How do you feel sexy?

[TheEarl]

Both men and women: What do you do to feel sexy? When do you feel your sexiest? What do other people do to make you feel sexy?

This isn't a research thread per se, as I have no real story to apply it to. This is curiousity-fuelled after reading the 'I need a man/woman' threads.

The Earl

 

[English Lady]

What do you do to feel sexy?

So many things I can do, wear clothes that make me feel sexy, tight jeans, low cut top, sexy satin slip(red), pigtails and school uniform (see new story once it's accepted here!) are all options.

Take photographs of myself (or have hubby take them) to put up on my website, I feel sooooo sexy when I get comments on my photos. It's shallow I know, but ohit's nice to be lusted after!

Flash. I often flash a bit of boob or bottom to hubby as I'm pottering round the house (sometime i do it in public too and the look of lust in his eyes can't fail to make me feel sexy.



When do you feel your sexiest?

Hmm, when I am in the act, when I am the centre of someone's sexual attention.

Hormonally I ALWAYS feel reeeeaaaalllly sexy in the few days running up to my period. I can't help it. I just feel sexy then.

I guess really I feel sexiest when I am being told/shown that someone thinks I am sexy.


When I am giving pleasure too...*grins* 'cos feeling powerful is sexy

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?


Tell me I look sexy, that I turn them on, that they lust after me. It doesn't have to be in words, it can be in a look or a touch too.

Basically flirting with me makes me feel sexy.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Both men and women: What do you do to feel sexy? When do you feel your sexiest? What do other people do to make you feel sexy?

This isn't a research thread per se, as I have no real story to apply it to. This is curiousity-fuelled after reading the 'I need a man/woman' threads.

The Earl

What do you do to feel sexy?
Sometimes I take a nice hot bath and indulge myself in various skin and bath products. Also, I put on make-up and fix my hair. It's a lot harder to feel sexy now for me since I'm a stay at home mom. I used to not have to do anything material to feel sexy.
When do you feel your sexiest?
When I'm giving a blowjob.
What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
They tell me. "Scarlett, you're hot!"

 

[Guest]

I've tried to sit down and type out responses to all of these similar threads, but each one is turning into a novel. My response to the "I need a woman" one is now getting out of hand - I'm writing it out in a Word doc. Doubt anyone will ever read it, though, without falling asleep. I thought I'd try to be brief in this one, so here goes...

What do you do to feel sexy?

I honestly feel sexy most of the time. Knowing I am wanted and desired by someone I consider incredibly sexy himself sure does go a long way to making me constantly feel that way. To get that extra special feeling, I'll dress up for him, or take photos for him, or talk dirty to him on the phone.

When do you feel your sexiest?

When I'm knelt before him, or over his knee. Or, if I'm dressed in a sexy outfit (one he has specifically asked me to wear), and I see the look on his face when he first looks at me.

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?

When he tells me what he wants to do with me. When he looks at me and I know he has only one thing on his mind. When I'm just stood there and he walks up behind me, reaches his hands around me, and feels me up. When I'm over his knee and he strokes my ass, tenderly, before landing that first smack. When he's holding handfuls of my hair and kissing me deep, or forcing his cock deep into my throat.

It's that whole feeling of being wanted and being used for his sexual pleasure. Knowing that I turn him on gives me the sexiest feeling in the world.

Lou

 

[sophia jane]

Feeling sexy- there are alot of little things that make me feel sexy: wearing a new perfume, wearing pretty undies underneath my normal mom clothes, my clingy pajamas, having a good hair day. It doesn't have to be anything big, but once a little something makes me feel sexy I will feel sexy all day.

When do I feel my sexiest- I'm going to have to go with Miss Scarlett and say when I'm giving a blow job. Second choice would be when I'm on top during sex- love the look in a man's eyes when I'm riding him.

What do other people say that makes me feel sexy- I think being told I'm beautiful goes a long way to that. But lately, when someone tells me that they love my mind or my writing- that goes a long way to making me feel sexy too. Sex appeal isn't just about looks. If a man is turned on by my pervy mind, that's a great feeling.

SJ

 

[NoJo]

Both men and women: What do you do to feel sexy? When do you feel your sexiest? What do other people do to make you feel sexy?

This isn't a research thread per se, as I have no real story to apply it to. This is curiousity-fuelled after reading the 'I need a man/woman' threads.

The Earl

I feel sexy when I feel confident. But when I feel confident, I don't bother shaving or making myself look nice. So basically, I feel sexy whenever I don't look it, and vice versa.

