How do you handle rejection??

[Jewelz]

Im soo in a funk tonight!! LOL.....I wanna play, no one is out there to play with.....and I got rejected by my own hubby tonight cuz he "has no energy for that tonight"......

Sooo tell me, what do you do if you ever get rejected especially by those closest to you?? Do you feel hurt, lonely, pissed? And having a massive masturbation session isnt gonna help me any tonight

Anyone wanna DEFUNK me???

 

[MissTaken]

Wish that I could, Jewelz.

I am in similar circumstances.

Rejection? I take it stoically. My lip may tremble and my gaze may become intense, but I simply accept it as a choice beyond my control.

Then, I will go to bed and cry myself to sleep.

How stoic is that ????

 

[sortacurious]

ouch!

I'm with you two. In fact, I've handled rejection by giving up. I don't initiate anymore. So now, it doesn't happen often.

It is frustrating, and it hurts. But, what's a woman to do? I try not to show my reactions, but that does cause bottling of feelings which aren't healthy either.

I ask again: what's a woman to do?

 

[Jewelz]

Thanks

I appreciate your feedback....and sorry that you both are in the same boat! sigh... MissT....we are alot alike, cuz i will more than likely go ahead and cry myself to sleep tonight if for nothing more than to "get it out". And I give up on voicing my frustrations with him too. I love him dearly, but there *is* something missing and when i tell him things, its as if he isnt listening in the first place. And my god, when i DO talk, he NEVER talks with me.....just sits there quietly....at that pisses me off more!!!

Again, thanks for being on and taking the time to respond....it is helping me feel better about myself.....all night ive been thinking "am i that yucky"....i dont handle rejection well...

Hugs!!

 

[Ice Cold]

I do the same, never initiate and it is never a problem with being rejected. Of course if I had a beautiful woman hitting on me lately, rejecting her would be the last thing on my mind.

 

[Jewelz]

I do the same, never initiate and it is never a problem with being rejected. Of course if I had a beautiful woman hitting on me lately, rejecting her would be the last thing on my mind.

Our sex life is usually AMAZING....i guess i shouldnt complain.....but.... sex is like a drug to me......i need it!!!!!!!!!

 

[sexyspank]

Im soo in a funk tonight!! LOL.....I wanna play, no one is out there to play with.....and I got rejected by my own hubby tonight cuz he "has no energy for that tonight"......

Sooo tell me, what do you do if you ever get rejected especially by those closest to you?? Do you feel hurt, lonely, pissed? And having a massive masturbation session isnt gonna help me any tonight

Anyone wanna DEFUNK me???

Sounds like you're in need of a big hug.
How do I handle rejection? on the outside but occasionally a tear my roll down my cheek


Wendy

 

[sexyspank]

Our sex life is usually AMAZING....i guess i shouldnt complain.....but.... sex is like a drug to me......i need it!!!!!!!!!

I know the feeling




Wendy

 

[Ice Cold]

Our sex life is usually AMAZING....i guess i shouldnt complain.....but.... sex is like a drug to me......i need it!!!!!!!!!

I know the feeling. The one thing I can honestly say, is that no matter how much I worked,or how exhausted i was. I was never too tired to have sex. I mean it is enjoyable fun, the best way to get over work and feel good.

Plus if your needs aren't the same as his, and you want more, why shouldn't you complain? Obviously you are missing something vital that your body is craving.

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Re: How do you handle rejection??

Sounds like you're in need of a big hug.
How do I handle rejection? on the outside but occasionally a tear my roll down my cheek


Wendy

you are so sweet wendy! yes, a big hug would feel great right about now! ive gotta stop though cuz the tears are welling up and i will look insanely stupid here!

ohh ohh, i wish he was a good kisser too.. i miss being kissed!!!! after 14 years of being together, the man still doesnt get it LOL....ha! had to laugh!

 

[Jewelz]

I know the feeling. The one thing I can honestly say, is that no matter how much I worked,or how exhausted i was. I was never too tired to have sex. I mean it is enjoyable fun, the best way to get over work and feel good.

Plus if your needs aren't the same as his, and you want more, why shouldn't you complain? Obviously you are missing something vital that your body is craving.

You have no idea good it felt to read this message! Thank you! For once, I feel justified for bitchin about this issue (ie hubby/marriage). Some THINGS are missing !! and i do crave it... i hate having to constantly explain my needs, wants and desires......i just wish ONE time he would do something that i have asked, told, explained on his own accord....but i always have to repeat myself!

And like you, i have NEVER rejected him.......NEVER! even when i was VERY tired...i didnt DO much, but was still there for him.

OK>..................gonna smile now!!!!!!!!!! lol

Sorry for acting like a child!

 

[sexyspank]

Re: Re: Re: How do you handle rejection??

you are so sweet wendy! yes, a big hug would feel great right about now! ive gotta stop though cuz the tears are welling up and i will look insanely stupid here!

ohh ohh, i wish he was a good kisser too.. i miss being kissed!!!! after 14 years of being together, the man still doesnt get it LOL....ha! had to laugh!

Perhaps those tears could be kissed away. You're among friends here.



