How do you meet other bi's?

[HypnoChic76]

I have the hardest time meeting other women. I have a steady boyfriend, and he and I have an agreement of complete disclosure, but he accpets that I am bisexual and allows me my play times. I have had gay women scorn me for having a boyfriend. I have had bisexual women tell me to choose who to be with (they always lose to my steady relationship). Its become so difficult to meet women outside of "meat market" clubs - and at 27 I don't find that fun anymore. Any suggestions?

Seeking fun in South Florida,
HypnoChic76
(see my stories on this site)

 

[seldomseen]

I have the hardest time meeting other women. I have a steady boyfriend, and he and I have an agreement of complete disclosure, but he accpets that I am bisexual and allows me my play times. I have had gay women scorn me for having a boyfriend. I have had bisexual women tell me to choose who to be with (they always lose to my steady relationship). Its become so difficult to meet women outside of "meat market" clubs - and at 27 I don't find that fun anymore. Any suggestions?

Seeking fun in South Florida,
HypnoChic76
(see my stories on this site)

great pic....try these sites
www.yourspecial.net
www.urnotalone.com

 

[RobHammer]

Have you tried personal ads or dating services? There are lots of people like yourself that can't stand the meat market club scene. Go online and look through some personal ads. Adult Friend Finder has tons of ads from women in Florida. When I read the personals in the local papers there are people looking for everything from casual frienships to full out swinging.

I live in a larger metropolotan area, and a good resource is the local GLBT comunity center. There are groups that organize activities where you can meet people outside of the club setting. Things like barbecues, hiking trips, movie nights, etc.

 

[lovelylisa]

I'm might have to try some of those suggestions, thank you!

 

[Lady Christabel]

http://www.womanline.com It's free to surf and respond, it costs (a relatively low cost) to be the initiator.

 

[blue eyed muse]

i have the same problem of not being able to have some girly playtime. i have a husband, who is bisexual as well. we have the most horrid luck, finding people to meet.

 

[Funbigirl]

Some sites for you

Try Bicupid.com and match.com

In Bicupid.com, to communicate with others, you must join. But it's a minimal fee and you can cancel anytime. There are lots of women on there looking for the exact same thing you are.

You'll be surprised how many are very close to you. You'll think you just lifted the rock they've all been hiding under.

On Match.com, you can put in that you're a woman searching for a woman with all the other search qualifications. You'll also find a lot on there.

There are sooooo many women who have yet had an experience and don't know how to meet women...just like you. Then you'll also find experienced bi women just looking to make a new friend with sexual benefits.

Oh, another just came to mind. Bisexual.org

Let me know what you think. I hope you get lucky. Give it a shot!!!

I'm in Orlando. PM me if you'd like to chat! I'd love it.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I have the exact same problem.. my man is the love of my life, and so anyone else who enters my life feels like second fiddle.. it's not because I don't care, it's just that HE is my priority...

*sigh*


This is why I've been without a woman (like a REAL LIFE, off the computer relationship) for years.

 

[ifitsfundoit]

i have the same problem of not being able to have some girly playtime. i have a husband, who is bisexual as well. we have the most horrid luck, finding people to meet.

We're a bi couple too. We use on-line adult dating services, and have had some success finding other bi couples. At least with a couple there's a minimized risk of jealously and rejection etc.

Trouble is, most couples on sites such as these are straight M and bi F. It get's very tedious sometimes.