How does orgasm feel different for guys vs. girls?

[SweetAnnie40]

For me, there is steady building of tension and heat that seems to roam around my body, flush in my face usually and chest, warmth between my legs, the lubrication certainly and swelling of my skin there. My muscles around my body tend to get tenser, nipples tighten and get erect as I get more aroused. Orgasm is like cresting a wave that may or may not recede quickly, not an explosion like it looks like for guys. It certainly peaks in intensity followed by physical release, contractions in my vagina and bottom that each feel like a new wave of pleasure, especially if I have something/someone inside at the time. My body tries to let all the tension out, so arching, twisting, yelling, moaning, etc. Sometimes I like the stimulation to continue (like with a vibe or someone's tongue) to take me up the wave again but there is definitely a point where I need relief, over-stimulated and it actually hurts to be stimulated on my clitoris or nipples. That doesn't last too long, thankfully. I've gotten extra wet when I cum but I don't think I've "squirted" as I see some people describe from their wives or girlfriends.

 

[dacoach44]

Yes, Annie...

For me, there is steady building of tension and heat that seems to roam around my body, flush in my face usually and chest, warmth between my legs, the lubrication certainly and swelling of my skin there. My muscles around my body tend to get tenser, nipples tighten and get erect as I get more aroused. Orgasm is like cresting a wave that may or may not recede quickly, not an explosion like it looks like for guys. It certainly peaks in intensity followed by physical release, contractions in my vagina and bottom that each feel like a new wave of pleasure, especially if I have something/someone inside at the time. My body tries to let all the tension out, so arching, twisting, yelling, moaning, etc. Sometimes I like the stimulation to continue (like with a vibe or someone's tongue) to take me up the wave again but there is definitely a point where I need relief, over-stimulated and it actually hurts to be stimulated on my clitoris or nipples. That doesn't last too long, thankfully. I've gotten extra wet when I cum but I don't think I've "squirted" as I see some people describe from their wives or girlfriends.

A fun thread for this. Some women dont squirt at all; some shower the bed. Some are shy; some are not. Many describe this event as a "wave." I work really hard at it for my own reasons: if she likes you, you may get seconds..

 

[Privates1stClass]

How does orgasm feel different for guys vs. girls?

There are plenty of differences, but for either male or female, there's a tingling sensation that lets you know there's an orgasm about to take place. It's about the best sensation you've ever had, bar none! As it gets closer, it's like a summer storm--lightning and thunder approaching. Then the lightning hits home and there's nothing you can do to stop it--just lie there and enjoy it. Eventually, the thunderstorm (and orgasm) drifts away and there's a calmness which tells you it's all over. Cuddle your mate at this point and get your breath back as your heartbeat returns to normal.

It's so overwhelming, we can't resist doing it again and again. It never gets old or boring (well, for most of us, it doesn't). Yes, orgasms are very different for men and women, but we will continue enjoying them. Love every minute of it.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

What about you (anyone reading this thread)? How do you describe the experience? Feel free to be poetic as I don't feel like there are enough words to do it justice, at least in English.

 

[PWilton]

How It Feels For Me

I am single, live alone; so my experiences are from masturbation. I like a long period, perhaps hours, of edging closer, then backing away. Letting the orgiastic feeling rise and pause is like a surfer riding along the top of the wave; not too fast to finish it, not letting it subside. Leaking precum. Perhaps this is what being high on a drug feels like.

The tension and desire in me builds and builds.

At the final moment of bliss however….there is this internal tension, the body muscles in midsection, thighs, and groin all feel poised for a cataclysmic event. My jaw clenches along with the urethra canal, which I can feel on the verge of contracting to pump. The nerves throughout my body become sensitized, aching, and poised. A tension throughout my whole body.

As the final moment arrives, I can literally feel my cock expand, and many goosebumps form all along the shaft. My balls tighten. As the orgasm is in progress, it feels like my whole inner being is being forced through the shaft and out the tip.

The urge to roar wells up in my throat, in my chest a deep breath and expels as a loud yell. The pumping action ripples along the urethra and up the shaft.

At that moment, it is as if time stops, and the only, only thing of importance in the universe is making this ejaculation and orgasm the strongest of my life.

