how do you ask your lover...?

[metal_minx]

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost 3 months now and it's been good, but he hasn't performed oral sex on me. I have gone down on him and I enjoy it, and I also know he has done oral on other girls before me...how do I approach this subject? He is my first lover and I'm still new and sensitive to seriously talking about certain things with him.

Any advice??

 

[nasty1]

Hmmmm. Maybe he didn't like it.

 

[cybergirly]

Be honest, just come out and tell him that's what you want.

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

Wait 'til your fooling around and just grab his head and dunk him down there. If he tries to come back up tell him he better take care of business or you cut off the BJs. Us guys love that kinda crap, no kiddin'.

 

[metal_minx]

Before, when we were just friends, he told me about it and i got the idea he did like it

 

[metal_minx]

Be honest, just come out and tell him that's what you want.

I tried to today but I just couldn't, fearing the rejection

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

If you've been fooling around for 3mos. and he hasn't done this yet, the boy needs some kind of lessons on givin' luvin.

 

[MechaBlade]

Wait 'til your fooling around and just grab his head and dunk him down there. If he tries to come back up tell him he better take care of business or you cut off the BJs. Us guys love that kinda crap, no kiddin'.

And if he doesn't believe you, say to him MechaBlade will do it, why can't you be more like MechaBlade? etc etc.

 

[dragonhearted]

Wait 'til your fooling around and just grab his head and dunk him down there. If he tries to come back up tell him he better take care of business or you cut off the BJs. Us guys love that kinda crap, no kiddin'.

Somehow, I don't think being FORCEFUL is the way to go about it...what about while you are blowing him...just slowly, getting into the 69 position...and the minute he gets a whiff..he'll get the idea....

 

[nasty1]

I like Devil's solution. That oughta work.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

The only thing I can say, is make sure you are well-cleaned before you ask him to do this to you. Maybe he has some "cleanliness" issues?

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

way to go Bob...make the lady more uncomfortable. Any real lover likes it clean or nasty!

 

[red_rose]

Wait 'til your fooling around and just grab his head and dunk him down there. If he tries to come back up tell him he better take care of business or you cut off the BJs. Us guys love that kinda crap, no kiddin'.

I was actually going to say something similar.

Damn you.

Damn you to... oh, wait... nevermind.

 

[nasty1]

I resemble taht last remark.

 

[glamorilla]

i would handcuff him to the bed post and sit on his face.

 

[MechaBlade]

I resemble taht last remark.

lol.

man, glam is looking glamorrific tonight.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

way to go Bob...make the lady more uncomfortable. Any real devil likes it nasty!

Ok.

 

[metal_minx]

And if he doesn't believe you, say to him MechaBlade will do it, why can't you be more like MechaBlade? etc etc.

lol, maybe that would work, he comes to this site sometimes

 

[nasty1]

I gotta try & type slower. Now, everytime I say that, it turns to taht. Anyway, I'm just rambling. Nevermind the nasyman in the corner.

 

[metal_minx]

i would handcuff him to the bed post and sit on his face.

so you favor the subtle approach like Silva?

 

[Guest]

i would handcuff him to the bed post and sit on his face.

____

You man-moocher you.

 

[curious2c]

Mention different positions, then offer up a 69 in an offhand way. That would put it out there in a way that would let him have an out if he really didn't want to, but I imagine that will not be a problem. If he chooses not to then you could ask him why not, again in a non-confrontational way, keeping the door open for discussion. I, for one, would have been a bit shy at offering to do that to a girl since I had several times been put off by girls who thought that 'that kind of sex' was dirty. Boy, I'll bet some of them are missing out if they kept that attitude.

 

[metal_minx]

The only thing I can say, is make sure you are well-cleaned before you ask him to do this to you. Maybe he has some "cleanliness" issues?

i worry about that too... what should i do besides just washing like I normally do?

 

[bknight2602]

i would handcuff him to the bed post and sit on his face.

That will work, but let him come up for air!

 

[glamorilla]

also you can try shaving your pussy and make an event out of it.