 

[LadyJeanne]

What do you do to feel sexy?
Sometimes I take a nice hot bath and indulge myself in various skin and bath products. Also, I put on make-up and fix my hair. It's a lot harder to feel sexy now for me since I'm a stay at home mom. I used to not have to do anything material to feel sexy.
When do you feel your sexiest?
When I'm giving a blowjob.
What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
They tell me. "Scarlett, you're hot!"

Scarlett, you're HOT!!

 

[logophile]

I'm having a very unsexy day, but I'll play along. Although I really struggled with answering the questions the way they were asked for some reason, so I changed the format. I hope you don't mind.

I feel sexy:
In my knee boots (especially if I'm wearing them with a short skirt)
When I play darts
With dark red fingernails
When I'm reading erotica
In hot lingerie (my only credit card is a Victoria's Secret card)
When I'm naughty in public (bending over to pick up a dart, smacking my best friend on the ass, laughing just a little too loud, using blatant double-entendres with strangers, making sex noises in my car, etc)

I am at my sexiest when:
I'm ovulating
I'm surprised from behind with a bite on my neck
I'm giving head
I'm desired and pursued
I'm basking in my afterglow

 

[rgraham666]

Me? I dress in black. I had the whole 'Matrix' look down pat a decade before the movie came out.

When I'm pleasuring her with my mouth, feeling her clench around my tongue and shudder under my lips, listening to the helpless noises she makes as I overwhelm her senses.

And when I'm taking her from behind, her knelt in front of me working her hips. I'm not moving and she's doing all the work, wanting me that badly.

Works for me.

 

[Trinique_Fire]

What do you do to feel sexy?
Dab a little bit of jasmine oil here and there
Wear my heels, my tight jeans, my low cut shirts
Apply just enough makeup
Do my hair
Lounge around in an oversized t-shirt and boxer briefs...it drives her nuts

When do you feel your sexiest?
When she looks at me the right way
When she touches me
When she insists that I lie there, take it, and not make a sound
When I know I look good

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
See above

 

[NoJo]

What do you do to feel sexy?
Dab a little bit of jasmine oil here and there
Wear my heels, my tight jeans, my low cut shirts
Apply just enough makeup
Do my hair
Lounge around in an oversized t-shirt and boxer briefs...it drives her nuts

When do you feel your sexiest?
When she looks at me the right way
When she touches me
When she insists that I lie there, take it, and not make a sound
When I know I look good

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
See above

Twistafate should post here too.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

What do you do to feel sexy?

What I always like to do is stand behind her when we're in the shower, slip my arms around wet body and cup her breasts, then gently rub the nipples while pulling her against me, feeling myself pressing into that delicious bottom, well, those are some of the thing I like to do to feel sexy.

Rumple Foreskin

 

[Guest]

What do you do to feel sexy?

What I always like to do is stand behind her when we're in the shower, slip my arms around wet body and cup her breasts, then gently rub the nipples while pulling her against me, feeling myself pressing into that delicious bottom, well, those are some of the thing I like to do to feel sexy.

Rumple Foreskin

Rumps, that's VERY sexy!

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Scarlett, you're HOT!!

Me? Look at you!

 

[English Lady]

Aww rumple thats sexy and very, very sweet

 

[scheherazade_79]

What do you do to feel sexy?
* Take some exercise, so I have that floaty feeling in my muscles.
* Have an hour-length bath by candlelight with some really nice bath oils.
* Eat oysters
* Get a haircut from my beautiful hairdresser


When do you feel your sexiest?
When I've done all of the above. I also feel sexier when I've had more highlights and after a St Tropez tan. I feel especially sexy when I have a St Tropez and I'm lounging around in white underwear. I scrub up quite nicely, but I've also been told I look sexy when I don't take much care with my appearance - like when my hair is wet, or I've woken up with bed hair, or I'm sweating.

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
That's a difficult one, because when I feel sexy it usually tends to come from within. I feel sexy when I catch a beautiful woman gazing at me with that soft look in her eye. I also feel sexy when someone I fancy gets caught up in my stories and is listening intently to every word.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

EL and TL,

Aw, go on. You two will make me blush. Besides, I was just telling it like it is.

I find that's the best policy, not due to any latent moral rectitude on my part. It's more like I'm too damn dumb to lie, honest.

Rumple Foreskin

 

[Guest]

 

[Just-Legal]

I can feel sexy at any time, it just depends on my general mood, as well as stupid things like what I'm wearing, where I am, who I'm with... its all subjective.