Of course, very quickly afterwards, the desire recedes. But I hear my heart still beating fast, my breath ragged and raspy. The feel of being stunned by the experience. Extreme sensitivity at the end of my cock; wanting to continue, but too stimulated for any more. Just closing my eyes to let the feeling of triumph and accomplishment wash through me.

My mind wondering when I can do this again…

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I am single, live alone; so my experiences are from masturbation. I like a long period, perhaps hours, of edging closer, then backing away. Letting the orgiastic feeling rise and pause is like a surfer riding along the top of the wave; not too fast to finish it, not letting it subside. Leaking precum. Perhaps this is what being high on a drug feels like.

The tension and desire in me builds and builds.

At the final moment of bliss however….there is this internal tension, the body muscles in midsection, thighs, and groin all feel poised for a cataclysmic event. My jaw clenches along with the urethra canal, which I can feel on the verge of contracting to pump. The nerves throughout my body become sensitized, aching, and poised. A tension throughout my whole body.

As the final moment arrives, I can literally feel my cock expand, and many goosebumps form all along the shaft. My balls tighten. As the orgasm is in progress, it feels like my whole inner being is being forced through the shaft and out the tip.

The urge to roar wells up in my throat, in my chest a deep breath and expels as a loud yell. The pumping action ripples along the urethra and up the shaft.

At that moment, it is as if time stops, and the only, only thing of importance in the universe is making this ejaculation and orgasm the strongest of my life.

Of course, very quickly afterwards, the desire recedes. But I hear my heart still beating fast, my breath ragged and raspy. The feel of being stunned by the experience. Extreme sensitivity at the end of my cock; wanting to continue, but too stimulated for any more. Just closing my eyes to let the feeling of triumph and accomplishment wash through me.

My mind wondering when I can do this again…

Wow... that reads amazingly well. I can almost imagine it for myself. If I was a guy, I would want to have huge cums (lots of volume). Sorry, guess that's an off-topic note .

Thank you for sharing.

 

[spawnofdavey]

For me, there is steady building of tension and heat that seems to roam around my body, flush in my face usually and chest, warmth between my legs, the lubrication certainly and swelling of my skin there. My muscles around my body tend to get tenser, nipples tighten and get erect as I get more aroused. Orgasm is like cresting a wave that may or may not recede quickly, not an explosion like it looks like for guys. It certainly peaks in intensity followed by physical release, contractions in my vagina and bottom that each feel like a new wave of pleasure, especially if I have something/someone inside at the time. My body tries to let all the tension out, so arching, twisting, yelling, moaning, etc. Sometimes I like the stimulation to continue (like with a vibe or someone's tongue) to take me up the wave again but there is definitely a point where I need relief, over-stimulated and it actually hurts to be stimulated on my clitoris or nipples. That doesn't last too long, thankfully. I've gotten extra wet when I cum but I don't think I've "squirted" as I see some people describe from their wives or girlfriends.

There are certain similarities but plenty of differences too, mainly centered around the feeling in and around my cock..

For me, I like to edge a lot, so it is generally a succession of building waves of pleasure that get me close to cumming but not quite. The sensation is centered around my cock but also my balls too.. it takes a lot of willpower to back off before I cum but also it takes a lot of muscle control around my pelvic muscles and my cock.

Sometimes I do this over a period of hours, with or without using a prostate toy or my cock ring.

However long, or how many times I do it I usually produce quite a lot of precum, other times if I can stop just right I might leak some actual cum but not orgasm, allowing me to cool of for a moment before I repeat the process.

All the while, my body is reacting in a similar way to what you describe.. full body tension, heat etc..

When I cum it can be do intense that my whole body feels the incredible sensations that emanate from my groin, centred on the head of my cock and my balls.

 

[eroticspank]

For me, there is steady building of tension and heat that seems to roam around my body, flush in my face usually and chest, warmth between my legs, the lubrication certainly and swelling of my skin there. My muscles around my body tend to get tenser, nipples tighten and get erect as I get more aroused. Orgasm is like cresting a wave that may or may not recede quickly, not an explosion like it looks like for guys. It certainly peaks in intensity followed by physical release, contractions in my vagina and bottom that each feel like a new wave of pleasure, especially if I have something/someone inside at the time. My body tries to let all the tension out, so arching, twisting, yelling, moaning, etc. Sometimes I like the stimulation to continue (like with a vibe or someone's tongue) to take me up the wave again but there is definitely a point where I need relief, over-stimulated and it actually hurts to be stimulated on my clitoris or nipples. That doesn't last too long, thankfully. I've gotten extra wet when I cum but I don't think I've "squirted" as I see some people describe from their wives or girlfriends.