Wendy

 

[Ice Cold]

You have to forgive us Jewelz. It's the nose thing that throws us off, to the left, to the right, dry lips, wets lips, tongue, no tongue. We confuse ourselves very easy and botch the kiss more times then not. Plus add the facial hair or scruff and we're a mess.

 

[sexyspank]

You have no idea good it felt to read this message! Thank you! For once, I feel justified for bitchin about this issue (ie hubby/marriage). Some THINGS are missing !! and i do crave it... i hate having to constantly explain my needs, wants and desires......i just wish ONE time he would do something that i have asked, told, explained on his own accord....but i always have to repeat myself!

And like you, i have NEVER rejected him.......NEVER! even when i was VERY tired...i didnt DO much, but was still there for him.

OK>..................gonna smile now!!!!!!!!!! lol

Sorry for acting like a child!

Smile? Your gonna smile? I want to see a huge grin before I go to bed




Wendy

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How do you handle rejection??

Perhaps those tears could be kissed away. You're among friends here.



Wendy

ok ok........*tears streaming down cheeks right now*....honestly they are.....thanks for not judging me and my insecurities sweet lady!!! And I am grateful for the friendship here!

 

[Jewelz]

You have to forgive us Jewelz. It's the nose thing that throws us off, to the left, to the right, dry lips, wets lips, tongue, no tongue. We confuse ourselves very easy and botch the kiss more times then not. Plus add the facial hair or scruff and we're a mess.

LOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the overdue laugh!

BIG HUGS!!

 

[Jewelz]

Smile? Your gonna smile? I want to see a huge grin before I go to bed




Wendy

Just for you love and

Sweet dreams and thanks again!

 

[Ice Cold]

LOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the overdue laugh!

BIG HUGS!!

That's what we're here for silly.


{{{{{{Jewelz}}}}}} Right back atcha.

 

[lexy24]

Re: Thanks

I appreciate your feedback....and sorry that you both are in the same boat! sigh... MissT....we are alot alike, cuz i will more than likely go ahead and cry myself to sleep tonight if for nothing more than to "get it out". And I give up on voicing my frustrations with him too. I love him dearly, but there *is* something missing and when i tell him things, its as if he isnt listening in the first place. And my god, when i DO talk, he NEVER talks with me.....just sits there quietly....at that pisses me off more!!!

Again, thanks for being on and taking the time to respond....it is helping me feel better about myself.....all night ive been thinking "am i that yucky"....i dont handle rejection well...

Hugs!!

Hugs Jewelz & MissT, I've been there, I don't take rejection well, my lip may tremble, my eye's glaze with tears, then I sigh and retreat into myself, rejection comes in many forms,. advise, don't take it personal.... hugs lexy cried myself to sleep many nites....it's not worth it... hugs your both wonderful....

 

[Jewelz]

That's what we're here for silly.

{{{{{{Jewelz}}}}}} Right back atcha.

That made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.....did ya feel it too?

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Re: Thanks

Hugs Jewelz & MissT, I've been there, I don't take rejection well, my lip may tremble, my eye's glaze with tears, then I sigh and retreat into myself, rejection comes in many forms,. advise, don't take it personal.... hugs lexy cried myself to sleep many nites....it's not worth it... hugs your both wonderful....

Thanks Lexy! That is a problem I shamefully admit to.....taking things personally way too much!! And thank you doll for your compliment, means alot to hear that! Hugs n love!

 

[Ice Cold]

That made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.....did ya feel it too?

Yes. I did Thank you. Warm and fuzzy is a very good feeling.

 

[sortacurious]

Re: Thanks

I appreciate your feedback....and sorry that you both are in the same boat! sigh... MissT....we are alot alike, cuz i will more than likely go ahead and cry myself to sleep tonight if for nothing more than to "get it out". And I give up on voicing my frustrations with him too. I love him dearly, but there *is* something missing and when i tell him things, its as if he isnt listening in the first place. And my god, when i DO talk, he NEVER talks with me.....just sits there quietly....at that pisses me off more!!!

Again, thanks for being on and taking the time to respond....it is helping me feel better about myself.....all night ive been thinking "am i that yucky"....i dont handle rejection well...

Hugs!!

Anytime you need a shoulder...After reading the rest of your posts I started laughing and wondering if we are with the same partner...Or if mine has a twin out there? lol

Seriously though, I understand that feeling of "what's wrong with me?". After all, we are our own worst critics and it is times like these that it is easy to take the blame or tear ourselves apart trying to find answers. So know that it's not you. You are a beautiful, sensual, loving woman! Please don't forget that!

 

[lexy24]

Re: Re: Re: Thanks

Thanks Lexy! That is a problem I shamefully admit to.....taking things personally way too much!! And thank you doll for your compliment, means alot to hear that! Hugs n love!

Hugs Jewlez,
I'm talking from experience I took many kinds of
rejection from my ex-husband for 18 years, and took way
too much of it PERSONAL , HUGS, DON'T MAKE THE SAME
MISTAKES I DID.... XOXOXO LEXY

 

[badmatt]

Drops in to give Jewelz

and all you other ladies who're feeling rejected tonite hugs
*big huge hugs all around*
Any guy who's rejecting all you ladies is an idiot.