved them, every day.

 

[Escierto]

As long as I really liked or loved them, every day.

Exactly what I would say too!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Exactly what I would say too!

Glad you agree.