Wow! Great thread and nice description. Unfortunately I will have to give my description later since I am about to go to work. (I guess I have homework

Can you describe any emotions related to your description above? I think the emotional part is also different for men and women.

ES

 

[ChuckWolf]

Great thread idea and particularly useful for this site.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Wow! Great thread and nice description. Unfortunately I will have to give my description later since I am about to go to work. (I guess I have homework

Can you describe any emotions related to your description above? I think the emotional part is also different for men and women.

ES

Good question. For me, the whole process is also emotional, an opening toward this other person, becoming vulnerable to them and they to you, it is such a powerful experience it has to affect you, and create a primal connection. It can really feel like love and when you are with someone you actually love, it is an incredible intimate connection. When you aren't in love, it can feel an awful lot like you are. At least that's my experience.

 

[waratah]

For me anyway, theres no one experience or description.

Physically, there's very low key ones, half a minute of tingling, and a few pulses, and less than a minute later its like it never happened.

And then there are ones that take 5-10 minutes from its coming, to its come. Rigid body, can't breath, no feeling in my legs, and can't stand for 5 minutes, and a content and palpably empty ballsack for 2 to 3 hours after.

 

[eroticspank]

Good question. For me, the whole process is also emotional, an opening toward this other person, becoming vulnerable to them and they to you, it is such a powerful experience it has to affect you, and create a primal connection. It can really feel like love and when you are with someone you actually love, it is an incredible intimate connection. When you aren't in love, it can feel an awful lot like you are. At least that's my experience.

Wow, very nice description...THANK YOU.

I feel very much the same way, regarding being vulnerable to the other person. So for me it is becoming vulnerable to a woman. It depends on the kind of orgasm and how intense it is for me to how vulnerable I feel. If I am with someone I love then I agree the connection is very intimate...there is an energy flow between us that feels great.

This is a bit off subject but in D/s play when the woman uses orgasm denial with me it is not that bad. If I don't orgasm then I don't feel that vulnerability and it is not as tough emotionally. If she does make me orgasm during play, it can put me deep into sub space and result in strong emotions.

ES

 

[stickygirl]

If I may quote?
"He rolled me to one side and followed with his body, keeping his cock buried in me. His full weight crushed me and I couldn't breathe until he supported himself on his arms above me. He lifted my legs at the knee and bent them into my chest so that my feet were on his shoulders. His cock dipped in and out, exploring me. To position me better, Paul took a pillow and tucked it under my bottom and then sat back on his heels. He sunk into me again and I gasped at a new sensation his prick found in me. Our eyes were locked together watching the emotions pass across each other's face.

He began a steady rhythm and the strange sensation grew again from where his big head pressed me. I was puzzled but Paul just nodded and smiled back at me. Soon the rhythm began to spread into a glow inside and I had to throw my head back and groan. His hands now gripped the front of my thighs as he rocked us together with an unrelenting pace. On and on he went and I felt I was floating outside body and heard the cries of my voice as a witness. I wasn't sure which way up I was or where my sight had gone: I was beginning to see only a sea of red and black and hear a hiss in my ears. Paul's cock was plunging: his every stroke bore me away to an unknown place. "

*curtsey* The weird thing is how different from this my orgasms are now

 

[dacoach44]

I can see that, Annie.........

Good question. For me, the whole process is also emotional, an opening toward this other person, becoming vulnerable to them and they to you, it is such a powerful experience it has to affect you, and create a primal connection. It can really feel like love and when you are with someone you actually love, it is an incredible intimate connection. When you aren't in love, it can feel an awful lot like you are. At least that's my experience.

