How Do YOU Say Thank You?

[mayi]

We all have that someone special in our lives that we would just like to say THANK YOU, but do not know the right way. I know for women, flowers are a good start, but for men, how do you say it in a way they understand?

Is it that long looking and soft touch on the arm?
Is it a card in the mail?
A beer after work?

How do you say Thank You?

 

[sinnamongyrl]

beer after work,,,saying THANK YOU,,lol.....and if its approtpiate to your sitaution,"sex is always nice,,,,

 

[mayi]

okay that is a start! or a finish after the beer!

 

[Guttergoddess]

depends on what the thanks are for...my guy always appreciates a bj

 

[sinnamongyrl]

depends on what the thanks are for...my guy always appreciates a bj

THEY ALL DO!!! I think they teach them this in school,,,,hahhahah

 

[mayi]

oh do tell us about the BJ's he likes best!!

 

[mayi]

THEY ALL DO!!! I think they teach them this in school,,,,hahhahah

you just say B followed by a J and they are all kinds of happy!!!

 

[Guttergoddess]

I'm always partial to starting with a massage for him....though I pay someone to do it, cuz he needs deep tissue massage..not the sensual ones us girls like.

 

[de-valmont]

You know it's really hard to beat just looking a chap in the eye and saything, "thank you" frankly if I did something worthy of thanks I don't want a bj for it, a beer after work with the thank you would be nice though, but I'd kinda feel odd if the benificiary of my good deed felt that they had to reward me. Not that I dislike any form of sex, but I don't really think it's something I feel happy about being rewarded with.
Don't know if I'm a normal guy in this respect but it's my honestly held view. Hope it's of use.

 

[mayi]

You know it's really hard to beat just looking a chap in the eye and saything, "thank you" frankly if I did something worthy of thanks I don't want a bj for it, a beer after work with the thank you would be nice though, but I'd kinda feel odd if the benificiary of my good deed felt that they had to reward me. Not that I dislike any form of sex, but I don't really think it's something I feel happy about being rewarded with.
Don't know if I'm a normal guy in this respect but it's my honestly held view. Hope it's of use.

so looking the chap in the eyes with the thank you is good......how close should the two people be............so he gets the point?

 

[de-valmont]

so looking the chap in the eyes with the thank you is good......how close should the two people be............so he gets the point?

That's really down to how close the relationship you have together, and how comfortable you are in close physical proximity, and if there are any other signals you want to send. I'd say trust your gut on that one.

 

[Blue Dolphin]

In close proximity,
a touch on the arm,
a smile
look into his eyes
and say the words.

As long as you are alone, the location does not matter.

What matters is the intensity and emotion of the moment.

 

[Missingmeds]

I find that it all depends on the relationship and the man. Some I can send a simple note saying thank you. Some men I can send flowers to. Some men would prefer a phone call. And some men would much rather that it be much more personal.

And some men, would rather that I just gave them a hug and said that I appreciate them being them. Rather than actually saying Thank you for something that they have done.

 

[mayi]

I find that it all depends on the relationship and the man. Some I can send a simple note saying thank you. Some men I can send flowers to. Some men would prefer a phone call. And some men would much rather that it be much more personal.

And some men, would rather that I just gave them a hug and said that I appreciate them being them. Rather than actually saying Thank you for something that they have done.

such a wise person, thank you

 

[mayi]

In close proximity,
a touch on the arm,
a smile
look into his eyes
and say the words.

As long as you are alone, the location does not matter.

What matters is the intensity and emotion of the moment.

thank you BD............i just wish more men would respond.......

 

[Blue Dolphin]

thank you BD............i just wish more men would respond.......

Thats us guys for ya huh?

 

[mayi]

bump titty bump

 

[Guttergoddess]

I'll add a lick to your bump....

 

[thump]

I'll add a lick to your bump....

and Gutter, how do you like to be thanked?

 

[pantyhose fun]

If it's a guy - - Thanks. No, seriously, you have no idea how much I appreciate what you've done for me. I'll never forget it.

But, if it's a woman, I'll try my best to sleep with her.

 

[Guttergoddess]

I find that flowers die, dinner out goes straight to my hips, same with chocolate...if you're going to give me chocolate, make sure it's in the form of a chocolate dipped cock.....Lingerie is always happily accepted...and the night using it....

 

[thump]

I find that flowers die, dinner out goes straight to my hips, same with chocolate...if you're going to give me chocolate, make sure it's in the form of a chocolate dipped cock.....Lingerie is always happily accepted...and the night using it....

Damned that is hot.

 

[Guttergoddess]

*blush* why thank you.

 

[omahaman2]

MAYI,
You dont have to thank me!

 

[WyldBreeze]

I would thank him with the little things....calling when you know he can't answer just so you can leave a message for him....fixing his favorite for dinner......buying him and a friend tickets to the game for a "guys" night out....or just simply catching him unawares and giving him a kiss and a "thank you". Just anything to let him know that I appreciate him in my life....not just what he does for me. That's what I would want to know from him, I'm assuming that's what he'd want from me as well.....then again....maybe that's why I'm still single. lol