How do you make it happen?

[eatmebaby]

OK - tell me how things get going with other girls?

I am straight in all senses of the word but owuld seriously love to have a go with another woman, but have no idea how on earth to get something going?

I have comtemplated a 3-way, but can't stand the idea of seeing my hubby with another woman - selfish eh?

Any ideas on how to determine who's into what or how to get started?

 

[chun_gong]

Well...a lot depends on where you live and who you are looking for. There are millions of places to post ads - papers, 'net, HERE (in personals). You can go to a local bar/club if there is one. Whatever you do BE SAFE!!! Would it be so bad to go up to a woman and start chatting her up? Don't presume she's interested, but you never know who might be just as 'curious' as you are...

I wouldn't say that you are selfish so much. It takes a LOT of soul searching to invite someone into your bedroom. Is this something that he knows you want? (to be alone with another woman) Might not be a bad idea to let him in on your thoughts. Otherwise, think carefully about the ramifications of getting caught and decide if it is really worth it or not.

The only way that you will know "what" someone is into is if you ask... Be up front about what YOU want - a one time romp, a fling, a discreet relationship, etc. Be honest with yourself and with her, regardless of whether she is straight, bi, or lesbian. You might be pleasantly surprised to find out how willing someone might be to "help you out".

Good luck!
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[barebacknubianf]

OK - tell me how things get going with other girls?

I am straight in all senses of the word but owuld seriously love to have a go with another woman, but have no idea how on earth to get something going?

I have comtemplated a 3-way, but can't stand the idea of seeing my hubby with another woman - selfish eh?

Any ideas on how to determine who's into what or how to get started?

Just speaking for me, there are some women I meet who I just feel like I have chemistry with. It's the same as with men; there are some men who you meet whose eyes you just need to look into for your pulse to start racing and your knees to feel weak...and there are women like that too. If you ever meet one of those, just bite the bullet and go for it!

 

[LaFemmeNicole]

Make it happen

I must admit that at first I was like you, didn't want my husband to be with another woman but I tell you what you gain makes up for any perceived loss. However, back to your original question, the way I did it was go to a club or bar that caters to women/women relationships. I knew what I wanted and when I went into the bar I looked for women who fit the part I needed. I was a nervious, figity, obviously submissive woman looking to be ravished by another woman. When the wrong person hit on me I acted uninterested, when the woman I wanted came trolling by I let her know I was hers if she wanted and at the first opportunity I made sure she knew that my interests were in pleasuring her. I wanted to be seduced but I wanted her to make the moves,seduce me, make me want to fall to my knees and worship her right there in the bar if that was what it took. It almost took that but when I did wind up on my knees she was as ready as I was.
So go where the girls are, pick the one that wants what you need and "make it happen"

 

[Kitminx]

I remember

Thank you for reminding me of the sizzling attraction I felt on meeting my (now LD) girlfriend. I've been all nervy about getting out (pun intended)finding a girl bar here, since the girls here are much subtler than in LA, but I think I'll be joining the bullet biting club and go hunting. I'd be nice to be the one approached, but if I see someone(crossing fingers) I'm going to at least say hi.
thanks for the support

 

[HotBloodFairy]

I love the suggestions on here, but I currently have a GF. As a reply to eatmebaby, you definately wanna check with your husband first. This might be a great starting point for your relationship to rekindle the flame. Sharing your fantasies with your hubby can be very erotic. My huband and I made rules about it. At the beginning I wasn't so sure about sharing either, but as time progresses our rules keep changing. We always let our partner know the rules so she knows what is going on.
Good luck on your adventures.
:Þ

 

[Xelebes]

Do what a loosely associated friend did a week ago - ask to snort some coke off another girls tits.

Or don't.