If not in love, you could be forgiven for thinking you are. Its very intense; her looking up at me from the pillow, me pinning her ass to the bed, making sure she doesnt get away, her losing control totally, her chest heaving, her uncontrollable moaning, hugging you tight, wanting all of my cock in her. The whimpering and then the squealing as she loses it. As for me, the buildup is fast, you know when it will arrive, and the explosion wont last long. Three good spasms and I am finished, collapsing on her chest, gasping for air. Rolling off of her, on my back, giggling....she pounces on my cock, now deflating rapidly, sucking the juices from it and out of it.

 

[eroticspank]

There are some great descriptions on here! Nice

Here is what I would add:

I definitely feel my self rising to a peak of pleasure. That is why I completely understand why I hear peoples voices getting higher pitched as they get closer to orgasm. I can't make my voice do that but I certainly feel it.

My breathing increases, my skin starts to tingle and my nipples feel like they are being pulled. My butt begins to tighten up and my balls move closer to my dick.

Like mentioned above, my whole focus is my dick. I feel it get bigger, throbbing, more and more pleasure flows from it through my body. I want to stand on my tip toes if I am standing as I approach the edge.

Then just prior to orgasm I feel my sperm flow from my balls through my dick...sometimes it actually squirts out before my orgasm hits.

My whole body contracts trying to push every ounce of fluid through my dick with amazing force. My dick spasms like a blinking light, each spasm pushing a rope of cum as far out as possible. And my anus contracts with the same rhythm--a gf told me it looks like it is winking at her.

My face and chest get very red, especially if I forget to breathe. Now I am just along for the ride. My body is on autopilot as it spasms, shakes, and squirts. Emotionally it feels wonderful if I am being held during this time...arms and legs wrapped around me.

After about 30 seconds it is over and my body begins to relax and breathing return to normal. I may have a few aftershocks but that is it.


ES

 

[Cogan]

Good question. For me, the whole process is also emotional, an opening toward this other person, becoming vulnerable to them and they to you, it is such a powerful experience it has to affect you, and create a primal connection. It can really feel like love and when you are with someone you actually love, it is an incredible intimate connection. When you aren't in love, it can feel an awful lot like you are. At least that's my experience.

That is the bottom line for me too. The emotional connection.
Having said that my orgasms are different depending on the stimulation.
A quickie orgasm is a release were the orgasm feels like an outburst and I get very relaxed after the orgasm.
A slow build up with a lot of foreplay fells in the whole body like a tingling all over. It's the same with slow hand jobs.
When I masturbate I choose the orgasm depending on my mood.

 

[eroticspank]

Prostate Orgasm

Another difference regarding orgasms is a prostate orgasm for men.

Prostate orgasms like regular orgasms can be small or mini ones all the way to full blown fireworks. For me it starts with a warm feeling centered in my prostate and it spreads throughout my body. It is like my whole body gets flushed or red. My skin especially my nipples and other erogenous zone get very sensitive. By the time I feel warmth throughout my body I start to feel my prostate get harder.

My breathing increases, I feel pleasure flowing through my whole body, I begin to moan. I think I am going towards something wonderful, I just don't know what. My dick is not involved at all. It is just limp against my body. As the stimulation continues I crave more and more of it. It is amazing how good it feels and I don't want it to stop. Just prior to orgasm my dick does get hard and it begins leaking cum.

When the orgasm hits it is like a wave rushing over me. It is not the muscle clenching, grunting, or jerking of a regular orgasm. It is just a very pleasurable wave with some spasms, like my anus pulsating, and dick squirting. Sometimes my dick squirts out with a lot of force, sometimes it just leaks a lot more. But my actual dick is not cumming, the orgasm is from the inside.

After I come back to earth, my dick is not sensitive because it was not touched. I can easily switch to intercourse and have a regular orgasm.

ES

 

[AZsurfer35]

I’ve often described it this way to my partners.

As a man during sex, everything that feels good just builds up my erection. As foreplay turns into more engaging activities my blood starts to pump and my cock begins to grow. Swelling, throbbing, leaking, all my needs and desires become more and more fixated on my organ. Everything you do from running your nails down my chest, to sitting on my face to bending over for me builds my need. My muscles begin to tense up, my body aches and my mind slows down as my engorged cock and it’s need to stay hard and feed takes over. It becomes my epicenter at this point and takes over. Everything I act, do and say is because my cock demands it. My body builds. My muscles tense up. My need grows and the only thing keeping it in check is my tip. It’s like the damn holding back this massive floodwater and I try to hold onto that damn for as long as I can until it all becomes too much to contain.

