Ezzie
Unrequited Love Slave
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- Jun 8, 2000
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Tell someone that they are being too clingy and needy?
I'm recently separated from my soon to be ex husband and a friend of mine convinced me to go out with a male friend of hers. I went out with him last friday night and now it's non stop calls, e-mails, him wanting to come over and he pouts when I tell him that I'm busy. I'm in the middle of moving and my daughter is having emotional troubles right now, so, I have a lot on my plate and this guy is pushing my limits. He got upset with me because I have to take my daughter to counseling tonight and I won't let him come over after we're back.
Now, I sort of like this guy. He's easy to talk to most of the time, he's fun to be around and he generally seems like a nice guy and I don't want to hurt him. I do, however want to get my own life straightened out before I drag someone else into it. How do I tell this guy that I need some space and time without pushing him away all together?
I'm recently separated from my soon to be ex husband and a friend of mine convinced me to go out with a male friend of hers. I went out with him last friday night and now it's non stop calls, e-mails, him wanting to come over and he pouts when I tell him that I'm busy. I'm in the middle of moving and my daughter is having emotional troubles right now, so, I have a lot on my plate and this guy is pushing my limits. He got upset with me because I have to take my daughter to counseling tonight and I won't let him come over after we're back.
Now, I sort of like this guy. He's easy to talk to most of the time, he's fun to be around and he generally seems like a nice guy and I don't want to hurt him. I do, however want to get my own life straightened out before I drag someone else into it. How do I tell this guy that I need some space and time without pushing him away all together?