How does one find a long term chat partner on here

[Michaelcat17]

Does the above actually exist or is the place for other things
like I do not know

 

[kathyisgr65]

Trial and error til u find someone u don't want to kill on a daily basis..kinda like RL

 

[Michaelcat17]

lol I like that a lot

 

[cutcrystal]

I posted and just kept on posting/bumping... I made two friends and chatted with each 14 months, at different times. Both vanished without a word until later when they both messaged me saying I was not the reason they disappeared. They both admitted to having 'problems' whilst not stating what was going on.

I am still posting/bumping... I miss having a connection. Could talk about anything.

CC

 

[PicassosPleasure]

I posted when I first became a member recently, but no response. I did search for those rare posts from women looking and started engaging. I try to come across as genuine, sincerely interested in meeting her needs, and not come across as just wanting stroke material. I ran across one who PM'd me based on a few thoughtful posts, and she soon saw how genuine I was, and the detailed information I shared with her that related to her needs. She hopefully also saw how I like to give more than receive. She said I was "a breath of fresh air." So, I say dare to be different, stand out from the crowd of horny guys looking to get something for themselves.

We've been in a very steady and steamy relationship since the start. I suppose I am lucky to find something like that within a week of joining, but I'm a firm believer that hard work produces good luck. Hope that helps and offers you hope.

 

[PapaRomantic]

Does the above actually exist or is the place for other things
like I do not know

HAVE A PROFILE! You don't, so nobody knows what they are getting with you.

After you make a profile, post so that people see you are genuine to your profile.

While this may not guarantee you'll find someone, you'll certainly be more likely to than not having a profile at all.

 

[PicassosPleasure]

HAVE A PROFILE! You don't, so nobody knows what they are getting with you.

After you make a profile, post so that people see you are genuine to your profile.

While this may not guarantee you'll find someone, you'll certainly be more likely to than not having a profile at all.

Totally agree, and reveal something about yourself. I don't trust profiles with little or no information.

 

[Aussie_gentleman]

Does the above actually exist or is the place for other things
like I do not know

same I'd love to make a longer term friendship...chat is soo random

 

[PicassosPleasure]

I have found some amazing and fun female chat partners by being my authentic self. That would be my one piece of advice and someone will be your match.

Hear hear! Well said.

 

[kathyisgr65]

HAVE A PROFILE! You don't, so nobody knows what they are getting with you.

After you make a profile, post so that people see you are genuine to your profile.

While this may not guarantee you'll find someone, you'll certainly be more likely to than not having a profile at all.

So true if u don't have a profile that catches my attention it's a lost cause

 

[Your_Goddess]

A lot of patience I’m afraid and weeding through everyone that finds their way into your inbox

 

[KatieDoes]

Have you considered having a personality?

 

[KyleR215]

it is a bunch of trial and error.

It is finding someone that accepts your ideals.

Someone that accepts your kinks.

It is finding someone that just clicks.

 

[Michaelcat17]

Thank you for all your replies
much thought needed

 

[Filipinawife]

I wish I knew

 

[Michaelcat17]

Even you can’t find?

 

[cutcrystal]

I wish I knew

Sometimes I wish I knew too

CC

 

[Michaelcat17]

It’s called unicorn syndrome

 

[NormalMarriedWhiteGuy]

Does the above actually exist or is the place for other things
like I do not know

I think its a matter of posting as many times as you can just for the purpose of getting your profile seen. Nobody is going to know you're looking for a chat partner if they don't see your profile

 

[Michaelcat17]

Seems you have it sorted

 

[PapaRomantic]

I think its a matter of posting as many times as you can just for the purpose of getting your profile seen. Nobody is going to know you're looking for a chat partner if they don't see your profile

Hmmm....see your profile....where have I seen this mentioned before?

 

[Michaelcat17]

Interesting

 

[Michaelcat17]

Still not

 

[Greylag]

It’s no different to RL surely? You have to find the right connection and then that you are adding value to their Lit experience. I have not been here long but feel like I am getting somewhere from time to time then on other occasions it doesn’t seem to be working. Pick yourself and start again.

 

[PapaRomantic]

One of the definitions of "idiot" is a person who keeps doing the same thing but expects different results.

Right now, this applies to you.

I and several others have told you multiple times to make a profile and advertise the hell out of yourself. I don't know how much more clear we could be about that.

I'm done with you. Tried to honestly help, but it seems you'd rather continue feeling sorry for yourself, hoping some woman will feel sorry enough for you that they will reach out to you in pity. Good luck with that.