My mind and every inch of body is on sexual edge. Building. Building.... Peaking......

Then when I can’t possibly hold back anything more, I release, and in an instant all of that stress and tension and sexual desire just floods out. Imagine all that condescending sexual energy rushing and shooting out of your body in one powerful focal point. That’s what an orgasm feels like to me. Afterwards my body feels completely drained and numb and that’s usually when I roll off and collapse to catch my breath for a few minutes because I’m just not there. I released all my energy and it takes awhile it come back to reality.

 

[eroticspank]

Good question. For me, the whole process is also emotional, an opening toward this other person, becoming vulnerable to them and they to you, it is such a powerful experience it has to affect you, and create a primal connection. It can really feel like love and when you are with someone you actually love, it is an incredible intimate connection. When you aren't in love, it can feel an awful lot like you are. At least that's my experience.

I really like this^ description. As mentioned by a few others it is the emotional connection that makes the orgasm memorable and even hard to describe.

Years ago I was taught that intimacy means: IN TO ME SEE. It is not with every orgasm for me, but there are times when an orgasm opens up a big window into my body or soul. It is during that time that I feel very vulnerable. I feel like she is looking inside me at that instant with a raised eyebrow. "Do you like what you see?" are my thoughts. I can't do anything like turn away or hide myself. I am on display and I hope she likes what she sees.

ES

 

[Samsacks]

As a bi guy - When I'm with a woman, I'm trying to hold on as long as I can for her pleasure. With a guy, as a bottom, I'm just letting him take me wherever he wants to go. With a woman, I try to maintain control. With a man, I just let go.

Orgasms with a man are deeper, wilder and more satisfying.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I really like this^ description. As mentioned by a few others it is the emotional connection that makes the orgasm memorable and even hard to describe.

Years ago I was taught that intimacy means: IN TO ME SEE. It is not with every orgasm for me, but there are times when an orgasm opens up a big window into my body or soul. It is during that time that I feel very vulnerable. I feel like she is looking inside me at that instant with a raised eyebrow. "Do you like what you see?" are my thoughts. I can't do anything like turn away or hide myself. I am on display and I hope she likes what she sees.

ES

I love that. It is very true. The deeper I go, the more I let down my guard, the more I embrace what I crave... I become very vulnerable. I have a female friend on Lit who we've played together several times. Each time, I reach levels of pleasure and vulnerability... I am... revealed to a level of truth about myself I don't reach in any other way.

 

[MadameSarcasm]

There are some really wonderful descriptions in this thread - thanks to everyone for sharing their intimate impressions!

 

[suckonsimon]

I'd like to chip in here as a loving husband of 40 years. My experience of orgasm is that it can happen for me on two vastly different levels of intensity.

One level is simply the masculine pleasure of ultra-erection, excitement of the churn in my balls and then the satisfaction and release of repeated spurting of my spunk.

But the other level: when my climax is either simultaneous with my woman's explosions into bliss after all the deliciousness of her steady unrelenting build into that nirvana, or following her experience once she's had some moments to come down and take another build into intense pounding: Then ... oh wow what happens to me is a whole body and soul overwhelm of energy and joy and triumph which has me involuntarily arching and crying out, a sheen of sweat on every inch of me and the sensation of firecrackers streaming from my fingers and toes, pulsing in my belly and thighs and the sudden awareness of fantastic heartbeat.

Level two I have never experienced except as a follow through or accompaniment to my wife's orgasmic bliss.

 

[Jada59]

I have so many different kinds. Depends on what I'm doing, what's being done to me, how long it has been since I had any, how many multiples I've had.

Probably the mildest would come from thoughts alone. This can happen when I'm writing a story or just talking to someone but not being able to touch myself. Also from erotic thoughts. My pussy will tighten, I will sigh or cry out softly as I cum.

Now if I am doing the above and also squeezing my pussy on purpose, the orgasm will be more intense. With a toy inside me such as Kegel weights, more intense still. I will get even tighter, my pussy may spasm, I may feel it in my tits. I may throw my head back or cry out even louder.

