How do you choose a cock sucker?

[Reggie2xx]

I agree if they want me to suck your cock don’t treat me bad try to shame me, that’s not going to work your leaving unsatisfied and maybe bruise

 

[2tallpaul]

When your girlfriend brings one or more home and presents itself. If I find panties laid out for me, I know I'm her bitch in trouble soon.

 

[Subsy]

The desire remains but discretion has evolved. Personal compatibility is high on my needs ….reasonable hygiene…..I am an enthusiastic bottom so a top is good. Older is good…I act the girl…..he should be ok with that. The best of all worlds in one person is rare….My needs lessen depending on how long since I’ve had a good one.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I am both a sucker and suckee but don't swallow.
Findind a suitable suck buddy is a problem given my age, 71, but it seems there are a number of guys into older men.
No preference to cut or uncut although being cut myself I find uncut fascinating.
I can be slightly dom and have no interest in being a sub. Equal partners is my preference.
To many guys are aggressivel and just want blow and go. Aggressive is a definite turn off for me.
A long term friend who is also a suck buddy is my preference but very hard to find.

Sounds perfect to me... up to a point, but why on earth don't you swallow...?

 

[Biguy77578]

All this talk discussion about finding the right man sounds odd to me. I'm 71 now but began sucking and being sucked began more than 55 years ago. Of course there was no internet, no publications. Finding partners was at best by chance a neighborhood friend who had a friend. Whether a cock was cut or not never came up. VD was almost unheard of. So in short finding a partner was word of mouth and as the say beggers can't be choosers. Mostly it was discreet school friends a single young man in the hood. That said ive sucked and been sucked and more hundreds of time and it's been wonderful.

 

[Kellieskirt]

For me as a crossdresser tend to like older men my age or older just tend to be open and not expect a little petite passable creature as amazing as those creatures can be, I tend to feel more at ease quickly, the tend to make me feel more feminine which ends up well for both of us lol

 

[Hardon4u21]

Interesting thread. In my fantasy, the man approaches me. He is physically fit, outgoing, friendly and easy to talk to. I’ve thought about trying a gay bar and wondered about finding the right guy. Always worried about him being a psycho and thought if he was with friends, he is probably safer. How do you know?

 

[Justhappytobealive]

I choose mine by willingness.

 

[ElaineCD51]

Guys, what is important for you in choosing a cock to suck, or choosing a guy to suck your cock? Is it the same criteria for either? Tell us what factors you consider before you meet a potential suck buddy. First off, tell us if you are just a sucker, a suckee, or both. Do you look for someone younger, older, or the same age? Do you like a Dominant personality or a more submissive? Do you prefer married men over single men? Does size really matter?

How do you make that decision?

Let me start. I an an older man, married forever and prefer another married guy to play with. Having said that I 'prefer' another married man, I have enjoyed men who are widowers or divorced. Nothing is set in stone. A hard cock is a hard cock and needs to be serviced. I prefer men my own age, or older. Plus or minus 10 years is a good rule for me. It is just that we have more in common besides cock. I have become more submissive with age and a Dom buddy is probably best for me. Although, I do like to get sucked, it is entirely up to my buddy for reciprocation. I do like a man who takes control over me. These are all, just preferences. Being willing and able to adapt can be fun too. Oh yes, size does not matter at all. Big or small, I will suck them all. Uncut scores bonus points.

Tell us, what do you prefer in a suck buddy?

Right now, I just want a guy who wants a blowjob from me.

 

[Jacktrew]

Age (35+), hygiene, discretion, health, fitness, and willingness to indulge me.