How frequently would you want to have sex with someone, if you could?

[mobleedzblue]

I'd be happy with 4-5 times a week of any kind of sexual engagement. Doesn't have to only be intercourse.

 

[Akes69]

I'd be happy with 4-5 times a week of any kind of sexual engagement. Doesn't have to only be intercourse.

I couldn't agree more, I mean, there's 2 bodies to explore n trigger to our hearts content

 

[summer_reine]

Depends on the week to be honest. I'm not sure if other women experience their sex drive changing dramatically with their cycle but I do. At least one week out of the month I could go all day every day, another week I'd rather he leave an offering of chocolate and stay away. A couple times a week would be great the rest the time with lots of intimacy in between.

 

[LoneMilf]

3-5 times @ 3-? hours?

Hour(s) long sex sessions are for new relationships and rare occassions - especially when you have children. I've found that 30 minutes is a good average, including foreplay.

3-5 times that per week + lots and lots of little firts, touches, looks etc. is probably optimal for me

 

[matureman32]

4 to 5 times a week seems about right to me including any non penetration activities.

 

[marf2200]

as often as I can get it up

 

[trinething1ns]

For about eight months last year, my wife and I were separated. I started dating someone. It was like a dam broke—I had all this pent up desire. We had sex at least once a day most of the time, sometimes twice a day and on weekends even more. She had such a high sex drive and was every bit as kinky as I am. It was amazing.

 

[WeShallUnclench]

It was like a dam broke—I had all this pent up desire.

Was it that you had pushed back your libido for your wife's sake, or was it you who just didn't feel attraction to her anymore?
Or just general relationship trouble?

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

Fuck me daily

 

[GoingBackToBed]

Hourly?

 

[Handydan]

Every two to three days. Keeps the anticipation in play.

 

[collegegirlsub]

I find myself needing it pretty much daily, on certain days more than that.

 

[Beachfun51]

Once a day is perfect!

 

[DrKinks]

I need at least once a day and usually more on weekends

My kind of younger lady.

 

[Prasa]

Weekly

 

[davion2308]

Perspective: I'm 42, a male, American, married, I have three kids, a full time job, my other activities like coaching sports, playing soccer, keeping up a house, my relationships and social engagements, etc.

Sex 3-4 times a week would be fun. I love how emotionally tied it makes me with my wife, I love the physical expression of joy and fun, it's engaging, and I'd prefer an every-other or once every two to three days recurring. That'd be my preference.

 

[Lucien_Al]

It's tricky to keep daily sex exciting for a prolonged period of time - it can so easily become routine.

I've always found 3-5 times a week to be a good amount

Agree with your comment. After we met (we were both in our 50's) we managed every day for about 2 years and then it just got to be too much. We now are in the 3 - 5 times a week category and find it a lot more satisfying.

 

[SevMax2]

Ideally, if I had the time and energy for it....well, I would want to have sex with two or three different people in the same day. Maybe more on a great day. I would need a lot of money to swing that, so I could retire and enjoy it. Also, they would be disease-free and mostly drug-free, no IV drugs in any case. Also, the money would come in handy if I knocked a few of them up.

 

[Crownvic]

Daily dosage..

 

[Playwithmee]

A couple of times a day. But I know I will never find that.

 

[Badkitty40]

2-3 times a week would be amazing. Right now it is maybe once a month or every other. My partner just isn't a sexual person.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

2-3 times a week would be amazing. Right now it is maybe once a month or every other. My partner just isn't a sexual person.

Same…maybe 3-5x/week. For me daily might get routine. Maybe not. But presently it’s more like 3-5x/month

 

[climbon2940]

I know it sounds cliché and probably tacky and all especially coming from a man but no matter the partner I could have sex everyday. No better way to start and end the day then with some mutual orgasms. I am always respectful to my partners needs though and rarely have found anyone with the same sex drive. So I guess that make's me the problem lol.

 

[easyoff]

I would imagine it would depend on the person and what they are into.

 

[PMarky2]

I was quite happy with a full on session on a Wednesday afternoon, a quicky or a long slow screw after church on Sundays, and sometimes on a weekday morning when we both woke up horny. That was the default for years until the autoimmune crap started. The more adventurous sex usually happened at conferences - hotel room, both bored, and we'd get to "I know - let's fuck! Have you tried..."

Going at it every day even in the early days of our relationship was not really an option, as I am on the larger side and she needed some recovery time between bouts of love making. It happened a few times during the horny stage of the relationship and she had days when she couldn't walk straight.