Next would be astral projection sex. Now if I am doing it to a guy it is not as intense as him doing it to me. I tend to move around more and I have to focus when I am doing it. When he is doing it, I just lie there and feel him touching me all over. I feel him kissing me, sucking my nipples, his cock inside of me. As I cum, there is a sensation of warmth throughout my body and I feel a deep spiritual connection as well.

Next would be tantric sex. Since the only thing moving is my pussy, clenching and releasing, I can't feel him thrusting. But we are sitting close together and touching all over. This can go on for hours. We may talk while we are doing it. The orgasms are intense and spiritual. It's very good but a different kind of good than him thrusting inside of me or me giving a blow job.

If I am giving a blow job with no stimulation from him, it's very intense because I am so concentrated on him. I take pleasure in his pleasure. The orgasm I get from that is very soothing.

I have said before that I don't really like getting oral. That usually feels annoying and won't get me off, unless he has good technique and goes down on me right after I've cum from a different means. I will feel pain at first and want to push him away. He will have to hold me in place. After what seems like a minute, I will feel like I am exploding, again and again. At his mercy.

If he is fucking me, it depends on the position, how hard, fast, deep. Could be a gentle orgasm with nothing more than moaning and deep breathing and feeling my pussy tighten around him. Could be the mind blowing type where I feel it all over my body and I am screaming out with pleasure.

If I am on top fucking him, the orgasms are always very intense unless I can bring myself to slow down. And usually I can't. I will keep fucking him hard until I am exhausted and gasping for breath. I might see colors exploding all around me. I might feel like I am leaving my body. I will have to stop and rest a bit with him still inside of me, unless he has already cum. Then I will start over again.

If he leaves his cock inside of me after he has cum, I will milk him with the walls of my pussy and cum softly.

One of my most mind blowing orgasms comes from already having plenty of orgasms in various ways and then getting my ass fucked. I will see colors and lights flashing all around me. I'll feel overheated, thirsty, gasping for breath. I'll clutch at the sheets or anything handy. I'll stop breathing and maybe pass out. He will likely have to help me recover and I'll need a drink of water.

I used to be able to have quickies with a massager. Alas, my daughter was using it for sore muscles and I never got it back. They stopped making that kind. I loved it because it was so efficient. If I was in a hurry and needing to cum, I would stop by the house, turn it on and press it into the crotch of my pants. 1-3 minutes later, I had a quick and intense orgasm. Like... Oh yeah! Then I could get on with my day.

If I had time to bare my pussy, all I had to do was press it against me and the orgasm came in 1-3 seconds. That was the best! I would keep at it for an hour or two if I could. Exhaust myself. Felt kind of like pop, pop, pop... I would get to the point of soreness yet want to keep going. So my hands were pressing it into me but my hips were rolling away from it. I would fall into a deep sleep afterwards.

Ginger will make me want to fuck anything in sight. When I use it, it is painful. It burns. But it makes me need to cum sooo badly! I will use any means possible and keep at it until I exhaust myself.

My favorite blue glass dildo gives a variety of orgasms. Last night I started out by putting the head just between my lips and working it back and forth, never entering until I came multiple times. I was dripping wet by then. Not really strong orgasms but ones that made me crave more. I shoved it into me deeply and worked it around in circles, then plunged it in and out. the orgasms got more and more intense but I needed more. So I got the Hitachi.

Since I had cum dozens of times, all I had to do was press the Hitachi to the opening of my pussy. It was on low speed. I came very quickly. Felt like the top of my head was blown off. I needed more but didn't dare because it was very late, the Hitachi is noisy and my gardener was sleeping near by. He is getting on my case of late about all the sex I have and how loud I am. Ha!

Sometimes I will use the Hitachi until it overheats. I let it cool down and go back for more. I love it on high. Currently this brings about the most intense orgasms I can give myself. They are mind blowing and yet painful from the strong vibrations.

A G Spot orgasm is also very intense. I used to use my fingers but now use a curved glass dildo. I need a towel under me as I will squirt a lot. The squirting always makes me want to cum more. I will press it hard into my G Spot. That leaves me swollen there and badly wanting more orgasms the next day. I will think about nothing but sex but... Because I am so sore, I have to be gentle.

If I am using a butt plug or a dildo in my ass, it only makes the orgasm more intense still!