I do feel particularly sexy when I'm getting ready or on a night out. Its just the whole spending ages getting prepared, knowing I look good... *shrugs*

 

[sweetnpetite]

I feel sexy when I get all dressed up for my man and he says

damn![/]

and it completly sounds like an involuntery reflex.

...same if he growls

 

[Lovepotion69]

What do you do to feel sexy?

Dress up. Not as in wearing a maid's uniform, but regular dress up, like I'm going to a party/club or similar. Suits actually make me feel sexy.
Getting a haircut. I get one maybe every 3-4 months and I love it. Makes me feel good and sexy. I'm getting a haircut this Thursday.
Long baths. Mmmm.
Dress up and experiment with self-portraits or pics for Lit.


When do you feel your sexiest?
When I'm confident.
When a man gives me the eye and shows he wants me.


What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
I remember my ex coming down the stairs at Uni. I was working in the reception and had just had a haircut. He stopped dead in his track and just stared at me. Then he suddenly turned and walked away. When I checked my email after work he had written an email telling how beautiful I had looked at that moment. He said the haircut suited me wonderfully and I looked stunning in it, but it was the that he had seen my sitting there, laughing with some students, turning to look at him and smiling at him that got him. All those things made him find me the most beautiful girl in the world at that moment. He said I had radiated both physical and inner beauty.

I guess I feel sexy when people react to me genuinely. Also react when people say things out of the blue. Can take a while for me to react though. E.g. when I brought my printer in to the local computer store. The guy fixed it quickly there and then. I asked what I owed him. He replied "A date if you're single". Wasn't prepared for that one! Before I could say "yes, in fact I am!" he smiled and laughed it off as a joke. It did make me feel sexy though looking back at it. I really should go back to that store...

 

[TheEarl]

As there has actually been a PM request for my answer:

What do you do to feel sexy?
Assuming we're not talking direct physical contact with a lady, there are two things that make me feel good about myself. The first is donning a suit. I know that I look the bollocks in a good suit and there's something about the precise formalities about putting it on and the way that it feels against my body that makes me feel twice the man.

The second is exercising in a room where there's a mirror. Something like topless shadow-boxing, sit-ups, press-ups, etc. will really get my blood flowing and the exertion will pump up my muscles. It's a little narcissistic and I certainly don't spend my time flexing to the mirror, but it's a mixture of the adrenaline and testosterone rush and the knowledge that I look sexy.

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
I am such a girl in this regard. A compliment works wonders. Simple flattery will get you everywhere. My ego can get such a boost just from knowing that I'm seen as attractive.

The Earl

 

[yui]

What do you do to feel sexy?
I wear a thong, something that rubs me in a different way from the boy-cut panties I usually wear. I paint my toenails and wear girly high heels. I rub myself with soy and rice scrub so that I'm baby soft. I run.

When do you feel your sexiest?
After I've finish running and all my muscles are working, moving so effortlessly, and my skin looks oiled and glows. Wearing my red sarong around the pool. I like how my leg looks so long and wicked exposed all the way to the hip. When I'm dancing in my underwear, or drawstring pants that are barely holding onto my hips, to something like Arab Strap or Lou Reed.

What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
Staring at me. Smiling. Talking to me. Laughing with me. Touching the small of my back. Holding my hand. Telling me I'm pretty. Coming undone in my hands or my mouth. When someone kisses me and can't quite stop, so they keep coming back biting and licking my lips.

 

[maggot420]

What do you do to feel sexy?
I wear a black, double-breasted suit, crimson shirt, black tie. I gently guide her, my hand on the small of her back and as I lean in slightly, protectively, I use my deepest voice and I almost breathe the words into her ear. I start to tell her how her beauty and grace affect me. How the very smell of her perfume, the sweet sound of her voice and the light in her eye turn the air between us into a hazy mist of intensity and warmth.
Then her cell phone usually rings...

When do you feel your sexiest?
What do other people do to make you feel sexy?
After a day of teaching karate, sparring and then taking a class with my sensei and then more sparring, I get home drained, bruised and hungry. I see her in a loose pony-tail or a cute t-shirt or even one of my old hockey jerseys and she just has to smile at me. She just has to want me a little at that moment and I feel like a god. I can think of nothing else but sex and my energy seems more intense than ever. I suddenly feel like superman. Of course, after that I usually fall into a coma.

 

[Poussin]

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