Then there are things like nipple clamps, clips and spanking. The pain makes me even more eager to cum and makes the orgasm stronger. I love feeling my hot, red, stinging butt being pressed into the sheets.

I have a variety of toys and they all bring about different sensations and different orgasms, depending on how and when I use them.

But by far the most intense ever would be me sucking him off, then him fucking me, then him fucking my ass. That makes me feel complete. But... To kick it up a notch, it's better still if he has me suck him again after he cums in my ass. This will be followed by him fucking my pussy again but finishing/cumming in my ass again. OMG! Incredible! Yes I will be sore as he is doing it and more sore the following day. But when I sit on the toilet and feel the cum sliding out of me, I will cum again and it will be soothing.

Also soothing is me nursing his cock as I drift off to sleep. I will cum more but soft little orgasms.

And to end this novel, rough breast play. I love it when my breasts/nipples are so sore and bruised that it's extremely pain to put on my bra. Doing so will cause a super quick orgasm. I will also have little orgasms throughout the day because the pain will remind me of the good time!

 

[eroticspank]

Next would be astral projection sex. Now if I am doing it to a guy it is not as intense as him doing it to me. I tend to move around more and I have to focus when I am doing it. When he is doing it, I just lie there and feel him touching me all over. I feel him kissing me, sucking my nipples, his cock inside of me. As I cum, there is a sensation of warmth throughout my body and I feel a deep spiritual connection as well.

Next would be tantric sex. Since the only thing moving is my pussy, clenching and releasing, I can't feel him thrusting. But we are sitting close together and touching all over. This can go on for hours. We may talk while we are doing it. The orgasms are intense and spiritual. It's very good but a different kind of good than him thrusting inside of me or me giving a blow job.

If I am giving a blow job with no stimulation from him, it's very intense because I am so concentrated on him. I take pleasure in his pleasure. The orgasm I get from that is very soothing.


But by far the most intense ever would be me sucking him off, then him fucking me, then him fucking my ass. That makes me feel complete. But... To kick it up a notch, it's better still if he has me suck him again after he cums in my ass. This will be followed by him fucking my pussy again but finishing/cumming in my ass again. OMG! Incredible! Yes I will be sore as he is doing it and more sore the following day. But when I sit on the toilet and feel the cum sliding out of me, I will cum again and it will be soothing.

@Jada59 I love your descriptions of the variety of orgasms you have. This is amazing. I loved every word of your "novel" but quoted just these above because I have had similar experiences. Those type of orgasms I forgot about and would love to experience them again sometime.

I have had tantric sex and my orgasms are a tingling full body type. A flow of energy back and forth with my partner, very intimate. It doesn't work for me unless I am really connected with the woman on a spiritual level. I have seen or heard about places where you can go for tantric massage or sex and I wonder how it works because a big part of it for me is that close connection with
my partner.

I am not sure what Astral Projection sex is, I bet it has to do with energy and a spiritual connection as well.

For me, giving a woman oral sex I have the same reaction as you mention above. I take pleasure in her pleasure. It is just like you said above. I am so focused on her and her pleasure that he arousal and reactions become mine. I can feel her climb to a peak and get closer and closer to orgasm. I feel myself do the same...and after a certain point it actually takes strong concentration on my part to not get to carried away with my own breathing/pleasure, and miss what her body needs, is telling me. When she has her orgasm, I do too....it is a mental one. I find it hard to describe. Waves of good feelings flow through my head, then down my shoulders and the rest of my body. It is similar to tingling but not really. That combined with a juicy sweet taste of cum gives me a satisfied feeling. I look down at my dick, and sometimes it has squirted a few ropes of cum. I think back and remember there was some pleasure in my crotch, a release, but it is different, dwarfed by the mental orgasm I just had.

I think I mentioned my own orgasms from ass play and prostate massage, they can be amazing. You mention your orgasms from being fucked in the ass. I had a gf that could cum that way as well. I know there are nerve endings down there and the physiology of anal sex. I just wonder, especially since you mentioned several mental or mind orgasms, how much of it is in our heads? When I fucked her in the ass or even played with her ass, she could cum easily and usually multiple times. She told me she loved that it was Taboo and naughty to do it. Every time a woman or Domme was able to tap into that naughty/taboo side of my brain I found my orgasms were amazing.

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